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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We get so many mails from single guys where it says on their profile 'won't meet smokers', yet we are both smokers. It's funny when we have a look shortly after we mail them back pointing this out, to see that they've suddenly changed their mind and suddenly become smokers.  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I always point it out and they always say they don't mean they won't and its a mistake. Having said that the site does default to 'won't meet smokers' so I give them the benefit of the doubt. |
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"I always point it out and they always say they don't mean they won't and its a mistake. Having said that the site does default to 'won't meet smokers' so I give them the benefit of the doubt."
+1 
They actually have to tick a box to say they will meet smokers. But I just think they're lazy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You mean people change their preferences when there's a chance of a shag?? 
Surely not?
Next thing you'll be saying nobody fibs about their age/cock size/height/sexuality!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am non smoker never have never will but will meet smokers not my fault they are not right in the head 
Seriously though if i have a meet with smokers at their place and they smoke as long as its not blown right in my face then no issues as i make a concious decision and that if in their house i go by their rules and respect their choice.
However if the meet is at my place i expect and to be fair let folk know no smoking in my house and most so far have been ok.
Its about respecting each other rules and boundaries. |
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By *eizvollWoman
over a year ago
in my own little world :-) |
"You mean people change their preferences when there's a chance of a shag??
Surely not?
Next thing you'll be saying nobody fibs about their age/cock size/height/sexuality!!! "
Do they???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive even found those who have it hand written they dont meet smokers, actually meeting smokers.
I'd find it hard that anyone can have things like socials/parties/clubs as an interest and not 'meet' smokers
maybe if they said ,. we wont have sex with people who smoke fair enough.. however i have read lots of pish about smokers smelling etc etc..I have went on meets in the past, not had a cigarette around the meet and they never said anything
anyway, up to them I'm not stopping so I can get more meets |
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"We also get this.
But as smokers would you approach someone if they had on there profile "won't meet smokers"?
We don't ...."
Nope I wouldn't contact them... but when they contact me I point it out.
If they change it fair enough.. If they claim its a mistake and dont change it I wouldn't meet them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its called desperation..... when its on offer the rules go out the window, thankfully we stick by our rules and we are not stopping smoking just because some folks dont like it....isn't it wonderful we are all different. |
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"You mean people change their preferences when there's a chance of a shag??
Surely not?
Next thing you'll be saying nobody fibs about their age/cock size/height/sexuality!!!
Do they???? "
Really people tell fibs. Who knew!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were both smokers 8 weeks ago and both decided to give up which we have successfully done so with no aids. We honestly thought this would lead to more meets as there were more non smokers than smokers in the area. Big fail on that part but still willing to meet smokers and not going to be an anti smoker with attitude |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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We both smoke and have it clearly written on our profile.
Yet at least half of our messages are from those who have 'won't meet smokers' on their profiles. Worst offenders for us are other couples.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We both smoke and have it clearly written on our profile.
Yet at least half of our messages are from those who have 'won't meet smokers' on their profiles. Worst offenders for us are other couples.
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we found this as well. Told them to re-read our profile as had it clearly written, we would then get the 'oh we dont mind as long as you dont turn up smelling of smoke'! Doh we were smokers. |
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