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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Trust is an important issue when it comes to certain things you would like to try out every once in awhile, so would you let anyone you didn't know into your fantasy's.
I personally wouldn't but then I do have some friends I trust completely...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Trust is an important issue when it comes to certain things you would like to try out every once in awhile, so would you let anyone you didn't know into your fantasy's.
I personally wouldn't but then I do have some friends I trust completely... "
I think maybe I have used fantasy in the wrong context what I meant to say really was if you wanted to try a bit of whipping or something along with those lines would you let a stranger do it.. |
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No I wouldn't, you have to know someone to do certain acts then the world is your oyster plus I would assume if they wanted to do something with me the first time they would with others so would loose its meaning |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Trust takes time to build and in my eyes isn't given away easily so when you do find a playmate whom you learn to trust then it adds more fun to the meets.
I've found someone I trust and boundaries are getting bulldozed and I'm enjoying every minute but by no means would I meet with someone I don't know let alone trust and live out my fantasies or theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im too trusting - my feelings and emotions have been bashed on here before now. My own fault really. Re fantasies - dont have any but if I did it would have to be a longterm friend and total trust before I tell anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Trust is an important issue when it comes to certain things you would like to try out every once in awhile, so would you let anyone you didn't know into your fantasy's.
I personally wouldn't but then I do have some friends I trust completely...
I think maybe I have used fantasy in the wrong context what I meant to say really was if you wanted to try a bit of whipping or something along with those lines would you let a stranger do it.."
Nope |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Trust takes time to build and in my eyes isn't given away easily so when you do find a playmate whom you learn to trust then it adds more fun to the meets."
^^^ this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But isn't that a big part of swinging?
You meet total strangers to live out your fantasies?
I fantasised about a FFM.
I fantasize about a MMF and someone recommended a club. I won't know them.. But to live out my fantasy, I will have to trust them.  |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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"But isn't that a big part of swinging?
You meet total strangers to live out your fantasies?
I fantasised about a FFM.
I fantasize about a MMF and someone recommended a club. I won't know them.. But to live out my fantasy, I will have to trust them. "
That's what I was thinking tbh, all ideas and scenarios so far have been on the back of swinging so a 8 year friendship, two holidays, being the godparents of each isn't really realistic is it ? |
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"But isn't that a big part of swinging?
You meet total strangers to live out your fantasies?
I fantasised about a FFM.
I fantasize about a MMF and someone recommended a club. I won't know them.. But to live out my fantasy, I will have to trust them. "
I think indulging in a MFM in a club is different to allowing a stranger to blindfold, handcuff and gag you to your bed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But isn't that a big part of swinging?
You meet total strangers to live out your fantasies?
I fantasised about a FFM.
I fantasize about a MMF and someone recommended a club. I won't know them.. But to live out my fantasy, I will have to trust them.
I think indulging in a MFM in a club is different to allowing a stranger to blindfold, handcuff and gag you to your bed! "
There are fetish/swinging clubs too. And I can't see where the OP mentioned anything about blinfolds or handcuffs |
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Regardless of what happens during the meet everytime you meet someone new and play/have sex with them, you are putting trust into them. So I really do not understand where all the 'Nos' come from?
Are you all having vamilla sex? I am not judging so please don't bite my head off, I am just quite surprised...isn't that what swinging is about? Meeting strangers and have sex with them to fulfill a fantasy, that fantasy being the appeal of the unknown? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regardless of what happens during the meet everytime you meet someone new and play/have sex with them, you are putting trust into them. So I really do not understand where all the 'Nos' come from?
Are you all having vanilla sex? I am not judging so please don't bite my head off, I am just quite surprised...isn't that what swinging is about? Meeting strangers and have sex with them to fulfil a fantasy, that fantasy being the appeal of the unknown?"
I agree.. But vanilla sex or not.. A fantasy can be absolutely anything. Not just kink  |
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