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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should do whatever you feel is equally best by you and the people you care about. Meet them halfway but dont put yourself in a position to submit to people that wont do the same for you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you have any doubts of course you should leave, if you love someone you shouldn't be having sex with random strangers, it does hurt the one you love. no brainer,
adultery isn't good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabs?
yes leave fabs
So in what way are you hurting others by being on here?
not hurting anyone else"
Not sure I understand then as your OP said:
"should i stay or go seem to hurt peeps i care about" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"should i stay or go seem to hurt peeps i care about "
would shagging me annoy him??? just wondering... 
anyone feeling 'hurt' on a site like this should be able to get over it, unless its been something really serious aye, ok...if its about having sex with other people...then my main middle finger rises at that thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabs?
yes leave fabs
So in what way are you hurting others by being on here?
not hurting anyone else"
well then this a swinging site
yes some forget that but do not let it put you off staying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry if this offends o p or others who say they may leave but yes leave as no point being anywhere you not happy with.
If in this instance o p has messed up somewhere along the line hise your profile take time away till you decide otherwise if deletibg account you have to start from scratch.
Am not saying the o p falls into this category but quite a few on fab sadly threaten to leave just to get sympathy and folk say stay.
Am i too cynical maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the OP was a guy what different answers she'd be getting....."
I would like to say until I can understand why the OP want to leave then a nope from me  |
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By *ts artMan
over a year ago
Londonderry |
"we are both happy to see others just feel like shit as i hurt his feeling with something i said, as a innocent comment ,"
Its something you noth need to talk about
If it was a innocent comment then discuss why it hit a nerve with him
Were adults here arnt we |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the OP was a guy what different answers she'd be getting.....
I would like to say until I can understand why the OP want to leave then a nope from me "
Yeah I'm not understanding the OP or the vague comments dropped in along it! |
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Something I have noticed about the Leavers or Stayers.......they never actually end up leaving.
Giving advice, however well meant and genuine it is, is pointless if they have already made their mind up to stay. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
i am going to say the same thing as I say to anyone who starts threads like this...
"no one is holding a gun to your head making you stay........"
its suppose to be fun.... if you are not having fun you are not being held hostage..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something I have noticed about the Leavers or Stayers.......they never actually end up leaving.
Giving advice, however well meant and genuine it is, is pointless if they have already made their mind up to stay."
Or they are back within a couple of weeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the OP was a guy what different answers she'd be getting.....
I would like to say until I can understand why the OP want to leave then a nope from me "
This is what I mean.... People don't normally care the reasons behind it, there is often a chorus of "close the door on your way out" and other such comments..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people want genuine advise, then I suggest giving people the full story, or at least the gist of it!
Other wise, what is the point??   "
I am perplexed at this one, hurting someone but not...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the OP was a guy what different answers she'd be getting.....
I would like to say until I can understand why the OP want to leave then a nope from me
This is what I mean.... People don't normally care the reasons behind it, there is often a chorus of "close the door on your way out" and other such comments....."
Going so soon??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the OP was a guy what different answers she'd be getting.....
I would like to say until I can understand why the OP want to leave then a nope from me
This is what I mean.... People don't normally care the reasons behind it, there is often a chorus of "close the door on your way out" and other such comments.....
Going so soon?? "
That sort of thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we are both happy to see others just feel like shit as i hurt his feeling with something i said, as a innocent comment ,"
Talk to him... Tell him.how you feel. What have you got to lose?  |
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It's kind of like seeing someone standing on the roof of John Lewis and threatening to leap to their death because their chav girlfriend has left them for a bloke who works in a Wimpy bar.
I've been there on the pavement looking
up, "Jump you fucker jump!" I shout....they never jump.
I feel cheated by these type of threads, I would for once like to see someone leave....even if they do come back a week later with a new id. |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
Nr Chester |
If this isn't about meeting others and you both are happy with that understanding there's no reason to leave.
You say this is about something you,ve said to him. That's what needs addressing not stopping what you both enjoy ? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I'm thinking of leaving the site due to time wasters
I too thought about leaving due to timewasters. Then I thought that if I do then they have won. So I decided to stay and fight them."
But why leave due to time wasters? Surely it is down to the selection/naivety problems of the selector? Or maybe I just have too much common sense lol |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I'm thinking of leaving the site due to time wasters
I too thought about leaving due to timewasters. Then I thought that if I do then they have won. So I decided to stay and fight them.
But why leave due to time wasters? Surely it is down to the selection/naivety problems of the selector? Or maybe I just have too much common sense lol "
Pfffft stop being so normal  |
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