 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
If something was good, got a bit intense messy and a bit fucked up!(fucked it up meaning stiring and one or two mind games)
would you go back and see if its still there and could it be good again or walk away?
(btw this is not site related) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
No I wouldn't but I have known people who go back to this type of relationship time and time again because they crave the mind games and sometimes (I emphasise that word) encourage and take part in them it does take at least two to play most games after all.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"No I wouldn't but I have known people who go back to this type of relationship time and time again because they crave the mind games and sometimes (I emphasise that word) encourage and take part in them it does take at least two to play most games after all. "
 and it can be a thrill but is it worth it in the long run |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"No I wouldn't but I have known people who go back to this type of relationship time and time again because they crave the mind games and sometimes (I emphasise that word) encourage and take part in them it does take at least two to play most games after all. "
it wasnt a relationship just friends x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Walk away is my rule from now on, tried going back and has never worked. Then for me I feel so much worse the second time round for letting yourself back in, always seems so much more messy too.
The mind protects itself too so it glosses over the initial problems and makes them seem not so bad over time. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
No, I wouldn't go back..
I had something similar a few years ago and have to remind myself of why I walked away when I'm tempted. Self preservation kicks in..  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No I wouldn't but I have known people who go back to this type of relationship time and time again because they crave the mind games and sometimes (I emphasise that word) encourage and take part in them it does take at least two to play most games after all.
it wasnt a relationship just friends x"
For me it still counts even when a friend |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"No I wouldn't but I have known people who go back to this type of relationship time and time again because they crave the mind games and sometimes (I emphasise that word) encourage and take part in them it does take at least two to play most games after all.
it wasnt a relationship just friends x"
I see but I think it still applies, a fruendship is a relationship and if it was messy and invovled minds games my advice would still be the same. If you want to go back then do but I wouldn't |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Once a game player, always a game player.
Sorry honey, but unless you can accept the games then walk away."
^^^ Exactly this. You know the saying 'A leopard never changes his spots'. It'll never be the same the second time round. Walk away! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No I wouldn't but I have known people who go back to this type of relationship time and time again because they crave the mind games and sometimes (I emphasise that word) encourage and take part in them it does take at least two to play most games after all.
it wasnt a relationship just friends x"
If it's just friends is it worth putting up with?
I have had relationships like this and felt there was something there and gone back only to have the same outcome. I suggest you find someone new whether for friends or more |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Walk away is my rule from now on, tried going back and has never worked. Then for me I feel so much worse the second time round for letting yourself back in, always seems so much more messy too.
The mind protects itself too so it glosses over the initial problems and makes them seem not so bad over time."
Yes me too |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
