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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

what is it with people who think theyre it! cos we said no to a black guy he calls me a gimp and i should let the missus have a proper dick basically..its people like that who put us off!

no offence to black people,there are some good looking lads/gals on here its just not her thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people take rejection as a personal insult rather than for what it really is - a 'no thanks' based on personal preference!

Don't sweat it - for as many dickheads there are out there who think being on here is carte Blanche to them getting jiggy with anyone they message - there are those that accept a decline in good grace and will not resort to throwing toys out of the pram!!

Good luck, put it down to their problem not yours and keep enjoying the joys of Fab!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people just havnt grown up he probably would of cancelled anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people take rejection as a personal insult rather than for what it really is - a 'no thanks' based on personal preference!

Good luck, put it down to their problem not yours and keep enjoying the joys of Fab!!!

Being a DickHead ain't much fun either, I'm sick of woman trying to sitting on my shoulders

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get called a racist often when saying no thanks to black guys....I'm happy to meet black people, just as I am white people. Have met and had fun with black guys before and will again if I am attracted to them. Same rules apply for everyone.

Some people just seem to get overly defensive if you knock them back. And then of course there's that all too common reply...."I don't like fat birds anyway" ummmm......why did you message me then fucktard????

That felt good....I do like a good rant

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people take rejection as a personal insult rather than for what it really is - a 'no thanks' based on personal preference!

Good luck, put it down to their problem not yours and keep enjoying the joys of Fab!!!

thanks

there are alot of genuine people who take a no thanks,just the ones who get personol dont. were not gods gift and understand were not to everyones taste,but it does annoy you when you get messages like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people take rejection as a personal insult rather than for what it really is - a 'no thanks' based on personal preference!

Good luck, put it down to their problem not yours and keep enjoying the joys of Fab!!!

Being a DickHead ain't much fun either, I'm sick of woman trying to sitting on my shoulders

I wouldn't dare!

(but only cos I wouldn't wanna kill you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get called a racist often when saying no thanks to black guys....I'm happy to meet black people, just as I am white people. Have met and had fun with black guys before and will again if I am attracted to them. Same rules apply for everyone.

exactly that. dont get me wrong she does like good looking black guys

but as for playing its a simple no.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"what is it with people who think theyre it! cos we said no to a black guy he calls me a gimp and i should let the missus have a proper dick basically..its people like that who put us off!

no offence to black people,there are some good looking lads/gals on here its just not her thing."

You're post doesn't need to mention the persons colour.

Would you say something like .....'I rejected a white guy! No offence white guys. There are some good looking white people' ...... yada yada ???

Re think this ......it's racist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people take rejection as a personal insult rather than for what it really is - a 'no thanks' based on personal preference!

Good luck, put it down to their problem not yours and keep enjoying the joys of Fab!!!

Being a DickHead ain't much fun either, I'm sick of woman trying to sitting on my shoulders

I wouldn't dare!

(but only cos I wouldn't wanna kill you

You can sit on my shoulders anytime

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I should add....

I accept your argument re preferences.

It's the accusation that his behaviour in his reply is down to colour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people take rejection as a personal insult rather than for what it really is - a 'no thanks' based on personal preference!

Good luck, put it down to their problem not yours and keep enjoying the joys of Fab!!!

Being a DickHead ain't much fun either, I'm sick of woman trying to sitting on my shoulders

I wouldn't dare!

(but only cos I wouldn't wanna kill you

)

You can sit on my shoulders anytime

oh my!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

we aint racist at all! its all down to preference and taste! so its ok to talk about a bbc? or even a bbw?

we havnt put 'whites only' on our profile,who do you think we are??

as i said its down to prefernce and teaste and when someone gets a polite no thankis and comes back thinking he is gods gift,winds me up!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"we aint racist at all! its all down to preference and taste! so its ok to talk about a bbc? or even a bbw?

we havnt put 'whites only' on our profile,who do you think we are??

as i said its down to prefernce and teaste and when someone gets a polite no thankis and comes back thinking he is gods gift,winds me up!"

I didn't say you were racist. I said some of your comments in your O.P were racist.

I didn't mention your profile.

I don't know who you are so there is little point in asking me.

I agreed that preference rules.

There was no need at all to mention his colour. As you have mentioned his colour it sends out the message that it's his colour rather than his attitude that you find problematic.

You would not have condemned white people for a single reply from a white bloke. You might have called a white guy a wind up or a nark or similar but you wouldn't have mentioned their colour.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple over a year ago

Manchester

"we aint racist at all! its all down to preference and taste! so its ok to talk about a bbc? or even a bbw?

we havnt put 'whites only' on our profile,who do you think we are??

as i said its down to prefernce and teaste and when someone gets a polite no thankis and comes back thinking he is gods gift,winds me up!

I didn't say you were racist. I said some of your comments in your O.P were racist.

I didn't mention your profile.

I don't know who you are so there is little point in asking me.

I agreed that preference rules.

There was no need at all to mention his colour. As you have mentioned his colour it sends out the message that it's his colour rather than his attitude that you find problematic.

You would not have condemned white people for a single reply from a white bloke. You might have called a white guy a wind up or a nark or similar but you wouldn't have mentioned their colour."

yeah, if you just take out the word "black" from the OP then it still makes sense and gets the point across that rejected people bite back. The word "black" was not needed, so you have to wonder why it was put in in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yay racists!! Race race race

Don't sweat it and just block him. You're not racist for not wanting to sleep with a black man. On that logic you're racist for not fucking your coloured friends! Silly.

Stick with it guys, and use that block!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

apologies for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yay racists!! Race race race

Don't sweat it and just block him. You're not racist for not wanting to sleep with a black man. On that logic you're racist for not fucking your coloured friends! Silly.

Stick with it guys, and use that block!! "

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By *ancatMan over a year ago

Norwich

I find that there are a fue people on here that have a.chip on there shoulder and do not understand the word no and for some reason take it personal when some one says no and nocks the chip off there shoulder and use any thing to justify there chip on there shoulder being knocked off.

I don't care if some one is white blue.black or yellow. It the person thay are that matters not there skin tone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That felt good....I do like a good rant

I get that all to often " was only messaging you coz your fat & obviously desperate" type responses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some ppl just don't take rejection well. It's your preference so don't sweat it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yay racists!! Race race race

Don't sweat it and just block him. You're not racist for not wanting to sleep with a black man. On that logic you're racist for not fucking your coloured friends! Silly.

Stick with it guys, and use that block!! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... he calls me a gimp and i should let the missus have a proper dick basically..its people like that who put us off! ....

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

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