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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

why when i say something like "i would love to fuck you"......some people dont like the word fuck, as if they would rather me say i would love to make everlastion passionate love making with you.........to me the word "fuck" in this case just means i want to give it you good and hard!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol you have a way with words! If someone sends me that in a first message I delete. If someone I know well says it to me it's a different matter!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"lol you have a way with words! If someone sends me that in a first message I delete. If someone I know well says it to me it's a different matter!

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i think km just tooooo straight to the point lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lol you have a way with words! If someone sends me that in a first message I delete. If someone I know well says it to me it's a different matter!

i think km just tooooo straight to the point lol"

lol nothing wrong with that....sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"lol you have a way with words! If someone sends me that in a first message I delete. If someone I know well says it to me it's a different matter!

i think km just tooooo straight to the point lol

lol nothing wrong with that....sometimes!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you think it might be better if you say "I want to make you come" that's straight to the point and the ladies you say it to then might think there is something in it for them lol

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By *uriouscouple34Couple over a year ago

sunderland

Have to admit I prefer someone saying I want to fuck you as I keep 'lovemaking' strictly between my husband and I x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

everlastion is stretching things a bit

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

"Do you think it might be better if you say "I want to make you come" that's straight to the point and the ladies you say it to then might think there is something in it for them lol"

Nope. Just sounds arrogant for a first message.

What about starting with hello and then making some general conversation or a reference to her profile so she knows you've read and understood it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

who said i say it on the 1st message? lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think it might be better if you say "I want to make you come" that's straight to the point and the ladies you say it to then might think there is something in it for them lol

Nope. Just sounds arrogant for a first message.

What about starting with hello and then making some general conversation or a reference to her profile so she knows you've read and understood it?

Men dont read profiles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not a fan of the word fuck in any message, why not change it slightly to " I'd like to have, deep, hard passionate sex with you" you're saying the sat thing but in a more pleasant way.

If anyone sent me a message like that, 1st or later in our chats I wouldn't continue chatting to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think it might be better if you say "I want to make you come" that's straight to the point and the ladies you say it to then might think there is something in it for them lol

Nope. Just sounds arrogant for a first message.

What about starting with hello and then making some general conversation or a reference to her profile so she knows you've read and understood it?

Men dont read profiles

I do too read....

If theres a slogan on the T-shirt or Knickers...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It seems this all boils down to the word 'fuck'. When I was younger it was considered very unbecoming to utter the word 'fuck' in the presence of ladies. But times have changed, it seems many (male and female) use the word 'fuck' in everyday conversation.

I think it's best to avoid the word in a first message, unless the profile of the recipient indicates they would not be offended.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"who said i say it on the 1st message? lol"

Regardless I would stop chatting. Unless I had met and knew someone I would be put off by that rapidly and completely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's all right to say "I want to fuck you" between people that know each other and in the right situation (usually when she's been teasing me for an hour or more and i'm ready to burst )

But not to a stranger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lol you have a way with words! If someone sends me that in a first message I delete. If someone I know well says it to me it's a different matter!

me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lol you have a way with words! If someone sends me that in a first message I delete. If someone I know well says it to me it's a different matter!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think it might be better if you say "I want to make you come" that's straight to the point and the ladies you say it to then might think there is something in it for them lol"

No that's no better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have to admit I prefer someone saying I want to fuck you as I keep 'lovemaking' strictly between my husband and I x"

Yes lovemaking is different

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems this all boils down to the word 'fuck'. When I was younger it was considered very unbecoming to utter the word 'fuck' in the presence of ladies. But times have changed, it seems many (male and female) use the word 'fuck' in everyday conversation.

I think it's best to avoid the word in a first message, unless the profile of the recipient indicates they would not be offended."

I don't swear in everyday conversation but I like it in the throes of passion

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By *rtemisiaWoman over a year ago

Norwich

"everlastion is stretching things a bit"

Everlasting! For Use of Carnal Knowledge ... Nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing wrong with the word 'fuck' however you can fuck without it being 'good and hard'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well you could say I love to have coitus with you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind someone saying that to me but not in a first message introduce your self first. Then tell me how much you want to fuck because thats what we are looking for x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whether it's the first message or not, some may be put off. It gives the impression of a lack of skill & finesse in accomplishing the task. Granted, it's to the point but we'd like a hint that the journey to the "fuck" makes us want to pack a lunch!

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I believe in Glasgow the accepted vernacular is "Do you want shagged?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's best to avoid the word in a first message, unless the profile of the recipient indicates they would not be offended.

I don't swear in everyday conversation but I like it in the throes of passion"

i never use "babe" in everday converastion- but somehow it slips out during throws of passion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nowt like beating about the bush..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nowt like beating about the bush..

sure there was a "bush " thread somewhere on here recently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nowt like beating about the bush..

sure there was a "bush " thread somewhere on here recently

Thankfully I ain't got one, so he can't beat mine..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nowt like beating about the bush..

sure there was a "bush " thread somewhere on here recently

Thankfully I ain't got one, so he can't beat mine..

Phew...smooth is perfect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know why I'm on the site...dont really need to make any statement that is obvious as FUCK to someone I've messaged

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I believe in Glasgow the accepted vernacular is "Do you want shagged?""

I'm going to Edinburgh next weekend is it the same there ?

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By *hyllyphyllyMan over a year ago

Bradford

I have that Ce Lo Green song in my head now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesn't need to be said at all really. When people agree to meet then it's quite obvious that they are interested in having sex. Even if the first meet is a social meet, it would be obvious that the people are meeting with a view to having sex on that meet or a subsequent meet.

In swinging I think the word 'play' is nice, it doesn't mean a long lasting relationship it merely is just for fun.

And why does it have to mean good and hard, that is off-putting too as some of us like it with skill and finesse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just don't say I want to fuck you (up)

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By *mumaWoman over a year ago

Livingston

"I believe in Glasgow the accepted vernacular is "Do you want shagged?"

I'm going to Edinburgh next weekend is it the same there ?

Edinburgh is posher, they say "shall we do the deed?"

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