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hope she takes him for loads .. we only see the pix from the paper ..and shes always nice as pie on the telly... supposing she was giving him a slap in private away from the public .... maybe he had done it before and she wamted him caught on camera |
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over a year ago
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Hope she doesn't take a penny from him. She does not need his money and it would be the ultimate snub.
She is an independent powerful and empowered woman, hopefully she'll follow through with her character. |
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"Hope she doesn't take a penny from him. She does not need his money and it would be the ultimate snub.
She is an independent powerful and empowered woman, hopefully she'll follow through with her character."
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"Divorce to be pronounced tomorrow. She has petitioned for unreasonable behaviour but only heard about the divorce plans in the press. That's confusing.
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The way I understood it when I read it was that she filed for divorce but he was claiming in the press that he was divorcing her. He was trying to make it appear that he was in control of the situation when in fact she had filed the papers.
Just my opinion but sounds like an emotional abuse situation. Gaslighting.  |
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"hope she takes him for loads .. "
I heard a week or two ago that neither is seeking a financial settlement from the other as they are independently wealthy, hence they've been able to get a quickie divorce. That may have changed, depending if one or other side had been influenced by the lawyers...
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All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back. |
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"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back."
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The bit that astounded me the most was he grabbed her by the throat in public and then goes to the press saying she should of done more to protect his reputation |
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"The bit that astounded me the most was he grabbed her by the throat in public and then goes to the press saying she should of done more to protect his reputation"
That's what makes me think emotional abuse. He won't accept responsibility and blames her.
She's very lucky she's been able to leave. Hope the papers treat her kindly because emotional scars last much longer than bruises. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Divorce to be pronounced tomorrow. She has petitioned for unreasonable behaviour but only heard about the divorce plans in the press. That's confusing.
The way I understood it when I read it was that she filed for divorce but he was claiming in the press that he was divorcing her. He was trying to make it appear that he was in control of the situation when in fact she had filed the papers.
Just my opinion but sounds like an emotional abuse situation. Gaslighting. "
That makes sense. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back."
Keep your daughter clear that real men behave as you describe. Idiots are lacking the strength of character to treat women as equal people. |
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Absolutely detest any talk of "take him/her to the cleaners". If a relationship breaks down why does it always have to boil down to how much you can take from the other side.....sigh ! |
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"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back."
Spot on. You could have been writing that post about my life before and After meeting Ant!!!
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Part of me feels that she is only doing so after the recent throat incident and because of the publicity surrounding it."
It IS a bit hard to believe that the first time this occurred just happened to be in public and someone just happened to take a photograph. |
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"Part of me feels that she is only doing so after the recent throat incident and because of the publicity surrounding it."
How long has he been doing stuff like that to her ? and what more could be going on at home .? I bet a lot he looks a controller . She maybe thinks it was her place as a good wife , and have very old fashioned values and been putting up with it all.
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Part of me feels that she is only doing so after the recent throat incident and because of the publicity surrounding it."
Perhaps the publicity is what made her wake up to what was happening. |
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"Part of me feels that she is only doing so after the recent throat incident and because of the publicity surrounding it.
Perhaps the publicity is what made her wake up to what was happening. "
Yes but I also feel it could be pressure she feels to do the right thing.
We have no idea of the dynamics of their relationship, only what has been photographed and speculation, for all we know she may well still be together with him or if not in the future. |
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"Part of me feels that she is only doing so after the recent throat incident and because of the publicity surrounding it.How long has he been doing stuff like that to her ? and what more could be going on at home .? I bet a lot he looks a controller . She maybe thinks it was her place as a good wife , and have very old fashioned values and been putting up with it all."
Yes could be the case but it is speculation and even though I believe he was in the wrong and not acceptable behaviour it is all mere conjecture. |
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"Part of me feels that she is only doing so after the recent throat incident and because of the publicity surrounding it.
Perhaps the publicity is what made her wake up to what was happening. "
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"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back."
I'm sorry I may be miss reading this post but are you saying you would steal another man's wife given half the chance? If so I would say your not a man to be looked up to at all? |
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"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back.
I'm sorry I may be miss reading this post but are you saying you would steal another man's wife given half the chance? If so I would say your not a man to be looked up to at all? "
I read it that he'd be rescuing her. Not stealing her.
I didn't think he meant he'd steal someone's wife, that's different. Just the way I read it. |
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"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back.
I'm sorry I may be miss reading this post but are you saying you would steal another man's wife given half the chance? If so I would say your not a man to be looked up to at all?
I read it that he'd be rescuing her. Not stealing her.
I didn't think he meant he'd steal someone's wife, that's different. Just the way I read it."
What I am saying is for every arshole that mistreats a woman there is a guy who will give her the love and respect she deserves, im not about stealing someone's wife, if I meet a couple on here that is because they want to meet me, it is a rule of mine that I won't meet with one half of a couple without at least chating to the male half to make sure it's ok I'm just looking for a good time not to ruin anyone's life, but reading back my post I can see how it could have been read that way and if someone had written something meaning it that way I would have had to agree. |
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"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back."
The responsibility is also on mothers to show their kids, sons and daughters, that a woman doesn't need to put up with such treatment, there is always a choice to leave |
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"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back.
The responsibility is also on mothers to show their kids, sons and daughters, that a woman doesn't need to put up with such treatment, there is always a choice to leave"
Quite right |
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"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back.
The responsibility is also on mothers to show their kids, sons and daughters, that a woman doesn't need to put up with such treatment, there is always a choice to leave"
Why Just mothers. Fathers aren't capable of teaching kids these lessons as well? I guess all the single father families are screwed then. |
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"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back.
The responsibility is also on mothers to show their kids, sons and daughters, that a woman doesn't need to put up with such treatment, there is always a choice to leave"
If only it was that easy to leave. |
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"All I have to say on the matter is if you treat a woman like that there are a thousand men waiting to treat her right, call me old fashioned and it might just be that I was bought up by strong women, but a woman no matter what they say or do to hurt you, should never be physically hurt by a man, a man who does that to a woman is not a real man, the way I look at it is that I have a daughter, and I am her male role model, so if I treat a woman like shit, that's just telling her that a man can treat her like shit, so guys think on, if you teat your missis like shit there is a guy like me in every street in every town just waiting to treat her like a princess, and if that happens you ain't never getting her back.
The responsibility is also on mothers to show their kids, sons and daughters, that a woman doesn't need to put up with such treatment, there is always a choice to leave
Why Just mothers. Fathers aren't capable of teaching kids these lessons as well? I guess all the single father families are screwed then. "
Do you know I could have sworn that fathers had been covered in this thread as I always say that cos I am my daughters male role model I am the one that teaches her how she should be treated, by how I treat her mother, even though we are divorced I still treat her with respect, and we talk to each other when it comes to our daughters welfare she ain't a bad old stick lol and were better friends now than when we were married, her new husband is..... No other way of putting it a nice guy lol so we can keep arguments away from my daughter and concentraight on her growth as a well rounded individual something that wouldn't happen if I slaged her mother off or worse |
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I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for years ... even after Id had my daughter I still stayed for 3 years , because he had made me feel so bloody worthless that I actually thought he was the best option. I was homeless before I met him - telling me I would have been dead if it wasn't for him .. quite a powerful statement to make to an unstable woman !!!
Anyway - its not easy to go but we did and we left with 2 carrier bags and our clothes. I asked for nothing - I signed the house over to him.
Emotional abuse leaves more than just scars - it stays with you.
I left before my daughter could see what he was doing ... its not always that easy and we should remember that |
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"I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for years ... even after Id had my daughter I still stayed for 3 years , because he had made me feel so bloody worthless that I actually thought he was the best option. I was homeless before I met him - telling me I would have been dead if it wasn't for him .. quite a powerful statement to make to an unstable woman !!!
Anyway - its not easy to go but we did and we left with 2 carrier bags and our clothes. I asked for nothing - I signed the house over to him.
Emotional abuse leaves more than just scars - it stays with you.
I left before my daughter could see what he was doing ... its not always that easy and we should remember that "
That's powerful stuff you seem stronger now, I hope that's the case anyway |
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"I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for years ... even after Id had my daughter I still stayed for 3 years , because he had made me feel so bloody worthless that I actually thought he was the best option. I was homeless before I met him - telling me I would have been dead if it wasn't for him .. quite a powerful statement to make to an unstable woman !!!
Anyway - its not easy to go but we did and we left with 2 carrier bags and our clothes. I asked for nothing - I signed the house over to him.
Emotional abuse leaves more than just scars - it stays with you.
I left before my daughter could see what he was doing ... its not always that easy and we should remember that "
Hugs xxxxx |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for years ... even after Id had my daughter I still stayed for 3 years , because he had made me feel so bloody worthless that I actually thought he was the best option. I was homeless before I met him - telling me I would have been dead if it wasn't for him .. quite a powerful statement to make to an unstable woman !!!
Anyway - its not easy to go but we did and we left with 2 carrier bags and our clothes. I asked for nothing - I signed the house over to him.
Emotional abuse leaves more than just scars - it stays with you.
I left before my daughter could see what he was doing ... its not always that easy and we should remember that "
Similar to my situation. He's had nothing to do with his daughter really since she was 12 as a means to punish me. Never had a penny from him and struggled for years. |
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"I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for years ... even after Id had my daughter I still stayed for 3 years , because he had made me feel so bloody worthless that I actually thought he was the best option. I was homeless before I met him - telling me I would have been dead if it wasn't for him .. quite a powerful statement to make to an unstable woman !!!
Anyway - its not easy to go but we did and we left with 2 carrier bags and our clothes. I asked for nothing - I signed the house over to him.
Emotional abuse leaves more than just scars - it stays with you.
I left before my daughter could see what he was doing ... its not always that easy and we should remember that
That's powerful stuff you seem stronger now, I hope that's the case anyway"
I am .. Im not the same person I was 4 years ago. |
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"I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for years ... even after Id had my daughter I still stayed for 3 years , because he had made me feel so bloody worthless that I actually thought he was the best option. I was homeless before I met him - telling me I would have been dead if it wasn't for him .. quite a powerful statement to make to an unstable woman !!!
Anyway - its not easy to go but we did and we left with 2 carrier bags and our clothes. I asked for nothing - I signed the house over to him.
Emotional abuse leaves more than just scars - it stays with you.
I left before my daughter could see what he was doing ... its not always that easy and we should remember that
Hugs xxxxx"
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"I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for years ... even after Id had my daughter I still stayed for 3 years , because he had made me feel so bloody worthless that I actually thought he was the best option. I was homeless before I met him - telling me I would have been dead if it wasn't for him .. quite a powerful statement to make to an unstable woman !!!
Anyway - its not easy to go but we did and we left with 2 carrier bags and our clothes. I asked for nothing - I signed the house over to him.
Emotional abuse leaves more than just scars - it stays with you.
I left before my daughter could see what he was doing ... its not always that easy and we should remember that
Similar to my situation. He's had nothing to do with his daughter really since she was 12 as a means to punish me. Never had a penny from him and struggled for years."
His loss ... certainly not yours or your daughters |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for years ... even after Id had my daughter I still stayed for 3 years , because he had made me feel so bloody worthless that I actually thought he was the best option. I was homeless before I met him - telling me I would have been dead if it wasn't for him .. quite a powerful statement to make to an unstable woman !!!
Anyway - its not easy to go but we did and we left with 2 carrier bags and our clothes. I asked for nothing - I signed the house over to him.
Emotional abuse leaves more than just scars - it stays with you.
I left before my daughter could see what he was doing ... its not always that easy and we should remember that
Similar to my situation. He's had nothing to do with his daughter really since she was 12 as a means to punish me. Never had a penny from him and struggled for years.
His loss ... certainly not yours or your daughters "
Yeah. Ironically he contacted her earlier this year. Shes 31 now. Fed her some sob story about his wife having an affair and he's getting divorced. Turned out he was looking for her to put him up!! She declined naturally |
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"I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for years ... even after Id had my daughter I still stayed for 3 years , because he had made me feel so bloody worthless that I actually thought he was the best option. I was homeless before I met him - telling me I would have been dead if it wasn't for him .. quite a powerful statement to make to an unstable woman !!!
Anyway - its not easy to go but we did and we left with 2 carrier bags and our clothes. I asked for nothing - I signed the house over to him.
Emotional abuse leaves more than just scars - it stays with you.
I left before my daughter could see what he was doing ... its not always that easy and we should remember that
Similar to my situation. He's had nothing to do with his daughter really since she was 12 as a means to punish me. Never had a penny from him and struggled for years.
His loss ... certainly not yours or your daughters
Yeah. Ironically he contacted her earlier this year. Shes 31 now. Fed her some sob story about his wife having an affair and he's getting divorced. Turned out he was looking for her to put him up!! She declined naturally"
A user and manipulator with no where to go. Karma has a way of doing beautiful things to not so nice people x |
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