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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
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"Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
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Interesting point. Yes I have wondered that on occassion. Mostly I wonder what the woman sees in the male ..... most times it passes me by. |
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"Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
Interesting point. Yes I have wondered that on occassion. Mostly I wonder what the woman sees in the male ..... most times it passes me by."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
Interesting point. Yes I have wondered that on occassion. Mostly I wonder what the woman sees in the male ..... most times it passes me by."
I appreciate different people have different attractions but it's when I see well toned athletic guys say in there 20's and 30's that have met women that are the complete opposite from them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality "
As shallow and bitchy as it may seem, to us sexual attraction would be looks and personality but mainly on looks. First impressions are huge and that first impression 9 times out of 10 is based solely on looks
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Second guessing why some members choose to meet (and play with) other members is pretty sad really, I mean what has it got to do with anyone else what other free thinking members choose to do?
Has all the makings of a very nasty thread.... |
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality "
As shallow and bitchy as it may seem, to us sexual attraction would be looks and personality but mainly on looks. First impressions are huge and that first impression 9 times out of 10 is based solely on looks
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good for you but what business is it of yours who others choose to play with |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Second guessing why some members choose to meet (and play with) other members is pretty sad really, I mean what has it got to do with anyone else what other free thinking members choose to do?
Has all the makings of a very nasty thread...."
Oh I dunno. Its good to know others attitudes towards people on here for future reference. |
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality "
As shallow and bitchy as it may seem, to us sexual attraction would be looks and personality but mainly on looks. First impressions are huge and that first impression 9 times out of 10 is based solely on looks
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But as everyone has different tastes,you looking at someone's veris where in your opinion a guy who is a 9 has met a woman who in your opinion a 6...but in his eyes he sees her as a 9... Not everyone finds everyone else attractive...but who cares about who other people meet if it does not effect you in any way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality "
As shallow and bitchy as it may seem, to us sexual attraction would be looks and personality but mainly on looks. First impressions are huge and that first impression 9 times out of 10 is based solely on looks
good for you but what business is it of yours who others choose to play with"
Well we always read the verifications of people that we are considering meeting and it's an observation from that.
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"Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
Interesting point. Yes I have wondered that on occassion. Mostly I wonder what the woman sees in the male ..... most times it passes me by.
I appreciate different people have different attractions but it's when I see well toned athletic guys say in there 20's and 30's that have met women that are the complete opposite from them.
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Only a young toned narcissist would think that way surely ? I mean ... wouldn't he be trying to fuck himself by getting a matching partner ? |
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i don't think its shallow to say looks matter as everyone has their own idea about what is "good looking" I'm aware that i have an appeal to some people, i look in the mirror an see some dumpy plain bird so i just shut me eyes when fucking my self lol....ref the OP, i do mine like school reports highlight the positives. when reading them i try an read between the lines lol....sometimes it more whats not said that matters  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
Interesting point. Yes I have wondered that on occassion. Mostly I wonder what the woman sees in the male ..... most times it passes me by.
I appreciate different people have different attractions but it's when I see well toned athletic guys say in there 20's and 30's that have met women that are the complete opposite from them.
Only a young toned narcissist would think that way surely ? I mean ... wouldn't he be trying to fuck himself by getting a matching partner ?"
I'd say it's more realism than narcissism
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We meet people who we feel we can be ourselves with a have a laugh! we look to see if they have met anyone (just to establish that they're genuine) when first messaging. Can't say we read feedback in any detail, as we make our own minds up.
The 'body beautiful brigade' are a major turn off for us though as we don't want to play with people that are more concerned about their hair a make up lol
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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So is the OP saying that beautiful people should only meet beautiful people, and uggos only meet uggos? How do you work out who is beautiful and who is ugly then? Do we have to ask the admin for some kind of marking system? And what happens when there are no public pics?
Sometimes I think some people have far too much spare time. |
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"Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
Interesting point. Yes I have wondered that on occassion. Mostly I wonder what the woman sees in the male ..... most times it passes me by.
I appreciate different people have different attractions but it's when I see well toned athletic guys say in there 20's and 30's that have met women that are the complete opposite from them.
Only a young toned narcissist would think that way surely ? I mean ... wouldn't he be trying to fuck himself by getting a matching partner ?
I'd say it's more realism than narcissism
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i read, some where a looooong time ago a study from some university in the states that people are attracted to those similar to them self so i get that but then there is the whole opposite attracts kinda thing. so I'd say it take all sorts to make the world go round lol....some of my past i think "god how pissed was i" an some i think "woo hoo i did that lucky cow" lol  |
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"Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
Interesting point. Yes I have wondered that on occassion. Mostly I wonder what the woman sees in the male ..... most times it passes me by.
I appreciate different people have different attractions but it's when I see well toned athletic guys say in there 20's and 30's that have met women that are the complete opposite from them.
Only a young toned narcissist would think that way surely ? I mean ... wouldn't he be trying to fuck himself by getting a matching partner ?
I'd say it's more realism than narcissism
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Agreed but it's only realism for those that think that A~ goes with A and B with B.
Some people find people who don't look like them sexy ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally i'd rather meet or shag people that weren't what you'd call 'beauty queen/kings' and be amazing people than go for anybody who are shallow, self obsessed 'pretty people' any day  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So is the OP saying that beautiful people should only meet beautiful people, and uggos only meet uggos? How do you work out who is beautiful and who is ugly then? Do we have to ask the admin for some kind of marking system? And what happens when there are no public pics?
Sometimes I think some people have far too much spare time."
No my original question is "do you think people are settling on fab to get laid?" Would people actually hook up if it were in a bar or club and not on fab?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality "
As shallow and bitchy as it may seem, to us sexual attraction would be looks and personality but mainly on looks. First impressions are huge and that first impression 9 times out of 10 is based solely on looks
But as everyone has different tastes,you looking at someone's veris where in your opinion a guy who is a 9 has met a woman who in your opinion a 6...but in his eyes he sees her as a 9... Not everyone finds everyone else attractive...but who cares about who other people meet if it does not effect you in any way"
If we all liked the same things life would be pretty boring...and I'd probably still be a virgin! Fortunately for me and many others different people are attracted to different things. I find/found all of my meets attractive but they all have very different qualities. I currently have two regular 'friends' who only have very little in common, but I enjoy meeting them both because of their differences and the different type of meet we have  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"So is the OP saying that beautiful people should only meet beautiful people, and uggos only meet uggos? How do you work out who is beautiful and who is ugly then? Do we have to ask the admin for some kind of marking system? And what happens when there are no public pics?
Sometimes I think some people have far too much spare time.
No my original question is "do you think people are settling on fab to get laid?" Would people actually hook up if it were in a bar or club and not on fab?
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Well as I've been lucky enough to meet some real hotties on here I guess they're the ones 'settling'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So is the OP saying that beautiful people should only meet beautiful people, and uggos only meet uggos? How do you work out who is beautiful and who is ugly then? Do we have to ask the admin for some kind of marking system? And what happens when there are no public pics?
Sometimes I think some people have far too much spare time.
No my original question is "do you think people are settling on fab to get laid?" Would people actually hook up if it were in a bar or club and not on fab?
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Some will settle regardless of setting for a shag! Don't think it's exclusive to fab...if anything I think more people will settle/be a victim of beer goggles when it comes to a d*unken one night stand than with someone they have gone out of their way to meet but I could be wrong |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"So is the OP saying that beautiful people should only meet beautiful people, and uggos only meet uggos? How do you work out who is beautiful and who is ugly then? Do we have to ask the admin for some kind of marking system? And what happens when there are no public pics?
Sometimes I think some people have far too much spare time.
No my original question is "do you think people are settling on fab to get laid?" Would people actually hook up if it were in a bar or club and not on fab?
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It would be so much easier picking up a hot chic,in a bar or a club,than it is on fab.
with the added bonus,you wouldn't have to give a shit about their personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to get judged alot on my looks now I dnt give a fuck beauty is in the eye of the be holder, my body is my saviour if u dnt like it it's tough shit but I know and have been told by people I have a sexy body im very confident within my skin xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not great at pulling when I'm out in the vanilla world, alsways admit that...however I seem to do well when its similar minded people(from the scene) I'm out with or shagging |
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"I used to get judged alot on my looks now I dnt give a fuck beauty is in the eye of the be holder, my body is my saviour if u dnt like it it's tough shit but I know and have been told by people I have a sexy body im very confident within my skin xxx"
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"Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
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I'd be seeking out Dr Kevorkian's services tout suite if my life came down to wondering about the sex lives of strangers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to get judged alot on my looks now I dnt give a fuck beauty is in the eye of the be holder, my body is my saviour if u dnt like it it's tough shit but I know and have been told by people I have a sexy body im very confident within my skin xxx "
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"No my original question is "do you think people are settling on fab to get laid?" Would people actually hook up if it were in a bar or club and not on fab?
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You're making it all about looks. In clubs and pubs it can be more about looks, but online you have the chance to get to know someone.
If I slept with someone gorgeous but selfish in bad and unpleasant as a person, then I'd consider myself to be settling in that regard.
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality
I want to have his babies too "
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality "
As shallow and bitchy as it may seem, to us sexual attraction would be looks and personality but mainly on looks. First impressions are huge and that first impression 9 times out of 10 is based solely on looks
good for you but what business is it of yours who others choose to play with"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think this all the time when i read veris and if im being really honest it puts me off meeting with some ppl for example id never meet a straight man whos fucked a TV because IMO he aint straight x  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality
I want to have his babies too "
You can have yellow, green or orange. If you say red we will have to have half each. There's only one left |
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"I think this all the time when i read veris and if im being really honest it puts me off meeting with some ppl for example id never meet a straight man whos fucked a TV because IMO he aint straight x "
I'm the same or some one who veri has 100 bare back pick puts me right off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think this all the time when i read veris and if im being really honest it puts me off meeting with some ppl for example id never meet a straight man whos fucked a TV because IMO he aint straight x "
does a kiss count!!...my grannys a tv |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What a bitchy thread.....
Oh come on our Jayne shush, let the bitches show themselves. "
If admitting that we won't meet someone because we don't find them physically attractive makes us a bitch then so be it but were not afraid to say it.
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
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An interesting point, but open to upsetting people on here. I think i see the point you are trying to make OP
Sometimes i do have a look at the veris and both profiles and wonder did that really happen or was it just a convenience shag.
I will say that i also look and think what has someone else got or is doing that is right and people are interested in them and not me but that is more to do with my own insecurities and unhappiness in myself than anyone else.
OP would a profile that seemed a convenience shag bother you or prevent you from meeting  |
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"If admitting that we won't meet someone because we don't find them physically attractive makes us a bitch then so be it but were not afraid to say it.
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I think it's more that you are judging what other people should and shouldn't find attractive based on your own preferences.
"well toned athletic guys say in there 20's and 30's that have met women that are the complete opposite from them."
Who's to say that well toned athletic guy in his 20's or 30's doesn't find women his 'complete opposite' attractive??
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"What a bitchy thread.....
Oh come on our Jayne shush, let the bitches show themselves.
If admitting that we won't meet someone because we don't find them physically attractive makes us a bitch then so be it but were not afraid to say it.
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You don't get it do you?.....It's got nothing to do with YOUR own personal choice in who YOU meet, it's the way that you seem to be picking apart others choice of partners/meets after reading their verifications.
And it's none of your business..... |
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"If admitting that we won't meet someone because we don't find them physically attractive makes us a bitch then so be it but were not afraid to say it.
I think it's more that you are judging what other people should and shouldn't find attractive based on your own preferences.
well toned athletic guys say in there 20's and 30's that have met women that are the complete opposite from them.
Who's to say that well toned athletic guy in his 20's or 30's doesn't find women his 'complete opposite' attractive??
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it appears that there are a lot who go for their complete opposite an i for one am very VERY grateful lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever look at profiles and look at verifications, wondering if the two parties would actually ever hook up in real life?
Or is it the case that one is just "settling" for the sake of getting laid????
Interesting point. Yes I have wondered that on occassion. Mostly I wonder what the woman sees in the male ..... most times it passes me by."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im only here to meet ppl i find attractive to have sex with is that not the point in this site afterall lol "
no it isnt, swinging should really be a community.I dont shag everyone i meet, nor do i wish to...however, if I'm at the same venue and we get chatting I'm quite happy knowing we had a good laugh.I'm quite happy to meet those outwith my sexual preferences just not for sex...though I draw the line at meeting up with guys and no female company lol
sex isnt the entirety of swinging..
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Does it matter if a 20 years want to shag a 50 year or Spartacus wants to shag a woman that has a bit of meat on her bones...it's about what they like.....I have met some bloody good looking men and they have wanted to meet me.....
There is more to life then looks. |
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"Does it matter if a 20 years want to shag a 50 year or Spartacus wants to shag a woman that has a bit of meat on her bones...it's about what they like.....I have met some bloody good looking men and they have wanted to meet me.....
There is more to life then looks."
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By (user no longer on site)
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there was a similar post to this a few weeks ago and I basically said the same thing, if anyone wants to pick apart my verifications then fine, however for all intense purposes if it puts them off that I've met fit athletic young people or bbw or age difference peoples..then fine... judge me on it? they can fuck off
I make that clear at any point, as I dont judge theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't swap my max for a six pack at all and he is older than me but he knows how I work and how to push my buttons id much rather have ann older man than a younger one xx |
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This something I've often thought about in the past. Its easy to think of swinging as 'just sex' but it really isn't, whilst I'd imagine that most on here aren't seeking long term romantic relationships, good chemistry is still absolutely paramount to an enjoyable swinging experience.
Now I'm a guy who has confidence in his sex technique, and am sure that if I could get an FHM girl into bed then I could sexually satisfy her, but that's not how swinging works, you don't just exchange a few messages on here, get an address, turn up and get into bed together - there's a degree of courtship involved, you have to chat, get to know each others a little, earn trust, and that's BEFORE you get round to perhaps swapping numbers and agreeing to meet up, whereby courtship continues, hopefully revealing that you do like one another enough to proceed onto sex.
What I'm basically saying is, whilst physical attraction is important, perhaps the biggest part of swinging is how sexually compatible your personalities are. |
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"This something I've often thought about in the past. Its easy to think of swinging as 'just sex' but it really isn't, whilst I'd imagine that most on here aren't seeking long term romantic relationships, good chemistry is still absolutely paramount to an enjoyable swinging experience.
Now I'm a guy who has confidence in his sex technique, and am sure that if I could get an FHM girl into bed then I could sexually satisfy her, but that's not how swinging works, you don't just exchange a few messages on here, get an address, turn up and get into bed together - there's a degree of courtship involved, you have to chat, get to know each others a little, earn trust, and that's BEFORE you get round to perhaps swapping numbers and agreeing to meet up, whereby courtship continues, hopefully revealing that you do like one another enough to proceed onto sex.
What I'm basically saying is, whilst physical attraction is important, perhaps the biggest part of swinging is how sexually compatible your personalities are."
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I think its also making a lot of assumptions about who is considered attractive. My taste in men veers very much toward the 'unconventional', so I hope people aren't assuming I am 'settling' because I like odd looking men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If admitting that we won't meet someone because we don't find them physically attractive makes us a bitch then so be it but were not afraid to say it.
I think it's more that you are judging what other people should and shouldn't find attractive based on your own preferences.
well toned athletic guys say in there 20's and 30's that have met women that are the complete opposite from them.
Who's to say that well toned athletic guy in his 20's or 30's doesn't find women his 'complete opposite' attractive??
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I used this as an example to try and explain my point. I'm not judging anyone on my preferences what I'm asking is that people meeting here would they meet in the vanilla world???
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its also making a lot of assumptions about who is considered attractive. My taste in men veers very much toward the 'unconventional', so I hope people aren't assuming I am 'settling' because I like odd looking men."
Same here. |
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"If admitting that we won't meet someone because we don't find them physically attractive makes us a bitch then so be it but were not afraid to say it.
I think it's more that you are judging what other people should and shouldn't find attractive based on your own preferences.
well toned athletic guys say in there 20's and 30's that have met women that are the complete opposite from them.
Who's to say that well toned athletic guy in his 20's or 30's doesn't find women his 'complete opposite' attractive??
I used this as an example to try and explain my point. I'm not judging anyone on my preferences what I'm asking is that people meeting here would they meet in the vanilla world???
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And I used mine above as a general example, not limited to people meeting on Fab. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"there was a similar post to this a few weeks ago and I basically said the same thing, if anyone wants to pick apart my verifications then fine, however for all intense purposes if it puts them off that I've met fit athletic young people or bbw or age difference peoples..then fine... judge me on it? they can fuck off
I make that clear at any point, as I dont judge theirs "
Cheers Paddy, saves me typing something similar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can honestly say that when looking at a potential guy or couples profile I may read their veris (if I think about it, half the time I don't bother), but I never go and look at the people they've met. It's of absolutely no interest to me what the people they've met look like because I am not going to be meeting those people am I?
The only reason I can see for someone wanting to do that is to compare other women or couples to themselves in a 'god he's hot but look at the ugly cow
he's shagged' kind of way. Or feel threatened if those people are more attractive. Screams of insecurity to me whichever way you look at it.
Now the question 'would they hook ip in real life' well without knowing these people well, how the bloody hell are we supposed to know that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"there was a similar post to this a few weeks ago and I basically said the same thing, if anyone wants to pick apart my verifications then fine, however for all intense purposes if it puts them off that I've met fit athletic young people or bbw or age difference peoples..then fine... judge me on it? they can fuck off
I make that clear at any point, as I dont judge theirs
Cheers Paddy, saves me typing something similar "
We all judge, were human
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"there was a similar post to this a few weeks ago and I basically said the same thing, if anyone wants to pick apart my verifications then fine, however for all intense purposes if it puts them off that I've met fit athletic young people or bbw or age difference peoples..then fine... judge me on it? they can fuck off
I make that clear at any point, as I dont judge theirs
Cheers Paddy, saves me typing something similar
We all judge, were human
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of course i judge, just not on who meets who before or after me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality "
As shallow and bitchy as it may seem, to us sexual attraction would be looks and personality but mainly on looks. First impressions are huge and that first impression 9 times out of 10 is based solely on looks
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For me the first impression is in that first message. Sex without connection is like being a whore |
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"I can honestly say that when looking at a potential guy or couples profile I may read their veris (if I think about it, half the time I don't bother), but I never go and look at the people they've met. It's of absolutely no interest to me what the people they've met look like because I am not going to be meeting those people am I?
The only reason I can see for someone wanting to do that is to compare other women or couples to themselves in a 'god he's hot but look at the ugly cow
he's shagged' kind of way. Or feel threatened if those people are more attractive. Screams of insecurity to me whichever way you look at it.
Now the question 'would they hook ip in real life' well without knowing these people well, how the bloody hell are we supposed to know that.
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Spot on! |
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality
I want to have his babies too
You can have yellow, green or orange. If you say red we will have to have half each. There's only one left"
I want a black one! |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
"I can honestly say that when looking at a potential guy or couples profile I may read their veris (if I think about it, half the time I don't bother), but I never go and look at the people they've met. It's of absolutely no interest to me what the people they've met look like because I am not going to be meeting those people am I?
The only reason I can see for someone wanting to do that is to compare other women or couples to themselves in a 'god he's hot but look at the ugly cow
he's shagged' kind of way. Or feel threatened if those people are more attractive. Screams of insecurity to me whichever way you look at it.
Now the question 'would they hook ip in real life' well without knowing these people well, how the bloody hell are we supposed to know that.
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality
I want to have his babies too
You can have yellow, green or orange. If you say red we will have to have half each. There's only one left
I want a black one! "
Haha they got eaten first ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a bitchy thread.....
Oh come on our Jayne shush, let the bitches show themselves.
If admitting that we won't meet someone because we don't find them physically attractive makes us a bitch then so be it but were not afraid to say it.
You don't get it do you?.....It's got nothing to do with YOUR own personal choice in who YOU meet, it's the way that you seem to be picking apart others choice of partners/meets after reading their verifications.
And it's none of your business....."
Glad I'm not the only one thinking this...and the phrase 'beauty is only skin deep' never rang truer here imo!  |
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"Not everything is about looks. thats why I want to marry you, you have a wonderful personality
I want to have his babies too
You can have yellow, green or orange. If you say red we will have to have half each. There's only one left
I want a black one! "
I ate all Ryan's black babies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there was a similar post to this a few weeks ago and I basically said the same thing, if anyone wants to pick apart my verifications then fine, however for all intense purposes if it puts them off that I've met fit athletic young people or bbw or age difference peoples..then fine... judge me on it? they can fuck off
I make that clear at any point, as I dont judge theirs "
I've met gym bodied porn stars, beautiful women, slim intellectual men & by the OP's theory I should only be shagging middle aged, untoned, shortsighted parents  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I'm short, fat and old. I have met short, fat and old men and tall, younger, toned men.
People tend not to go on my looks but on the sexiness of my brain. That's also how I choose to meet people. It doesn't matter how gorgeous they are (in my opinion) if there is no mental connection there will be no physical connection.
Except in a club setting where I may not be talking to them and I may have handed over the choice to someone else for a couple of hours. You'd then be judging the verification based on who the man I was with at the club chose to be his idea of attractive for me. |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
Wellington |
I have met quite a few guys on here that actually I wouldn't stand a chance of meeting in the vanilla world! I love the contrast of black on white skin, but I don't sleep with just anyone because of skin colour, his personality is of the utmost importance, I am very choosy. However I have been told many times, u don't look the type to go for a gent with a darker hue! I wasn't aware there was a type but there we go! I have that secretary or teacher look!! I get so sick of being told that but apparently that is a huge turn on for some of the guys I have met in the past!
So OP I meet on here not because it is settling but yes because I don't even get looked at in the real world beacuse of other peoples perceptions of what I must be looking for! |
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