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Lovers and real Passion ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Come on own up.Are you here looking for that too ? Not just a leg over. ? Is fab the New Dating sex site to a lot now ? I know some of the married ones got all that ..   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Looking for a lover with passion, not love and romance here "
One time swinging was about cold hard sex and not knowing if you would ever see them again ... lol is it changing and more like dating site and just more open about the sex? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with passion in swinging
Passion does'nt equal any sort of attachment  "
I just cant feel passion for people i don't really know as just good in bed , lol when you feel it you know its there don't you .. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for a lover with passion, not love and romance here One time swinging was about cold hard sex and not knowing if you would ever see them again ... lol is it changing and more like dating site and just more open about the sex? "
I think there are many people on here still looking for cold, hard sex with many one off's. I think there are more people now looking for swinging partner/life partners who enjoy sex. Then there is some like me, who want regular, without commitment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for a lover with passion, not love and romance here One time swinging was about cold hard sex and not knowing if you would ever see them again ... lol is it changing and more like dating site and just more open about the sex?
I think there are many people on here still looking for cold, hard sex with many one off's. I think there are more people now looking for swinging partner/life partners who enjoy sex. Then there is some like me, who want regular, without commitment. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The regular without commitment, is not an easy one though I have to say, mine don't usually last beyond a few months. The fine line gets crossed, and the other half wants to take it to a relationship. Nice while it lasts though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with passion in swinging
Passion does'nt equal any sort of attachment "
You have to have passion when it comes to sex, if people were pieces of bread, passion would be the jam x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe people know its risky and so for some its better to know the person ... But trust is hard as its like a candy shop here a lot on offer ,"
And we all know how much you like candy Jo  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe people know its risky and so for some its better to know the person ... But trust is hard as its like a candy shop here a lot on offer ,
And we all know how much you like candy Jo "
popping candy , lol pick and mix .. x |
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"The regular without commitment, is not an easy one though I have to say, mine don't usually last beyond a few months. The fine line gets crossed, and the other half wants to take it to a relationship. Nice while it lasts though."
I've been fortunate I have three I've been seeing for six years. What works for me is not seeing them more than four times a year each with other playmates in between.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The regular without commitment, is not an easy one though I have to say, mine don't usually last beyond a few months. The fine line gets crossed, and the other half wants to take it to a relationship. Nice while it lasts though."
I crossed the fine line once. developed feelings and finito
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally its all about the passion for me ! There has to be a connection ! Other wise I may as well play alone ! Like some one said I'm looking for a few (greedy girl lol) lovers! Not to fall in love with anyone ! Do feel like a bit of a fraud sometimes as I would not really class my self as a 'swinger' but this site works for me and the people I meet ! I think as long as everyone's honest about what they want then there is room for all needs here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not looking to date anyone but I.do like passion when having sex I've never been a may there and think of England who said swinging can't involve lots of passion . |
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I think (tony) swinging is evolving. Yes we started for cold NSA sex. I think the more comfortable you get and the older you get you look for different things. For us, friendship, weekends away with couples just adds to the already stable relationship. I'm not looking to run off with anyone, just to enjoy myself while I can. No it's not just about a quick shag anymore. It's about quality of life as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The regular without commitment, is not an easy one though I have to say, mine don't usually last beyond a few months. The fine line gets crossed, and the other half wants to take it to a relationship. Nice while it lasts though.
I've been fortunate I have three I've been seeing for six years. What works for me is not seeing them more than four times a year each with other playmates in between.
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Yipes, where do you find more than one compatible, truly single man on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally its all about the passion for me ! There has to be a connection ! Other wise I may as well play alone ! Like some one said I'm looking for a few (greedy girl lol) lovers! Not to fall in love with anyone ! Do feel like a bit of a fraud sometimes as I would not really class my self as a 'swinger' but this site works for me and the people I meet ! I think as long as everyone's honest about what they want then there is room for all needs here "
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The regular without commitment, is not an easy one though I have to say, mine don't usually last beyond a few months. The fine line gets crossed, and the other half wants to take it to a relationship. Nice while it lasts though. I crossed the fine line once. developed feelings and finito"
Partly I am to blame when the other seeks to take it to a relationship. I fall very easily into 'wife mode', which gives out the wrong signals. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong with passion in swinging
Passion does'nt equal any sort of attachment
You have to have passion when it comes to sex, if people were pieces of bread, passion would be the jam x"
totally agree  |
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I am not here looking for anything....I have met a few that i have instantly clicked with and speaking to one at the moment that is just different....However I would never look for a relationship....If it finds me on here then of course id not turn my nose up at it. |
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There are quite a few that do not want a conventional relationship for one of many reasons, but still require a connection. Sites like fab can fill the need and serves a need in some. Sex is always great when passion is involved, knowing the buttons that need pressing, but also can be great fun finding them on a new person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I do think the dating thing has changed for a lot now and there needs .. why theres a real mix on here .. looking for different things and different way to meet .. why maybe a lot like the vanilla sort of meets as can get to know people without the sex first . Drink and a flirt and a we will see .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong with passion in swinging
Passion does'nt equal any sort of attachment "
^^^ this. I look for a connection with the man I meet and hope for a bit of passion as well but that doesn't mean I want attachement. I doubt I'd find that on a swinging site anyway as Im not looking for it on here! |
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