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The elusive local bi fem!!!!
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Why oh Why can I not get a genuine bi female in my local area of Bury for lots of fun and friendship?
They are either timewasters or married and their hubbys don't know so they are paranoid about everything!!!
I am a genuine down to earth fun sexy girl.
I really didn't think it would be this hard. I think it will be easier to meet a girl out of the couples!!!
Arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!! |
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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago
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"I think it will be easier to meet a girl out of the couples!!!
Arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!! "
Well from your profile that is exactly what you are doing? You say on your profile that your boyfriend will be present at the meet, so that for sure is going to put off any genuine bi females. |
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"I think it will be easier to meet a girl out of the couples!!!
Arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!!
Well from your profile that is exactly what you are doing? You say on your profile that your boyfriend will be present at the meet, so that for sure is going to put off any genuine bi females. "
I understand yes how that would look. I only put this in as a safety net for myself as I have had a few bad experiences. He only comes to first meet which is a social the rest of the time he wont be there |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some 
For your info I have tried for at least four months  "
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag. |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag. "
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"Why oh Why can I not get a genuine bi female in my local area of Bury for lots of fun and friendship?
They are either timewasters or married and their hubbys don't know so they are paranoid about everything!!!
I am a genuine down to earth fun sexy girl.
I really didn't think it would be this hard. I think it will be easier to meet a girl out of the couples!!!
Arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!! "
Two recent meet verifications with women would contradict you..... |
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag. "
Actually for you info again!! I have been on this site for six months and I know how it works!!
I have had loads of veris on one account which I deleted but they don't account for anything.
Well for a simple question I am getting ganged up against. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm looking for fun with another female I really wouldn't want a male present, if I'm meeting a couple then Ide expect to play with a couple, you've stated how it would be but it just wouldn't suit everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
Actually for you info again!! I have been on this site for six months and I know how it works!!
I have had loads of veris on one account which I deleted but they don't account for anything.
Well for a simple question I am getting ganged up against."
At the end of the day no one is ganging up against you, you have to realise though that the discrepancies across your profile so not show you in a positive light and being dishonest will not improve your chances of meeting as if I had saw you were being dishonest I would wonder what else you have to hide. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tried chatting too some bi females in my area who have single profiles but further message's reviled that they wanted a.n.other female for them and their partners. "
Ive found this too. Starts off wanting 1-1 then 3sum gets mentioned and can the boyfriend watch etc! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's an assumption on here that women are inundated with countless messages and offers etc. That wasn't ever my experience when I had a single profile.
If you're a single looking for men and actively seeking etc. then perhaps. But as with comments above I found most ladies profiles turned out to be seeking fun with their partner rather than alone (and very often were actually men running that profile too I thought). |
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"There's an assumption on here that women are inundated with countless messages and offers etc. That wasn't ever my experience when I had a single profile.
If you're a single looking for men and actively seeking etc. then perhaps. But as with comments above I found most ladies profiles turned out to be seeking fun with their partner rather than alone (and very often were actually men running that profile too I thought)."
Yes I find this aswell and I think that is the big problem. |
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
Actually for you info again!! I have been on this site for six months and I know how it works!!
I have had loads of veris on one account which I deleted but they don't account for anything.
Well for a simple question I am getting ganged up against.
At the end of the day no one is ganging up against you, you have to realise though that the discrepancies across your profile so not show you in a positive light and being dishonest will not improve your chances of meeting as if I had saw you were being dishonest I would wonder what else you have to hide."
Well you tell me where on my profile I am being dishonest? Where are the discrepencies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your not getting ganged up against.
Questions like these normally go up shits creek with no paddle.
The best advice you got was the guy who you tore into.
Basically get some dialogue going.
But to be honest, if you come across in messages in the same way as you do here, people can kind of sense that. |
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag. "
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
The worst part about forming dialogues I have done it before and one lasted two weeks before I found out it was a male! Another bottled out cos she was scared her hubby would find out. |
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
The worst part about forming dialogues I have done it before and one lasted two weeks before I found out it was a male! Another bottled out cos she was scared her hubby would find out."
But what about the Two recent ones you HAVE met? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
The worst part about forming dialogues I have done it before and one lasted two weeks before I found out it was a male! Another bottled out cos she was scared her hubby would find out."
5 on show and hundreds hidden  |
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Get rid of the shouty caps on your profile and be honest about what you want.....are you meeting fems on your own or with your partner? It's all a bit confusing!
Having had single fem profiles in the past the key is to be patient and take time getting to know people. Join in with the forums/chat, go to socials, clubs....the list of ways to find fellow bi fems is endless. Happy swinging
Mrs Dirty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
The worst part about forming dialogues I have done it before and one lasted two weeks before I found out it was a male! Another bottled out cos she was scared her hubby would find out.
5 on show and hundreds hidden "
Ha ha the man whore he is |
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
The worst part about forming dialogues I have done it before and one lasted two weeks before I found out it was a male! Another bottled out cos she was scared her hubby would find out.
But what about the Two recent ones you HAVE met?"
One of them is now my best friend who I still see but she lives too far away and the other one moved area due to her stalker ex boyfriend. I am looking in my local area. Maybe I need to widen my search area?  |
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"Get rid of the shouty caps on your profile and be honest about what you want.....are you meeting fems on your own or with your partner? It's all a bit confusing!
Having had single fem profiles in the past the key is to be patient and take time getting to know people. Join in with the forums/chat, go to socials, clubs....the list of ways to find fellow bi fems is endless. Happy swinging
Mrs Dirty "
I have made some changes. Would you check and see if it is better now then all them people ganging up on me will back off.  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!"
Note to self. Must try harder  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am very much a Bi girl, but i wont meet another Bi lady unless there is a man attached. Lady's can kiss some guys can't (sorry) but that is how it is.
I love cock, so if i have another lady Mmmmmmmmmm nice, i need to be finished off by a man .... |
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"Why oh Why can I not get a genuine bi female in my local area of Bury for lots of fun and friendship?
They are either timewasters or married and their hubbys don't know so they are paranoid about everything!!!
I am a genuine down to earth fun sexy girl.
I really didn't think it would be this hard. I think it will be easier to meet a girl out of the couples!!!
Arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!! "
Drop us a mail . We may just have a solution and a local one at that !;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
Note to self. Must try harder "
Damn right you should, I'm still waiting for my breakfast |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
Note to self. Must try harder
Damn right you should, I'm still waiting for my breakfast "
And I'm still waiting for coffee and cookies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
Note to self. Must try harder
Damn right you should, I'm still waiting for my breakfast
And I'm still waiting for coffee and cookies "
Ooh I had cookies |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
Note to self. Must try harder
Damn right you should, I'm still waiting for my breakfast
And I'm still waiting for coffee and cookies
Ooh I had cookies"
I never  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
Note to self. Must try harder
Damn right you should, I'm still waiting for my breakfast
And I'm still waiting for coffee and cookies
Ooh I had cookies
I never "
They were well hidden , should have looked harder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
Note to self. Must try harder "
Yes and im still waiting on raspberry ripple |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
Note to self. Must try harder
Yes and im still waiting on raspberry ripple "
Another thing I didn't get haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your not trying hard enough. I know some
For your info I have tried for at least four months
Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.
You cant talk about verifications!!!
You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!
Note to self. Must try harder
Yes and im still waiting on raspberry ripple
Another thing I didn't get haha"
Awww bless...must try harder  |
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