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stretch marks and big hips what do people think of them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all get older, and life happens to us.
I try and take care of myself, but then the scars and marks, receding hairline and so.on are just part of who I am 
Mind you, I've been 31 for 12 years now 
Your body is your life story and like a god book should take time to read |
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the best thing to make a person realise that we're all different, slightly imperfect but gorgeous is a naturist club like Eurekas. You realise that there is always someone slimmer/younger etc than you and always someone older/larger etc than you but that we're all in our own way beautiful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to hate my scars and stretch marks but now they don't worry me so much as people keep pointing out the stretch marks are to be proud of and only one person has mentioned my scars no one else notices lol xxx |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
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I don't want to be with anyone who it put off my such things. . Thats why I am honest about my body.. if they want perfection I wish them well in their search. I am what I am.. not for everyone bit quite good for some |
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx "
Just perused your profile pics like you do and you look great
Would also say that you look decidedly leggy for the listed 5ft1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I got together with my now ex gf she had not been naked in front of her husband for years, she even took a bath with a t shirt on - her now bf has not seen her naked and they've been together for two years but I had her posing naked in the park, rolling about in fields of grass and dancing around with abandon ... point of this is that beauty is very much in the eye if the beholder and for every one that turns their nose up at slight imperfections there is another one (or two or three) who is going to love you for it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive got stretchmarks, hips and well, the fat is down to food but the stretchmarks are from having my kids, if people dont like them well their problem, they just fade but dont leave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learned to live wiv me big hips n stretch marks! It's being the only man in Britain wiv dimpled cellulite on his thighs that I find difficult to live wiv   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having had a huge weight issue partly down to myself and medications.
Having lost 8 stone already my skin is loose, I need surgery mainly on the tops of my legs it seems to bother me more than others. I've still got some weight to loose before I can have the surgery. I'm also upfront about it in case someone does have a problem. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx "
I have a belly and very very extensive stretch marks. No man has ever been bothered by either. And it's never bothered me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't get stretch marks when having my little girl, but she came out the emergency sun roof, so have a 6" scar...I'm happy with it, it's like an achievement award ! |
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"I didn't get stretch marks when having my little girl, but she came out the emergency sun roof, so have a 6" scar...I'm happy with it, it's like an achievement award ! "
I have one too, now my belly just flops over it. if anything, its this i have the issue with... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before i got pregnant i was a size 6 i had a grueling 72 hours worth of labour and still ended up having a c section after having to take it easy for 6 weeks i ended up in a size 18-20 clothes im now wearing a size 14 to 16 i have a kangaroo pouch (tummy overhang) and i have loads of stripes (stretch marks) i am not happy about my body so im changing it.
Im proud of my body and il wear wear my stripes because i earned them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my jelly belly/overhang/apron is more of the depressing issue for me.. meh
but still its there and its not gonna vanish any yime soon. its still numb 3yrs after the c section |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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most females who have children,have stretch marks,or a wee scar here or there.
they always seem to feel obliged,prior to getting down and dirty,to warn you of the impending horrors you are about to witness.
hand on heart,i have yet to see either.
so i'm thinking,people who have stretch marks,think they're visible from the moon,whereas to everyone else,they're unseen,even within the proximity of sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most women have them and most dont like them but I have never not one heard a man complain about them. as for the bigger hips I always thought of that as a good thing. it looks more feminine and helps give the coveted "curvy" figure. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
I have an honest full body shot on public. It's had more fabs than my other pics. It shows my belly and stretch marks. Any guy who meets me can see it first so no surprises.
I don't care and neither do they. |
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just watch some gok wans how to look good naked to see how gorgeous any one can look ... must boost anyones confidence .. totally agree with all the positive comments posted by the blokes on here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After having three kids I have plenty of stretch marks, they used to bother me but now I dont even notice them  theyre just a part of me and nothing can change it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My stretch marks, tummy and hips are ok but for me it's the tree trunk legs .......... any clues how to avoid them???? we all have insecurities about something about ourselves ........ sometimes you just have to take a deep breath and go for it  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"My stretch marks, tummy and hips are ok but for me it's the tree trunk legs .......... any clues how to avoid them???? we all have insecurities about something about ourselves ........ sometimes you just have to take a deep breath and go for it "
Zumba helped me tone mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My stretch marks, tummy and hips are ok but for me it's the tree trunk legs .......... any clues how to avoid them???? we all have insecurities about something about ourselves ........ sometimes you just have to take a deep breath and go for it
Zumba helped me tone mine. "
I have a feeling that won't work by Saturday will it??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive got them and dont like mine but dont care about getting naked when im in the moment "
I think there hot i love a curve woman they look a lot better |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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I don't notice my stretch marks. Like the OP I was tiny before I had my children and I have expanded with each of them.
I also had to have c-sections so I have the tummy which also doesn't bother me. My issue is my legs. I know I should walk more to tone them up but I find it difficult to incorporate it into my day. Once the youngest starts school in September I will be working towards a leaner, healthier me |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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Another thing. Larry has always told me how much he loves my curves. He has seen pics of me before children and said that I was too skinny and he would never have started talking to me had I been that person when we met.
Some guys genuinely do like curvy women. It's not just a ploy to get us into bed! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The comments on this thread has made me feel so better about myself. I've lost a few stone, but have wobbly bits that I hate and a few very faint stretch marks that are only really noticeable now and again. I feel quite self conscious about it but find that dressing up in sexy undies hides most of the flaws lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont like my stretch marks, if i had known what i would look like after having my son, i wouldnt of had him, but now i am getting old i dont worry about them so much.
i never have liked having such big hips either but cant do much about them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind my stretch marks either, though I do hate my C Section scar.
OP you look fantastic xx "
agreed on the OP..whatta pair of tasty legs !- QoT has a fantastic sexy pair too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont like my stretch marks, if i had known what i would look like after having my son, i wouldnt of had him, but now i am getting old i dont worry about them so much.
i never have liked having such big hips either but cant do much about them."
Wow you must really hate them to put them before your son.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont like my stretch marks, if i had known what i would look like after having my son, i wouldnt of had him, but now i am getting old i dont worry about them so much.
i never have liked having such big hips either but cant do much about them.
Wow you must really hate them to put them before your son.
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yes must do, i think about what i looked like before, not just the stretch marks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx "
if your pics are recent and not before you had kids I wouldn't worry, there isn't a single guy on this site that would turn you down
when you look like me I give you permission to worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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dont like my stretch marks, if i had known what i would look like after having my son, i wouldnt of had him, but now i am getting old i dont worry about them so much.
i never have liked having such big hips either but cant do much about them.
Wow you must really hate them to put them before your son.
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I found that shocking too
ive had 4 kids and my body is very different to how it was before, after carrying and feeding 4 kids my belly and boobs are worse for wear
if I could go back and ditch the kids and keep my body would I? would I fuck my kids are the most important things in the world to me, I've lost one child so appreciate what I have even more now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a mum of five I find it shocking that anyone would say they wouldn't of had Thier kids if they knew they would get stretch marks I hope you never say that in front of him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a mum of five I find it shocking that anyone would say they wouldn't of had Thier kids if they knew they would get stretch marks I hope you never say that in front of him "
i wouldnt say it in front of him, i am just being honest.
it can be quite a shock to see what pregnancy does to your body though, some people more than others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have an honest full body shot on public. It's had more fabs than my other pics. It shows my belly and stretch marks. Any guy who meets me can see it first so no surprises.
I don't care and neither do they. "
I can see your cunning plan 
Just had to go and fab it again |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I have an honest full body shot on public. It's had more fabs than my other pics. It shows my belly and stretch marks. Any guy who meets me can see it first so no surprises.
I don't care and neither do they.
I can see your cunning plan
Just had to go and fab it again "
Thanks but that wasn't the intention. Just making a point.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont like my stretch marks, if i had known what i would look like after having my son, i wouldnt of had him, but now i am getting old i dont worry about them so much.
i never have liked having such big hips either but cant do much about them.
Wow you must really hate them to put them before your son.
I found that shocking too
ive had 4 kids and my body is very different to how it was before, after carrying and feeding 4 kids my belly and boobs are worse for wear
if I could go back and ditch the kids and keep my body would I? would I fuck my kids are the most important things in the world to me, I've lost one child so appreciate what I have even more now"
well said x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having 3 kids my body isn't what it used to be. I used to be very insecure about how I looked but this site and meets has made me feel differently. Men don't seem to care about the stretch marks or that I don't have the body of a super model. Most of the time I feel good about myself and that I am sexy but like all women have my off days. Just be proud of who you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have write a few stretch marks, result of carrying 2 kids. I can honestly say I don't even notice them.
Overall I'm quite happy with my body, I'm not slim & have lots of lumps & bumps, but its me & I'm content with it. The one thing I hate is my stomach, since having my youngest (she's nearly 2) I don't seem able to shift the weight from my jelly belly & I'm really self conscience of it. |
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx "
I think stretch marks are cute. It certainly wouldn't put me off. |
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"I have write a few stretch marks, result of carrying 2 kids. I can honestly say I don't even notice them.
Overall I'm quite happy with my body, I'm not slim & have lots of lumps & bumps, but its me & I'm content with it. The one thing I hate is my stomach, since having my youngest (she's nearly 2) I don't seem able to shift the weight from my jelly belly & I'm really self conscience of it."
To the right bloke(s) - it won't matter a jot... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life tells it's tale, can honestly say now I am over 50 women under about 35 really don't turn me on as much as women who have lived and have a few battle scars to prove it.
This is a bit of a blow to my ambitions of being a dirty old man though
Also I have been married twice, and had a number of fairly intense relationships between the two, and no woman I have spent time with no matter how beautiful has been happy with 100% of her body 100% of the time. it's the reason they take so long deciding what to wear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A massive "Thank You" for all the comments made. Well apart from one!
It has made me look at myself in a different way, going to be proud of the way I look from now on.
Play Naughty, Play Safe.
Your all lovely people!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx "
Curvy is sexy, even stretch marks are sexy as they are just a sign of the things you have gone through in life, remember Shirley Valentine when he kissed her stretch marks? Be proud of your body. Being confident in your body is very sexy in itself.The Kate Moss look is not sexy XX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx
Curvy is sexy, even stretch marks are sexy as they are just a sign of the things you have gone through in life, remember Shirley Valentine when he kissed her stretch marks? Be proud of your body. Being confident in your body is very sexy in itself.The Kate Moss look is not sexy XX"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx "
Just looked at your photos. You are gorgeous XXX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx
Just looked at your photos. You are gorgeous XXX"
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I've had stretch marks since pubity and having a baby. I'm lucky that they are the silvery ones and not bright red, but never in my life have I thought to mention them to anyone. I'm very overweight with a big apron. When I'm meeting I have full pictures on show, now if a guy sees my pictures and messages me, he knows what he's going to get. No matter my size I've never been short of men and I like to think its because they are attracted to me and not any hole is a goal otherwise they wouldn't come back. If sexy underwear rather than naked gives you confidence go for it. I love watching gok won, he's the Saint for the less than perfect woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't like stretch marks.
Nik has had one baby and not got any
Hips that are wider are expected but don't like flabby dimpled skin on them
Nothing like a tight ass from a woman who does squats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I genuinely don't notice stretch marks on others (from what I'm told, most men don't either)
I find curvy women very sexy (especially nice rounded hips and bum)
Nothing wrong with having a bit of wobble girls!
p.s They're not stretch marks...you're just a tiger that's earned her stripes!
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There's a saying that your scars and stretch marks are the road map of your life.
I for one have never understood how women (the OP being a perfect example) can be insecure about their absolutely gorgeous, feminine figures. Guys don't want a straight up and down lady, we all love curves and different shapes and sizes.
One of my guilty pleasures is watching Gok Wan make women feel good about themselves plus I get a cheeky perve at those lovely curvy ladies doing photoshoots in the buff!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I myself find it a turn on a to me its a sign of a real woman.
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so if you met me when i was 18 and didnt have stretch marks and my boobs werent as droopy, i wouldnt of been a real woman.  pull the other one. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx "
Nothing wrong with anyone who has stretch marks or curves. Its your body and you should be proud of it.
This is just my personal view but i find a lady who is confident with looks and shape more attractive than someone who's constantly trying to achieve what society says is perfection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a sign of a real woman.
people need to stop saying/ typing this. Seriously."
Agreed some people cant have children and will find this upsetting having stretch marks or not makes you no less of a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have stretchmarks (and the rest!) after having my kid
When i do meets i try to stay covered up - there's only one person i will strip off and be naked in front of
When im at wet clubs i get in & out as quickly as possible!  |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"I have stretchmarks (and the rest!) after having my kid
When i do meets i try to stay covered up - there's only one person i will strip off and be naked in front of
When im at wet clubs i get in & out as quickly as possible! "
Sorry but i find this just wrong. I understand having confidence in your looks and body is a big factor in such situs but you should be proud of the way you are and if anyone cant appreciate you for you they shouldn't get a chance to ever see your beauty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have stretchmarks (and the rest!) after having my kid
When i do meets i try to stay covered up - there's only one person i will strip off and be naked in front of
When im at wet clubs i get in & out as quickly as possible! "
I think you're gorgeous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seen plenty men with stretchmarks on bum etc
And size ten girls with cellulite
And you don't need to be a mum to have them..... So.please stop saying they are the sign of a real woman..
Motherhood is a gift... Not a right... |
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"My stretch marks, tummy and hips are ok but for me it's the tree trunk legs .......... any clues how to avoid them???? we all have insecurities about something about ourselves ........ sometimes you just have to take a deep breath and go for it
Zumba helped me tone mine.
I have a feeling that won't work by Saturday will it??? "
Seamed stockings with a very wide lace top help slim the look of legs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have stretchmarks (and the rest!) after having my kid
When i do meets i try to stay covered up - there's only one person i will strip off and be naked in front of
When im at wet clubs i get in & out as quickly as possible!
Sorry but i find this just wrong. I understand having confidence in your looks and body is a big factor in such situs but you should be proud of the way you are and if anyone cant appreciate you for you they shouldn't get a chance to ever see your beauty "
its not always about what other people think tho
Some times its about what we think, I don't like being naked, when I have sex I try to stay covered with underwear etc as I just feel more confident if my bellys not on show
Its ok saying sod people who don't like you but what if its you that don't like you?
There are certain things you can change, but stretch marks and the baby belly isn't one of them, some women are lucky that when they have kids their belly goes flat again, after 3 sections mine never will, I went down to a size 10/12 at one point after having my kids but I still had that deflated balloon effect on my stomach |
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By *hecat007Woman
over a year ago
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I don't have stretch marks very lucky not to. I don't have huge hips either just 36 inch .but prefer wider ones .however I had my daughter by c section and then 2 years ago had another operation full hysterectomy and they used c section scar to do this and although its a very fine line it's now 10 inch wide and I'm very very contious it's there ;( and always feel the need to explain it before gettin naked its has floored my self confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have stretch marks very lucky not to. I don't have huge hips either just 36 inch .but prefer wider ones .however I had my daughter by c section and then 2 years ago had another operation full hysterectomy and they used c section scar to do this and although its a very fine line it's now 10 inch wide and I'm very very contious it's there ;( and always feel the need to explain it before gettin naked its has floored my self confidence "
you'll never get a flat belly after a section, because they cut thro all the muscle so basically its fucked, after 3 sections I have no chance, no matter how slim I was I would skill have a slack belly, ive done alsorts in the past, dieted, gym, sit ups by the hundrens
sometimes people do use having kids as a excuse, like for being over weight, lets face it having kids isn't an excuse for being big, people who have had kids can diet and loose weight if they want, but once they have cut thro that stomach wall and muscle you'll never have a flat belly again |
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"the best thing to make a person realise that we're all different, slightly imperfect but gorgeous is a naturist club like Eurekas. You realise that there is always someone slimmer/younger etc than you and always someone older/larger etc than you but that we're all in our own way beautiful. "
that is so true |
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Some times its about what we think, I don't like being naked, when I have sex I try to stay covered with underwear etc as I just feel more confident if my bellys not on show
Its ok saying sod people who don't like you but what if its you that don't like you?
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P.s - thanks D.C |
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Some times its about what we think, I don't like being naked, when I have sex I try to stay covered with underwear etc as I just feel more confident if my bellys not on show
Its ok saying sod people who don't like you but what if its you that don't like you?
This
P.s - thanks D.C "
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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I photograph mature women & 90% of them have stretch marks, its part of life & adds to the mystery & beauty of a women.
Don't feel embarrassed as most women who have had children or lost weight will have them xx.
John. |
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx "
Not something I seek out myself I like slim n trim if poss. |
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx
Not something I seek out myself I like slim n trim if poss."
at last a man who tells the truth and does not want to appear to be sucking up to the masses on here,in a vain attempt at getting a meet
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx
Not something I seek out myself I like slim n trim if poss.
at last a man who tells the truth and does not want to appear to be sucking up to the masses on here,in a vain attempt at getting a meet
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I agree a truthful guy. if you dont like our bellys etc or stretchmarks, then thats fine for me - we are what we are |
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"I my self have until I had children been very very slim but now since having children I find myself becoming quite insecure about the way my body looks in flesh without covering up I'm still slim but with that extra curve and some stretch marks I feel quite nervous about showing my full flesh close up. Does any one feel the same and what are peoples thoughts on the way we look xx "
I like big ladies anyway and stretch marks are part of who they I don't think they are ugly in fact I quite like them, I also like cellulite too but that could be me being weird lol |
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"Stretch marks are wonderfully womanly and a super sexy sign of fertility. Big hips can be equally sexy, but not all the time.
Just my opinion...
How are stretch marks a sign of fertility?? "
I guess because she had a baby. Granted it's only an indication of previous womb action, but to some men that is sexy.
Henry VIII for example |
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"Stretch marks are wonderfully womanly and a super sexy sign of fertility. Big hips can be equally sexy, but not all the time.
Just my opinion...
How are stretch marks a sign of fertility??
I guess because she had a baby. Granted it's only an indication of previous womb action, but to some men that is sexy.
Henry VIII for example "
Not everyone with stretch marks will of had children though. |
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"Stretch marks are wonderfully womanly and a super sexy sign of fertility. Big hips can be equally sexy, but not all the time.
Just my opinion...
How are stretch marks a sign of fertility??
I guess because she had a baby. Granted it's only an indication of previous womb action, but to some men that is sexy.
Henry VIII for example
Not everyone with stretch marks will of had children though. "
No. I know guys with stretch marks and I'm no scientist but I'm pretty sure men don't have babies |
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"Stretch marks are wonderfully womanly and a super sexy sign of fertility. Big hips can be equally sexy, but not all the time.
Just my opinion...
How are stretch marks a sign of fertility??
I guess because she had a baby. Granted it's only an indication of previous womb action, but to some men that is sexy.
Henry VIII for example
Not everyone with stretch marks will of had children though.
No. I know guys with stretch marks and I'm no scientist but I'm pretty sure men don't have babies "
Yep, and I also know of childless slim woman (that have never been bigger) that have them too! So def nothing to do with fertility. |
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I am covered in stretch marks and have been since I was 12. I don't have kids, I'm just really prone to them. I've even got them from growing upwards as well as outwards.
No one has ever given a shit, not nearly as much as me. |
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"Stretch marks are wonderfully womanly and a super sexy sign of fertility. Big hips can be equally sexy, but not all the time.
Just my opinion...
How are stretch marks a sign of fertility??
I guess because she had a baby. Granted it's only an indication of previous womb action, but to some men that is sexy.
Henry VIII for example "
My stretch marks are a sign I really like food. |
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"Stretch marks are wonderfully womanly and a super sexy sign of fertility. Big hips can be equally sexy, but not all the time.
Just my opinion..."
How do you work that out??? |
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I'm a tiny little thing under my covering! I had three enormous babies and lots and lots more water than I should have had so I have stretch marks that start just below my ribs and extend right the way down to halfway down my thighs. Oh and all over my boobs. I've lost about four stone so I have lots of excess flesh that just won't go away too.
I was like you a while back, far too embarrassed to show my stretch marks to anybody else. But you know what, you will meet somebody who won't mind, if they do they aren't worth knowing. Because they're not stretch marks: they're life experience marks. Be proud of your mummy body, don't let anyone tell you it's ever anything less than beautiful.
It's down to self confidence really. I had zero when I started this. Some would say "look at me now!". Shy is one thing I am no longer.
Embrace it, life is too short to hide away. |
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"The belt stretch marks that ladies get after pregnancy. Not the general size change ones,but the more severe ones.
Having said that, have been with women who have had 3 kids and are untouched. "
Nope, you can get them without pregnancy too. |
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My stretch marks and my tummy in general are big hang ups for me. I'm not huge but I'm not slim. And I've got 3 amazing children to show for them.
I'm starting to realise that most people don't see the flaws we see in ourselves and if they do they view them very differently |
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I know. But it's the rapid change in the natal period that causes the deeper ones. It depends on nutrition and how big you get though.
I have seen similar ones on guys who use steroids...around arms and other areas. |
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"So annoying when they itch though
Keep a fly swot, with your knitting "
Embarrassing when you're queuing in Asda though
My baby is 28 now and mine still itch |
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"I know. But it's the rapid change in the natal period that causes the deeper ones. It depends on nutrition and how big you get though.
I have seen similar ones on guys who use steroids...around arms and other areas. "
*Sometimes* it's the rapid change in the natal period that causes the deeper ones. You do not have to have been pregnant to get deep or severe ones. |
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"So annoying when they itch though
Keep a fly swot, with your knitting
Embarrassing when you're queuing in Asda though
My baby is 28 now and mine still itch "
Aye I thought mine had settled, my was baby is 29!
Alas I now have a baby who's 6 it's a vicious circle I'm telling ya! |
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"So, the general thought is that men like stretch marks "
Personally, I don't dislike them... They don't look unattractive.... They're part of the person and if I've built a connection with a person....some stretch marks will have no impact on my feelings or desires toward them x |
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I have a belly, stretch marks and a c section scar. Ill never be toned and unwobbly but guess what? Im happy in my own skin. My scars (there are a few different ones) all serve to remind me of times in my life that I survived. The section scar alone serves to remind me just how amazing my body is. If you feel judged because of your body, tell them to jog on kitty as there will always be someone who will appreciate it |
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I have a belly, stretch marks and a c section scar. Ill never be toned and unwobbly but guess what? Im happy in my own skin. My scars (there are a few different ones) all serve to remind me of times in my life that I survived. The section scar alone serves to remind me just how amazing my body is. If you feel judged because of your body, tell them to jog on kitty as there will always be someone who will appreciate it |
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"I am covered in stretch marks and have been since I was 12. I don't have kids, I'm just really prone to them. I've even got them from growing upwards as well as outwards.
No one has ever given a shit, not nearly as much as me. "
I'm exactly the same, had most of mine since I hit puberty |
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"I hate my stretch marks and will only get fully naked in front of hubby. I just buy flattering lingerie that covers my insecurities x "
I'm the same. Men keep telling me when I'm on cam how gorgeous my body is but they don't know what's lurking beneath. |
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Stretch marks, scars, wide hips....all these things are a part of the story of your life. When I encounter a woman with stretch marks I do not think "oh, that's not nice". I do think "here is a human being who has lived and experienced things I never can."
Don't worry about the marks. If anyone refuses to play because of them....put that person down as shallow and move on. |
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My ex was cruel . Woyld say nobody.will touch you since youve had kids. Knocked me back for a while. 80+ meets cant all be wrong.i have older children and now also young children . People either like you as you are or wouldnt bother. If they dont like tough its there problem. |
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