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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

who should pay the bill for dinner on a first date?????? i always do, but some men are tight and says a lady should go halfs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In this day and age of equalness, I would say 50/50, but I prefer to pay.

So I think it best if the rule be, the one that initiates the date should pay.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yeh should be both parties

i ant rich

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They guy always pays, if he's a gentleman that is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yeh should be both parties

i ant rich

try and find a cheap lady then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yeh should be both parties

i ant rich

try and find a cheap lady then

Shouldn't be too hard here.

runs for cover.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yeh should be both parties

i ant rich

try and find a cheap lady then

"
wont answer that one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The woman should pay. That lets the man know he's pulled her and they can then cut to the chase and head off back to her place for some serious humping.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd always take her for a 3 course meal, and pay for it.

After all, Fish Chips and Sauce ain't so expensive in the great scheme of things

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

For the first date the guy should pay. If the relationship progresses then you work it out between yourselves

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman over a year ago

east london

This always makes me feel awkward – like to pay for myself as that way I don’t feel like I owe anyone anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This always makes me feel awkward – like to pay for myself as that way I don’t feel like I owe anyone anything."

Very good point, had not even thought to consider that dilemma

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This always makes me feel awkward – like to pay for myself as that way I don’t feel like I owe anyone anything."

yup me too!! but if they insist they go way up in my estimation!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All depends! I like to pay but have been shot down in the past for insisting on doing so. I now assume i will be but i wont insult someone in doing so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It depends.

I have set a rule that if I drive more than 30miles away from home to meet someone, then I expect the other person to buy me a pint and a pub meal.

Less than that, I go dutch with him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well maybe because I'm of a certain age, I'm happy to pay, and feel most comfortable with that but a certain lady is very insistent so I have to let her pay her way a lot of the time!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I actually think its more a rarity these days if a guy pays.

And like wishful says...by contributing yourself , it gives you more say in how the evening works out.

I even pay half when or if going to chams and staying over at b and b .

Maybe im daft but i feel better doing it that way

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