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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've often said, that if you enjoy kissing a person, then chances are the sex will be good aswell. I'd often thought that some people just weren't good kissers - you move in with your lips, and they always seem to open their mouths at just the wrong moment so you end up kissing a load of thin air, and your lip movements seem to be totally out of sync with one another no matter how much you slow down or speed up in an attempt to match them.
Then you have people who the moment you move in to kiss them, their lips seems to attract yours almost like a magnet, a tight, warm, passionate kiss that feels almost like sliding two jigsaw pieces together. Its during such a kiss that I can feel the blood rushing to my cock, and from the way the lady will typically move in and embrace tighter, I'd imagine they feel the same - I don't think I've ever kissed a woman this way where the following sex wasn't equally lovely.
It got me thinking, do you suppose that some people aren't necessarily 'bad' at kissing, more that kisses are an indicator of your sexual 'rhythm', and if it doesn't match someone elses then you've a low chance of being sexually compatible? |
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By *eizvollWoman
over a year ago
in my own little world :-) |
I think there are both - bad kissers who really haven't got a clue, and nor do they want to learn, and those who are great at kissing (or so they've been told by others) just not compatible.
Kissing can be synchronised sometimes - it depends on the willingness of the participants  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think there are both - bad kissers who really haven't got a clue, and nor do they want to learn, and those who are great at kissing (or so they've been told by others) just not compatible."
But have you ever kissed someone and enjoyed it, then found you weren't sexually compatible? |
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By *eizvollWoman
over a year ago
in my own little world :-) |
"I think there are both - bad kissers who really haven't got a clue, and nor do they want to learn, and those who are great at kissing (or so they've been told by others) just not compatible.
But have you ever kissed someone and enjoyed it, then found you weren't sexually compatible?"
No - but I have found I was sexually compatible with someone whose kisses weren't magic - just ok |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think there are both - bad kissers who really haven't got a clue, and nor do they want to learn, and those who are great at kissing (or so they've been told by others) just not compatible.
But have you ever kissed someone and enjoyed it, then found you weren't sexually compatible?
No - but I have found I was sexually compatible with someone whose kisses weren't magic - just ok "
Likewise, but personally I find the best sex is with the best kissers x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Likewise, but personally I find the best sex is with the best kissers x"
I know instantly when lips meet if the chemistry is there... and when it is.. oh my! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Likewise, but personally I find the best sex is with the best kissers x
I know instantly when lips meet if the chemistry is there... and when it is.. oh my! "
This is why I say on a meet don't go looking for sex, look for a kiss instead - if its a good one, the sex takes care of itself x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've kissed people who are best described as being similar to when the alien jumps on to John Hurts face....not pleasant and not repeated  "
I think all of us have experienced the "revolting kisser" From sloppy invasive washing machine kisses to face huggers. My personal dislike is the biters.. ffs, each lunch, not my delicate lips!
But when you're lucky enough to find a good one they're usually worth hanging on to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Likewise, but personally I find the best sex is with the best kissers x
I know instantly when lips meet if the chemistry is there... and when it is.. oh my!
This is why I say on a meet don't go looking for sex, look for a kiss instead - if its a good one, the sex takes care of itself x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've kissed people who are best described as being similar to when the alien jumps on to John Hurts face....not pleasant and not repeated
I think all of us have experienced the "revolting kisser" From sloppy invasive washing machine kisses to face huggers. My personal dislike is the biters.. ffs, each lunch, not my delicate lips!
But when you're lucky enough to find a good one they're usually worth hanging on to "
I wouldn't call it revolting- just 'WTF-getoffmyfacethatsjustwrong!' sort of kissing.
and yes, a good kisser is a good find- a good kisser, good shagger and extra kink is even better  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But when you're lucky enough to find a good one they're usually worth hanging on to "
Absolutely, its always good to have a good snog buddy so you can perfect your smoochin' x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No doubt such lips get you off to a flying start 
You'd have to find out for yourself mister  "
Why are you ladies always miles upon miles away? Must be all that sea air that makes you so luscious x |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc |
I love a good kissing session.
I think it could just be down to compatibility. It freaks me out a bit when I automatically close my eyes, then open them slightly after a while to see their eyes wide open.
Gives me the creeps  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I enjoy adding a little eye contact to my kisses, but you have to communicate a little in order to avoid that sort of creeping out, just slowly start to break off the kiss then move your lips away slightly, and open your eyes a little bit - I typically find that most girls will open theirs at the almost exact same time, then you can gaze into each others, smile and carry on kissing. Tuning into each others sexual rhythms like that can really enhance the excitement of a great kiss x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is the most erotic thing on my opinion "
Well if you fancy working on the special anglo-american relationship they often mention on the news when Cameron/Obama start planning something- im up for a doing my bit to help |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
Rockford |
"Kissing is the most erotic thing on my opinion
Well if you fancy working on the special anglo-american relationship they often mention on the news when Cameron/Obama start planning something- im up for a doing my bit to help "
very kind
.. soothing my bruised ego |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I think there are both - bad kissers who really haven't got a clue, and nor do they want to learn, and those who are great at kissing (or so they've been told by others) just not compatible.
But have you ever kissed someone and enjoyed it, then found you weren't sexually compatible?"
I have. His kisses left me breathless, I went weak at the knees and could spend hours kissing him and him me. The sex was mediocre at best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is the most erotic thing on my opinion
Well if you fancy working on the special anglo-american relationship they often mention on the news when Cameron/Obama start planning something- im up for a doing my bit to help
very kind
.. soothing my bruised ego "
don't worry, I wouldn't bruise anything more than your ass cheek |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy adding a little eye contact to my kisses, but you have to communicate a little in order to avoid that sort of creeping out, just slowly start to break off the kiss then move your lips away slightly, and open your eyes a little bit - I typically find that most girls will open theirs at the almost exact same time, then you can gaze into each others, smile and carry on kissing. Tuning into each others sexual rhythms like that can really enhance the excitement of a great kiss x"
Couldn't agree more..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy adding a little eye contact to my kisses, but you have to communicate a little in order to avoid that sort of creeping out, just slowly start to break off the kiss then move your lips away slightly, and open your eyes a little bit - I typically find that most girls will open theirs at the almost exact same time, then you can gaze into each others, smile and carry on kissing. Tuning into each others sexual rhythms like that can really enhance the excitement of a great kiss x"
^^^^ Oh yes this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This thread has got my tingly thinking about hot kisses
+1"
"Yeh made me tingle a bit too "
Nice to know that at least I can effectively express my love of kissing x |
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