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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Key ingredients?
What makes some last for a season and others for a life time?
Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly?
Just a thought?
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i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they are |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Key ingredients?
What makes some last for a season and others for a life time?
Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly?
Just a thought?
i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they are"
You mean everybody can be "substituted"? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I think they all last for a season. It just depends on the length of the season. Some are very long and don't end even after the death of one because you adapt to the new season together.
I had a funny message from a friend today. Her husband died last year. She never took his name when he was alive but now that he has gone she has changed her name to his. Their seasons changed, a lot sometimes, but they always worked to change together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Key ingredients?
What makes some last for a season and others for a life time?
Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly?
Just a thought?
i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they areYou mean everybody can be "substituted"? "
i think some people get cocksure and they think a friendship is one sided and people wont get rid as they are too good!
if u know what i mean x
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Key ingredients?
What makes some last for a season and others for a life time?
Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly?
Just a thought?
i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they areYou mean everybody can be "substituted"?
i think some people get cocksure and they think a friendship is one sided and people wont get rid as they are too good!
if u know what i mean x
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I think I know what you mean - it is people taking other people for granted sometime, right? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think they all last for a season. It just depends on the length of the season. Some are very long and don't end even after the death of one because you adapt to the new season together.
I had a funny message from a friend today. Her husband died last year. She never took his name when he was alive but now that he has gone she has changed her name to his. Their seasons changed, a lot sometimes, but they always worked to change together."
That sounds like a genuine "togetherness" beyond the concept of season really - amazing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honesty, trust, communication, sharing the same interests/value in life, being there through thick and thin, accepting who they are as a person and not trying to change them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Key ingredients?
What makes some last for a season and others for a life time?
Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly?
Just a thought?
i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they areYou mean everybody can be "substituted"?
i think some people get cocksure and they think a friendship is one sided and people wont get rid as they are too good!
if u know what i mean x
I think I know what you mean - it is people taking other people for granted sometime, right? "
yep and people not making an effort leaving it all to one person x
(hope your well BTW) x |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Key ingredients?
What makes some last for a season and others for a life time?
Wy would we expect them to last a lifetime when we are changing so quickly?
Just a thought?
i think people think they aren't expendable but in reality they areYou mean everybody can be "substituted"?
i think some people get cocksure and they think a friendship is one sided and people wont get rid as they are too good!
if u know what i mean x
I think I know what you mean - it is people taking other people for granted sometime, right?
yep and people not making an effort leaving it all to one person x
(hope your well BTW) x"
Definitely know what you mean lol. Yes, I am fine, thanks xx
I think that when you find a relationship is not based on equality and there is one who does a lot of taking and the other is doing a lot of giving.... the relationship wont last for long? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Honesty, trust, communication, sharing the same interests/value in life, being there through thick and thin, accepting who they are as a person and not trying to change them.
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That hits a few of my criteria too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honesty, trust, communication, sharing the same interests/value in life, being there through thick and thin, accepting who they are as a person and not trying to change them.
That hits a few of my criteria too "
and loyalty |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Honesty, trust, communication, sharing the same interests/value in life, being there through thick and thin, accepting who they are as a person and not trying to change them.
That hits a few of my criteria too
and loyalty "
Really important to me, too - it is one of those traits that identifies genuine friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honesty, trust, communication, sharing the same interests/value in life, being there through thick and thin, accepting who they are as a person and not trying to change them.
That hits a few of my criteria too
and loyalty "
Forgot to mention that. But that aspect is very important too |
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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago
the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands |
in my experience the hook is buried well and deep and the person pulling and playing out the line knows that for sure, so on some occasions they will tease you to get a reaction, doesn't mean that the friendship is any less |
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