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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I tried to say goodbye. I really did. But it's so hard to end a relationship. When it's over it's over, right? When it's gone as far as it can go you need to cut the ties that bind, right? If it's broken and there is no way to fix it then you need to bin it, right? When you're just not comfortable in each others company anymore and all you do is cause each other pain then you have to stop it to protect yourself, right?
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So why can't I get rid of any of my shoes? I've sorted them and looked carefully at those I just haven't worn for a year or more and still I can't bring myself to dispose of them.
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I did manage to throw out a pair of slippers that the ex used to wear. That's progress, right? |
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over a year ago
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I feel your pain, it is obious that i have neglected many and yet i can not set them free. So there they sit waiting for their chance to go out. Lol
Last time i managed to get rid of 3 pairs. But i had just got 3 new ones so hubby said i really didn't get rid of anything lol |
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"I tried to say goodbye. I really did. But it's so hard to end a relationship. When it's over it's over, right? When it's gone as far as it can go you need to cut the ties that bind, right? If it's broken and there is no way to fix it then you need to bin it, right? When you're just not comfortable in each others company anymore and all you do is cause each other pain then you have to stop it to protect yourself, right?
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So why can't I get rid of any of my shoes? I've sorted them and looked carefully at those I just haven't worn for a year or more and still I can't bring myself to dispose of them.
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I did manage to throw out a pair of slippers that the ex used to wear. That's progress, right?"
This is weird coz I just saw my friends Facebook saying she's just disposed of 33 pairs!! Gave me palpitations just thinking about it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work in a charity shop and we always need ladies shoes, go on, take them to one on Monday and then reward yourself with a new pair  "
Thats what i do when i manage to let go of shoes and clothes. I hate tossing perfectly good things someone else could use. I also love searching in thrift stores for unique things for myself |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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This is weird coz I just saw my friends Facebook saying she's just disposed of 33 pairs!! Gave me palpitations just thinking about it x"
I'm wondering if I've actually owned 33 pairs in my life ? |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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I feel your pain Lickity.
I have a frock or two  which I know I should through out but I'm convinced the minute I do I will wake up a size 10 again and bright lycra dresses a lá Spice Girls will be in fashion again  |
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This is weird coz I just saw my friends Facebook saying she's just disposed of 33 pairs!! Gave me palpitations just thinking about it x
I'm wondering if I've actually owned 33 pairs in my life ?"
She has over 100 pairs left! |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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I understand. My name is Oli and I am a shoe addict.
I did did a wardrobe clear out about a month ago. No problem with getting rid of clothes I no longer wear. I tried to do the show cull. I have about 60 pairs and only managed to get rid of 3. And that was only because those 3 pairs were broken and no longer wearable. I replaced them with 6 new pairs.
God there is no hope for me.... |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I feel your pain, it is obious that i have neglected many and yet i can not set them free. So there they sit waiting for their chance to go out. Lol
Last time i managed to get rid of 3 pairs. But i had just got 3 new ones so hubby said i really didn't get rid of anything lol"
He is wrong. You parted with 3 but introduced three new ones to your life. Would he say the same if you got rid of him and got a new husband? I think not! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I work in a charity shop and we always need ladies shoes, go on, take them to one on Monday and then reward yourself with a new pair "
I usually do take them. I have small feet so they don't get many in my size. I've already got three new pairs (the avatar shows my new work shoes).  |
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"I tried to say goodbye. I really did. But it's so hard to end a relationship. When it's over it's over, right? When it's gone as far as it can go you need to cut the ties that bind, right? If it's broken and there is no way to fix it then you need to bin it, right? When you're just not comfortable in each others company anymore and all you do is cause each other pain then you have to stop it to protect yourself, right?
Ladies and their shoes
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So why can't I get rid of any of my shoes? I've sorted them and looked carefully at those I just haven't worn for a year or more and still I can't bring myself to dispose of them.
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I did manage to throw out a pair of slippers that the ex used to wear. That's progress, right?"
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I tried to say goodbye. I really did. But it's so hard to end a relationship. When it's over it's over, right? When it's gone as far as it can go you need to cut the ties that bind, right? If it's broken and there is no way to fix it then you need to bin it, right? When you're just not comfortable in each others company anymore and all you do is cause each other pain then you have to stop it to protect yourself, right?
Ladies and their shoes
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So why can't I get rid of any of my shoes? I've sorted them and looked carefully at those I just haven't worn for a year or more and still I can't bring myself to dispose of them.
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I did manage to throw out a pair of slippers that the ex used to wear. That's progress, right? "
Nucspark, why are you pulling a face at me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lickity FFs getta fucking grip this is a SWINGING site, now get selling those shoes as some like to lick and wank into
now for giving the idea i have copyrighted this post
©keenfucktographer2013 |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"lickity FFs getta fucking grip this is a SWINGING site, now get selling those shoes as some like to lick and wank into
now for giving the idea i have copyrighted this post
©keenfucktographer2013"
I've kept all of the swinging shoes. Would anyone really want to lick and wank into the old trainers I can't quite part with? |
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"I tried to say goodbye. I really did. But it's so hard to end a relationship. When it's over it's over, right? When it's gone as far as it can go you need to cut the ties that bind, right? If it's broken and there is no way to fix it then you need to bin it, right? When you're just not comfortable in each others company anymore and all you do is cause each other pain then you have to stop it to protect yourself, right?
Ladies and their shoes
Licks one of my sisters has over five hundred pairs a room in her house is just wall to wall shoes, quite a few never worn. It must be a female gene thing
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So why can't I get rid of any of my shoes? I've sorted them and looked carefully at those I just haven't worn for a year or more and still I can't bring myself to dispose of them.
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I did manage to throw out a pair of slippers that the ex used to wear. That's progress, right?
Nucspark, why are you pulling a face at me?"
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Nucspark, you're making me nervous with all these faces. What have I done wrong?
Licks nothing really, just amazes me you have admitted your adiction "
I have admitted it before, just not in such emotive terms. I spent ages this afternoon sorting out my shoes and trying to get rid of some. Instead, all I managed was to create a bit of space for the three new pairs. |
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"Nucspark, you're making me nervous with all these faces. What have I done wrong?
Licks nothing really, just amazes me you have admitted your adiction
I have admitted it before, just not in such emotive terms. I spent ages this afternoon sorting out my shoes and trying to get rid of some. Instead, all I managed was to create a bit of space for the three new pairs."
And do you rotate them , so you wear most of them or is it a few select pairs and the rest gather dust |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lickity FFs getta fucking grip this is a SWINGING site, now get selling those shoes as some like to lick and wank into
now for giving the idea i have copyrighted this post
©keenfucktographer2013
I've kept all of the swinging shoes. Would anyone really want to lick and wank into the old trainers I can't quite part with?"
if u squirt or gush fannyjuice in them, ur talking gold extreme gold hheheheee
I want my cut |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Nucspark, you're making me nervous with all these faces. What have I done wrong?
Licks nothing really, just amazes me you have admitted your adiction
I have admitted it before, just not in such emotive terms. I spent ages this afternoon sorting out my shoes and trying to get rid of some. Instead, all I managed was to create a bit of space for the three new pairs.
And do you rotate them , so you wear most of them or is it a few select pairs and the rest gather dust "
I have some just for dining and sinning. They are rotated and depend on the outfit I am wearing.
I have boots for different outfits, mostly black but also brown and a pink suede pair. I chose which ones to wear depending on the weather conditions. The same of the ankle boots (red and a sort of tiger print for those as well as the black).
Work shoes tend depend on where I am working, how much I am going to be walking and standing and the weather.
However, I mostly wear my FitFlops and I have 5 pairs of them in different colours. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"lickity FFs getta fucking grip this is a SWINGING site, now get selling those shoes as some like to lick and wank into
now for giving the idea i have copyrighted this post
©keenfucktographer2013
I've kept all of the swinging shoes. Would anyone really want to lick and wank into the old trainers I can't quite part with?
if u squirt or gush fannyjuice in them, ur talking gold extreme gold hheheheee
I want my cut"
I don't squirt or gush, do you think I could just sprinkle some dishwater in them and claim it's fanny juice? |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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"Lickety, how many pairs of shoes have you got?
I refuse to answer that question. Not all of them are shoes - some are boots."
.... and flip flops, and trainers, and sandals, and slippers, and....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lickity FFs getta fucking grip this is a SWINGING site, now get selling those shoes as some like to lick and wank into
now for giving the idea i have copyrighted this post
©keenfucktographer2013
I've kept all of the swinging shoes. Would anyone really want to lick and wank into the old trainers I can't quite part with?
if u squirt or gush fannyjuice in them, ur talking gold extreme gold hheheheee
I want my cut
I don't squirt or gush, do you think I could just sprinkle some dishwater in them and claim it's fanny juice?"
stop being a freak n let me try...if not,u can even piss...some wont notice lol x |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Lickety, how many pairs of shoes have you got?
I refuse to answer that question. Not all of them are shoes - some are boots.
.... and flip flops, and trainers, and sandals, and slippers, and.... "
I have two pairs of flip flops but I don't count FitFlops amongst those. |
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"Nucspark, you're making me nervous with all these faces. What have I done wrong?
Licks nothing really, just amazes me you have admitted your adiction
I have admitted it before, just not in such emotive terms. I spent ages this afternoon sorting out my shoes and trying to get rid of some. Instead, all I managed was to create a bit of space for the three new pairs.
And do you rotate them , so you wear most of them or is it a few select pairs and the rest gather dust
I have some just for dining and sinning. They are rotated and depend on the outfit I am wearing.
I have boots for different outfits, mostly black but also brown and a pink suede pair. I chose which ones to wear depending on the weather conditions. The same of the ankle boots (red and a sort of tiger print for those as well as the black).
Work shoes tend depend on where I am working, how much I am going to be walking and standing and the weather.
However, I mostly wear my FitFlops and I have 5 pairs of them in different colours."
Well at least they are not gathering dust. I'm sure you made a few shoes worshippers come with that last post |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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if u squirt or gush fannyjuice in them, ur talking gold extreme gold hheheheee
I want my cut
I don't squirt or gush, do you think I could just sprinkle some dishwater in them and claim it's fanny juice?
stop being a freak n let me try...if not,u can even piss...some wont notice lol x"
You've got fanny juice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel your pain, it is obious that i have neglected many and yet i can not set them free. So there they sit waiting for their chance to go out. Lol
Last time i managed to get rid of 3 pairs. But i had just got 3 new ones so hubby said i really didn't get rid of anything lol
He is wrong. You parted with 3 but introduced three new ones to your life. Would he say the same if you got rid of him and got a new husband? I think not!"
hehe he only pretends to mind. he likes them all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think I have enjoyed reading a post so much hahaha I as a man buy a pair I like the look of if they fit and are comfortable.... but you women buy a pair because you love how they look regardless how much they hurt and knowing by the end of the night you will be walking like you just spent four hours riding a horse..
And then probably take them off and walk barefoot home... hahaha... love you all |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I don't think I have enjoyed reading a post so much hahaha I as a man buy a pair I like the look of if they fit and are comfortable.... but you women buy a pair because you love how they look regardless how much they hurt and knowing by the end of the night you will be walking like you just spent four hours riding a horse..
And then probably take them off and walk barefoot home... hahaha... love you all "
Nooooo, I'd never walk home barefoot no matter how much pain I am in. If you take them off you can't out them on again as it is too painful. I do try and choose appropriately for the practical function, even if they are not the best ones for the outfit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think I have enjoyed reading a post so much hahaha I as a man buy a pair I like the look of if they fit and are comfortable.... but you women buy a pair because you love how they look regardless how much they hurt and knowing by the end of the night you will be walking like you just spent four hours riding a horse..
And then probably take them off and walk barefoot home... hahaha... love you all
Nooooo, I'd never walk home barefoot no matter how much pain I am in. If you take them off you can't out them on again as it is too painful. I do try and choose appropriately for the practical function, even if they are not the best ones for the outfit."
Me either! I will suffer before walking barefoot. I hardly go barefoot in my house let alone outside.
I try to break them in properly before putting them in my wardrobe rotation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP I feel your pain. I have underwear issues. Had to get rid of some 6 sets due to weight loss and either the bra and/or bottoms not fitting me correctly any more. Was painful as we had been through so much together....
Thankfully I have a handluggage case of new stuff that was just right to fall back on and replenish stocks, and Ann Summers had a sale which helped...
But now I need to replace what was taken from there. It's tough. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"OP I feel your pain. I have underwear issues. Had to get rid of some 6 sets due to weight loss and either the bra and/or bottoms not fitting me correctly any more. Was painful as we had been through so much together....
Thankfully I have a handluggage case of new stuff that was just right to fall back on and replenish stocks, and Ann Summers had a sale which helped...
But now I need to replace what was taken from there. It's tough."
I feel your pain. I couldn't bear facing the knicker drawer yesterday after the shoes. I will have to do that soon as I 'need' a new bra. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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So why can't I get rid of any of my shoes? I've sorted them and looked carefully at those I just haven't worn for a year or more and still I can't bring myself to dispose of them......"
Get a pal to do it. She comes to your house and you go to hers. Agree a rough number of pairs which have to go out and just do it. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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So why can't I get rid of any of my shoes? I've sorted them and looked carefully at those I just haven't worn for a year or more and still I can't bring myself to dispose of them......
Get a pal to do it. She comes to your house and you go to hers. Agree a rough number of pairs which have to go out and just do it."
None of my friends have my problem. I'd be left with one pair of heels, one pair of boots, one pair of FitFlops and one pair of trainers. They're brutal.
In fact, they are the story of people who throw something out when they get something new and have everything properly put away as they haven't run out of wardrobe space. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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So why can't I get rid of any of my shoes? I've sorted them and looked carefully at those I just haven't worn for a year or more and still I can't bring myself to dispose of them......
Get a pal to do it. She comes to your house and you go to hers. Agree a rough number of pairs which have to go out and just do it.
None of my friends have my problem. I'd be left with one pair of heels, one pair of boots, one pair of FitFlops and one pair of trainers. They're brutal. "
Maybe that's what's needed ?
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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So why can't I get rid of any of my shoes? I've sorted them and looked carefully at those I just haven't worn for a year or more and still I can't bring myself to dispose of them......
Get a pal to do it. She comes to your house and you go to hers. Agree a rough number of pairs which have to go out and just do it.
None of my friends have my problem. I'd be left with one pair of heels, one pair of boots, one pair of FitFlops and one pair of trainers. They're brutal.
Maybe that's what's needed ?
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Don't be daft - they'd never let me keep the pink suede boots or the dalmation patterned shoes and I look gorgeous in both.
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"Last year when I moved house I finally managed to break the shackles that tied me to my pair of platforms from 1977 rip 
Did the laces break?"
If only......
They went to the same place as my cowboy boots when I moved house last year |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So why can't I get rid of any of my shoes? I've sorted them and looked carefully at those I just haven't worn for a year or more and still I can't bring myself to dispose of them......
Get a pal to do it. She comes to your house and you go to hers. Agree a rough number of pairs which have to go out and just do it.
None of my friends have my problem. I'd be left with one pair of heels, one pair of boots, one pair of FitFlops and one pair of trainers. They're brutal.
Maybe that's what's needed ?
Don't be daft - they'd never let me keep the pink suede boots or the dalmation patterned shoes and I look gorgeous in both.
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Oh I forgot about my Dalmatian pattern boots. Might need an airing on Friday! |
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