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It is right to say that regardless of who likes who more. Its up to the guy to make the first physical move whether its going to kiss them or develop what's going on already otherwise girls take it as rejection?
Guys how do you feel about this? Girls do you believe this is or should always be the case or would you happily make all the first physical moves? |
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"It is right to say that regardless of who likes who more. Its up to the guy to make the first physical move whether its going to kiss them or develop what's going on already otherwise girls take it as rejection?
Guys how do you feel about this? Girls do you believe this is or should always be the case or would you happily make all the first physical moves?"
I always find that when a lady grabs my cock, then it's a green light for more action.  |
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"It is right to say that regardless of who likes who more. Its up to the guy to make the first physical move whether its going to kiss them or develop what's going on already otherwise girls take it as rejection?
Guys how do you feel about this? Girls do you believe this is or should always be the case or would you happily make all the first physical moves?"
For me, on the first meet, I like the guy to make the first move - ie kissing. If ive met them before, then I would as id feel ok with doing that  |
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Anyone can make a first move, there's no set rule for who should do what.
Sometimes i do, sometimes i love it when a woman does.
If you sit there "expecting" things to pan out a certain way, you'll often be left disappointed. Take charge of what you want and to hell with whatever you perceive to be societal norm at the time. |
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"It is right to say that regardless of who likes who more. Its up to the guy to make the first physical move whether its going to kiss them or develop what's going on already otherwise girls take it as rejection?
Guys how do you feel about this? Girls do you believe this is or should always be the case or would you happily make all the first physical moves?
I always find that when a lady grabs my cock, then it's a green light for more action. "
Didn't mean it like that, lol. I meant say you met someone on a night out or through a mate and you liked them enough for stuff to happen. Would you make a move or see if they make some sort of move first? If you thought they liked you and nothing happened on the first few meets. You class it as rejection? |
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I almost always make the first move.
Obviously as blackS says above. .just go with the flow!
If your both horny why delay it sat their twiddling your thumbs?
Makes no sense to me. |
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"It is right to say that regardless of who likes who more. Its up to the guy to make the first physical move whether its going to kiss them or develop what's going on already otherwise girls take it as rejection?
Guys how do you feel about this? Girls do you believe this is or should always be the case or would you happily make all the first physical moves?
I always find that when a lady grabs my cock, then it's a green light for more action.
Didn't mean it like that, lol. I meant say you met someone on a night out or through a mate and you liked them enough for stuff to happen. Would you make a move or see if they make some sort of move first? If you thought they liked you and nothing happened on the first few meets. You class it as rejection?"
stuff? What kind of stuff, if your meeting for NSA then if nothing happened after the first social meet what would be the point of meeting them again |
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"It is right to say that regardless of who likes who more. Its up to the guy to make the first physical move whether its going to kiss them or develop what's going on already otherwise girls take it as rejection?
Guys how do you feel about this? Girls do you believe this is or should always be the case or would you happily make all the first physical moves?
I always find that when a lady grabs my cock, then it's a green light for more action.
Didn't mean it like that, lol. I meant say you met someone on a night out or through a mate and you liked them enough for stuff to happen. Would you make a move or see if they make some sort of move first? If you thought they liked you and nothing happened on the first few meets. You class it as rejection?stuff? What kind of stuff, if your meeting for NSA then if nothing happened after the first social meet what would be the point of meeting them again"
Obviously I am not making myself clear  . Say you went out with a group of friends and a new guy is with them. You all chat and have a laugh. You decide you like him. So you ask him to join you lot more often when out. Next time you're all out then. You see him and you manage to get him alone for a few minutes while everyone has gone somewhere for a few minutes. Do you tell him how you feel/make the first move physically or wait for him and if he doesn't take it as rejection? |
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Obviously I am not making myself clear . Say you went out with a group of friends and a new guy is with them. You all chat and have a laugh. You decide you like him. So you ask him to join you lot more often when out. Next time you're all out then. You see him and you manage to get him alone for a few minutes while everyone has gone somewhere for a few minutes. Do you tell him how you feel/make the first move physically or wait for him and if he doesn't take it as rejection? "
Pardon?
Your making no sense. |
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"It is right to say that regardless of who likes who more. Its up to the guy to make the first physical move whether its going to kiss them or develop what's going on already otherwise girls take it as rejection?
Guys how do you feel about this? Girls do you believe this is or should always be the case or would you happily make all the first physical moves?
I always find that when a lady grabs my cock, then it's a green light for more action.
Didn't mean it like that, lol. I meant say you met someone on a night out or through a mate and you liked them enough for stuff to happen. Would you make a move or see if they make some sort of move first? If you thought they liked you and nothing happened on the first few meets. You class it as rejection?stuff? What kind of stuff, if your meeting for NSA then if nothing happened after the first social meet what would be the point of meeting them again
Obviously I am not making myself clear . Say you went out with a group of friends and a new guy is with them. You all chat and have a laugh. You decide you like him. So you ask him to join myou lot more often when out. Next time you're all out then. You see him and you manage to get him alone for a few minutes while everyone has gone somewhere for a few minutes. Do you tell him how you feel/make the first move physically or wait for him and if he doesn't take it as rejection? "
well thats not actually a meet is it. I'd just pay him attention and get to know him more. I wouldn't jump him soon as my friends backs where turned |
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If you fancy someone ask them out for a drink,the worst that can happen is they say no,lifes too short to be hanging around waiting for someone else to make the first move |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is right to say that regardless of who likes who more. Its up to the guy to make the first physical move whether its going to kiss them or develop what's going on already otherwise girls take it as rejection?
Guys how do you feel about this? Girls do you believe this is or should always be the case or would you happily make all the first physical moves?
I always find that when a lady grabs my cock, then it's a green light for more action.
Didn't mean it like that, lol. I meant say you met someone on a night out or through a mate and you liked them enough for stuff to happen. Would you make a move or see if they make some sort of move first? If you thought they liked you and nothing happened on the first few meets. You class it as rejection?stuff? What kind of stuff, if your meeting for NSA then if nothing happened after the first social meet what would be the point of meeting them again
Obviously I am not making myself clear . Say you went out with a group of friends and a new guy is with them. You all chat and have a laugh. You decide you like him. So you ask him to join myou lot more often when out. Next time you're all out then. You see him and you manage to get him alone for a few minutes while everyone has gone somewhere for a few minutes. Do you tell him how you feel/make the first move physically or wait for him and if he doesn't take it as rejection? well thats not actually a meet is it. I'd just pay him attention and get to know him more. I wouldn't jump him soon as my friends backs where turned"
Where do you cross the line when wanting to know him as a mate or wanting to know him in that way? At what point would you think "I am going for it or "if he doesn't go for it he doesn't like me"  |
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"If you fancy someone ask them out for a drink,the worst that can happen is they say no,lifes too short to be hanging around waiting for someone else to make the first move "
That's the point I am making as well. If a guy asked you for a drink and you said "yes" and everything on the date was going ok. If at the end he didn't make a move would you take that as rejection or would you have made a move if you liked him? |
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"If you fancy someone ask them out for a drink,the worst that can happen is they say no,lifes too short to be hanging around waiting for someone else to make the first move
That's the point I am making as well. If a guy asked you for a drink and you said "yes" and everything on the date was going ok. If at the end he didn't make a move would you take that as rejection or would you have made a move if you liked him? "
Id start with a kiss goodbye and see how it went,if the response was good then happy days,if not then its just a kiss goodbye,no problems  |
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"It is right to say that regardless of who likes who more. Its up to the guy to make the first physical move whether its going to kiss them or develop what's going on already otherwise girls take it as rejection?
Guys how do you feel about this? Girls do you believe this is or should always be the case or would you happily make all the first physical moves?
I always find that when a lady grabs my cock, then it's a green light for more action.
Didn't mean it like that, lol. I meant say you met someone on a night out or through a mate and you liked them enough for stuff to happen. Would you make a move or see if they make some sort of move first? If you thought they liked you and nothing happened on the first few meets. You class it as rejection?stuff? What kind of stuff, if your meeting for NSA then if nothing happened after the first social meet what would be the point of meeting them again
Obviously I am not making myself clear . Say you went out with a group of friends and a new guy is with them. You all chat and have a laugh. You decide you like him. So you ask him to join myou lot more often when out. Next time you're all out then. You see him and you manage to get him alone for a few minutes while everyone has gone somewhere for a few minutes. Do you tell him how you feel/make the first move physically or wait for him and if he doesn't take it as rejection? well thats not actually a meet is it. I'd just pay him attention and get to know him more. I wouldn't jump him soon as my friends backs where turned
Where do you cross the line when wanting to know him as a mate or wanting to know him in that way? At what point would you think "I am going for it or "if he doesn't go for it he doesn't like me" "
if I liked him I'd ask him if he wanted to go out one night just me and him, he either says yes or no. If he says yes I would assume he liked me |
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"Anyone can make a first move, there's no set rule for who should do what.
Sometimes i do, sometimes i love it when a woman does.
If you sit there "expecting" things to pan out a certain way, you'll often be left disappointed. Take charge of what you want and to hell with whatever you perceive to be societal norm at the time."
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"If you fancy someone ask them out for a drink,the worst that can happen is they say no,lifes too short to be hanging around waiting for someone else to make the first move
That's the point I am making as well. If a guy asked you for a drink and you said "yes" and everything on the date was going ok. If at the end he didn't make a move would you take that as rejection or would you have made a move if you liked him?
Id start with a kiss goodbye and see how it went,if the response was good then happy days,if not then its just a kiss goodbye,no problems "
So you would kiss him first? Jammy git, lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is right to say that regardless of who likes who more. Its up to the guy to make the first physical move whether its going to kiss them or develop what's going on already otherwise girls take it as rejection?
Guys how do you feel about this? Girls do you believe this is or should always be the case or would you happily make all the first physical moves?
I always find that when a lady grabs my cock, then it's a green light for more action.
Didn't mean it like that, lol. I meant say you met someone on a night out or through a mate and you liked them enough for stuff to happen. Would you make a move or see if they make some sort of move first? If you thought they liked you and nothing happened on the first few meets. You class it as rejection?stuff? What kind of stuff, if your meeting for NSA then if nothing happened after the first social meet what would be the point of meeting them again
Obviously I am not making myself clear . Say you went out with a group of friends and a new guy is with them. You all chat and have a laugh. You decide you like him. So you ask him to join myou lot more often when out. Next time you're all out then. You see him and you manage to get him alone for a few minutes while everyone has gone somewhere for a few minutes. Do you tell him how you feel/make the first move physically or wait for him and if he doesn't take it as rejection? well thats not actually a meet is it. I'd just pay him attention and get to know him more. I wouldn't jump him soon as my friends backs where turned
Where do you cross the line when wanting to know him as a mate or wanting to know him in that way? At what point would you think "I am going for it or "if he doesn't go for it he doesn't like me" if I liked him I'd ask him if he wanted to go out one night just me and him, he either says yes or no. If he says yes I would assume he liked me"
If you both went on the date and it was going ok and you still liked him. At the end of the date if he didn't make a move would you feel rejected or would you make a move on him and see how he reacts? |
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"I'd give him a kiss goodnight and see what happens I wouldntbfeel rejected"
So what I have been told by numerous blokes about if you don't make the first move they will feel rejected and move on is nonsense then? As apparently its the blokes job to do this |
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"I'd give him a kiss goodnight and see what happens I wouldntbfeel rejected
So what I have been told by numerous blokes about if you don't make the first move they will feel rejected and move on is nonsense then? As apparently its the blokes job to do this "
don't go round listening to what others say go with your gut instinct |
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"I'd give him a kiss goodnight and see what happens I wouldntbfeel rejected
So what I have been told by numerous blokes about if you don't make the first move they will feel rejected and move on is nonsense then? As apparently its the blokes job to do this don't go round listening to what others say go with your gut instinct"
Same thing. My gut instinct always says a man has to make a first move and others say it too. But I think sometimes that sometimes ladies do it too, but its very rare. |
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"I'd give him a kiss goodnight and see what happens I wouldntbfeel rejected
Oi! i said that...... "
Now now ladies no fighting. Unless its over me  and even then I will say there's plenty of me to go around and of necessary I am willing to share |
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