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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP: "People dislike single guys" is a bit of a sweeping statement. Some couples/ladies won't meet single guys at all, but very many will. And some single guys will never be popular, because they're not going about it the right way.
Bearing in mind single guys vastly outnumber the demand for single guys, it's important to make the right approach.
Firstly, you need to have the right profile. This should describe you, what you're looking for, and most importantly, what you think you have to offer (other than a penis!). Try to convey your personality and sense of humour. An ideal set of photos would include a good clear face-pic, a full body shot, and a teasing torso or bum pic. Keep cock-shots in private or friends only.
Secondly, you need to choose the right people to approach. Read their profile very carefully, and make sure you match at least 95% of what they're looking for. Check that they are looking for single guys, as some people don't use their filters.
Thirdly, take time to write an individual message for each profile you want to approach (we can spot copy + paste a mile away!). If you're approaching a couple, make sure to talk to both of them. Make sure your message covers why you find them attractive (it's best if you can refer to their profile text, not just their pictures). Most importantly, explain why you think they should choose you, out of the mass of messages they will have in their inbox.
Attach your face pic, or teasing body pic.
Send, and forget about it. If you get a response, that's great. If you don't get a response, don't pester them.
Good luck, and happy swinging! |
