when i was married cant really recall how
it all began ,hubby,s idea and sometimes
now think to myself wish i had never got into it then he wouldn't have met the
bitch he left me for .and i would still have been married .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't know any different, started my sex life having three comes foursomes and gangbangs"
Wow that's pretty brave lol, most people generally start with only one on ones, bravo!  |
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"Don't know any different, started my sex life having three comes foursomes and gangbangs
Wow that's pretty brave lol, most people generally start with only one on ones, bravo! "
first time was a one on one then it kind of changed lol |
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My hubby has a very high sex drive and after we had our second kid mine dropped so I suggested he tried a swinging site, anyway three years on and we are now on here as a couple x our sex life has only improved x |
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"Don't know any different, started my sex life having three comes foursomes and gangbangs
Wow that's pretty brave lol, most people generally start with only one on ones, bravo! first time was a one on one then it kind of changed lol"
Please elaborate, it's always fun to share |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After a long period of celibate mourning, I realised I still had sexual needs but no desire to form another relationship having already been blessed to share part of my life in the company of my one true soul-mate...
Swinging simply meets those sexual needs,,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was going to sex parties within 3 weeks of loosing my virginity, and had threesomes when in a long term relationship. So I guess its always been there for me. Only started going to clubs 2 years ago.
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"Don't know any different, started my sex life having three comes foursomes and gangbangs
Wow that's pretty brave lol, most people generally start with only one on ones, bravo! first time was a one on one then it kind of changed lol
Please elaborate, it's always fun to share "
its against forum rules to talk about underage sex |
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"After a long period of celibate mourning, I realised I still had sexual needs but no desire to form another relationship having already been blessed to share part of my life in the company of my one true soul-mate...
Swinging simply meets those sexual needs,,,"
Were you a TV/TS whilst in your relationship, or did that form after you broke up.. *sorry to hear about that by the way * |
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"After a long period of celibate mourning, I realised I still had sexual needs but no desire to form another relationship having already been blessed to share part of my life in the company of my one true soul-mate...
Swinging simply meets those sexual needs,,,
Were you a TV/TS whilst in your relationship, or did that form after you broke up.. *sorry to hear about that by the way *"
A Swinging lifestyle is not something I would have purposely sought…
My crossdressing and bisexual side are simply throw-backs to my teenage years when like many I experimented with same sex activity and gender blurring,,,,
I would have never have considered crossdressing or same sex activity again, had it not been for the circumstances that led me to finding swinging as a suitable outlet for my ongoing sexual urges….
I guess if I’m being totally honest….
I would say I try and placate my feeling of guilt at having sexual needs beyond those I had with my soul-mate by adopting a swinging persona that is so detached from the person I was in a loving relationship……
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First ventured onto the scene about 30 years ago but being only 18 I didn't see it as swinging ... it was just some older couples who liked me and my mate fucking the mrs at the sauna, went on to travel the north west and midlands to all the old dogging hotspots. Then went vanilla for many years before asking my wife "have you seen these ads at the back of loot ?" ... swinging then till we split 4 years ago and no regrets. Swung with gf after that and regretted that totally BUT nothing changed because of swinging. Not sure if I would continue swinging if I found THE ONE again. |
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We had an 'accidental' 3some withva friend. It broke up the group ftiendship cos she couldnt keep her mouth shut. Blamed me (jules).. For everything but she was the one who instigated it. And the rest is history  |
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I had come out of a sexless marriage and I have always had a huge sex drive. So I am glad I stumbled on fab well found my ex on here...Do I think I would swing if I met someone I don't know is the honest answer... |
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I stumbled across another site when I was on the wine one night, about four years ago 
I'd just come out of a very long relationship and was bored so set up a profile just for a nose lol Met a few and one of them told me about this site.
Been on and off a few times. Met some lovely men as well as some numpties but you learn as you go along.
This is my secret fantasy life but if I met someone in the 'real' world who possibly wanted to date/have a relationship then I'd leave but for now I'm enjoying myself |
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over a year ago
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I came out of a very sexless relationship and stumbled across this site.. I thought why not, and I'm glad I did. It's filled a hole, well several holes haha..
I also enjoy the laughs on the forum n chatrooms.. |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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I wanted sex but not a relationship. And I didn't want to do the whole thing of picking up guys in bars just for sex because then that just adds a whole other layer of complication and having to have that 'I just want no strings sex' conversation. So I'm hereand don't plan on going anywhere anytime soon.
I did have a break for about 2 years though because other life stuff just got too busy. Then I jumped back in because I got to the point of almost being revirginalised... yes it's a word. It is, honest. |
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over a year ago
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Quite a mixture of reasons, but it seems that everyone would give it all up tomorrow if they found Mr/Mrs right. I just wonder if the sex did start to decline in that relationship whether people would feel the need to have that variety back in their lives? |
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