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I've seen a ghost

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yesterday I saw someone that I haven't seen in years, someone I was very close to that made me very happy but we didn't end well, and now she's back in my life I not sure I want her there, but I haven't stopped thinking about her over the past few years, I'm so confused what do it do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only you can decide what to do...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yesterday I saw someone that I haven't seen in years, someone I was very close to that made me very happy but we didn't end well, and now she's back in my life I not sure I want her there, but I haven't stopped thinking about her over the past few years, I'm so confused what do it do?

There is a saying that you shouldn't give up on someone that you think about every day - if it's a relationship then maybe give it another crack. If its not meant to be then at least you will be drawing a line under things. There's nothing worse than the regret of not doing something.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This happens to a lot of people, me included.

Personally, I keep an eye on the reasons why we are no longer together in the first place....

Secondly, I prefer not to look back...

Good luck...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Sometimes you have to put old ghosts to bed....maybe that person wants to remain a ghost so in some words protect yourself and think is it something you want to pursue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes you have to put old ghosts to bed....maybe that person wants to remain a ghost so in some words protect yourself and think is it something you want to pursue. "

Protect yourself. Don't get hurt in the long run

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I never go back.. Forwards all the way for me but only YOU can decide for yourself what to do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In most cases, an EX is an EX for a reason..!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all have that one person who is like our kryptonite, it's hard to stay away from them, but you have to ask is it going to end in heartbreak ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This happens to a lot of people, me included.

Personally, I keep an eye on the reasons why we are no longer together in the first place....

Secondly, I prefer not to look back...

Good luck...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

stay well clear,it ended for a reason..you're only heading for more heartbreak!

At the moment you're probably on a high remembering all the good times that u had together..never look back only forward

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We all have that one person who is like our kryptonite, it's hard to stay away from them, but you have to ask is it going to end in heartbreak ?"

you're bang on!

We know someone's bad for us yet we still can't say no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I managed to put a few of my ghosts to bed!

Then I dumper em!

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

Is a bit of heartbreak so bad? The choice, I suppose, is not to take the risk and in doing so live a life if 'what ifs' or taking a chance and experience the endless emotions and situations possible.

I'm not just talking love either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you break a cup, bin it, you can do what most of us do, try and glue the handle back on, but remember when you put hot water in the cup, the handle will fall off and you will get burnt !

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By *ichaelangelaCouple over a year ago

notts

"In most cases, an EX is an EX for a reason..!!"

Exorcist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you break a cup, bin it, you can do what most of us do, try and glue the handle back on, but remember when you put hot water in the cup, the handle will fall off and you will get burnt !"

brilliant! I'll have to remember that 1

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

Have a nostalgia fuck then move on yo!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Have a nostalgia fuck then move on yo!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

EX means: Thanks for the EXperience

our time has now EXpired now

EXit my life

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for all the great advice, I have moved on, and so has she, after 7 years I kinda want to know why, but realise that if its taken us so long then maybe it just ain't worth it, I'm in my happy place and I don't really want extra complications.

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