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By *emmefatale OP   Woman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Wonder if there are any on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Care to elaborate on that term?

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Care to elaborate on that term?"
A role taken on by the man in a 'just friends' male/female relationship. An emotional tampon is a man who will always be there to provide a woman with the proverbial 'shoulder to cry on' or some other outlet for her to otherwise vent her emotional frustration, problems, and mental unbalance. Ultimately, he becomes the only person for whom this behavior is reserved as nobody else will tolerate it but him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Care to elaborate on that term?A role taken on by the man in a 'just friends' male/female relationship. An emotional tampon is a man who will always be there to provide a woman with the proverbial 'shoulder to cry on' or some other outlet for her to otherwise vent her emotional frustration, problems, and mental unbalance. Ultimately, he becomes the only person for whom this behavior is reserved as nobody else will tolerate it but him.

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Kind of like being friendzoned?

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Care to elaborate on that term?A role taken on by the man in a 'just friends' male/female relationship. An emotional tampon is a man who will always be there to provide a woman with the proverbial 'shoulder to cry on' or some other outlet for her to otherwise vent her emotional frustration, problems, and mental unbalance. Ultimately, he becomes the only person for whom this behavior is reserved as nobody else will tolerate it but him.

Kind of like being friendzoned?"

Yep......

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Tell you what if i became like that id hope the bloke would tell me to get a grip or at least highlight what I am doing. As sometimes you can't see your own behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

On first look I thought it was a leaky fanny!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I actually do have one, he is a fantastic guy who I will sometimes vent my frustrations at. He always manages to make me smile even if his normal response is stop whining fatty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I actually do have one, he is a fantastic guy who I will sometimes vent my frustrations at. He always manages to make me smile even if his normal response is stop whining fatty "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is the second blood sucking thread of the day!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire

is it only males who carry out this 'role'..?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to be one. Until i cut all strings with her!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"is it only males who carry out this 'role'..?"
Under this name yes, although I'm not sure what you would call it in reverse.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"is it only males who carry out this 'role'..?Under this name yes, although I'm not sure what you would call it in reverse. "

wife, maybe..?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to have a best friend who was male. It was brilliant, my female friends would always be sympathetic where he would turn around and say stop whinging let's go on the piss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My BGF does this for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's relationships like that everywhere. It can be draining for both. Sometimes we don't even realise were one of those parties and I'm sure some do it on fab.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"There's relationships like that everywhere. It can be draining for both. Sometimes we don't even realise were one of those parties and I'm sure some do it on fab. "
I see people doing it on Fab all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There's relationships like that everywhere. It can be draining for both. Sometimes we don't even realise were one of those parties and I'm sure some do it on fab. I see people doing it on Fab all the time! "

That obvious ?

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"There's relationships like that everywhere. It can be draining for both. Sometimes we don't even realise were one of those parties and I'm sure some do it on fab. I see people doing it on Fab all the time!

That obvious ? "

To some it is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

More commonly know as the 'Doormat' lol. I have a punchbag in my garage for venting my frustrations. Works very well for me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have one and he uses me in the same way. Would that make me his emotional butt plug?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can't say I've ever had anyone in my life like that. If I can't solve my own problems etc, then it's time to give up...

Saying that, I've been a shoulder for many others which is very draining. Lost a few friends because I've told them to sort their issues out and to stop dumping them on anyone that will listen..

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I have one and he uses me in the same way. Would that make me his emotional butt plug?"
Depends- does he bleed you dry or talk shit?

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I have one and he uses me in the same way. Would that make me his emotional butt plug?Depends- does he bleed you dry or talk shit? "

Talk shit, make a mess and eat whatever is on offer. I don't bleed him dry either though.

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