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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Long may it last for you both x  "
And everyone else who finds a friend you not only have fun with but enjoy vanilla too..and can sit and just chat n giggle....and just simply enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Long may it last for you both x "
And everyone else who finds a friend you not only have fun with but enjoy vanilla too..and can sit and just chat n giggle....and just simply enjoy |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Congratulations to all of you.
My query is what stops them from being your perfect other half or you theirs?
I've read some posts between fbs that just read like full on loving couples as more and more is done together but with an acceptance of meeting others on their own. What am I not understanding? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Congratulations to all of you.
My query is what stops them from being your perfect other half or you theirs?
I've read some posts between fbs that just read like full on loving couples as more and more is done together but with an acceptance of meeting others on their own. What am I not understanding?"
yeah i often wonder that too. Especially when other family members are told 'little white lies' to keep things acceptable to the unknown |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Congratulations to all of you.
My query is what stops them from being your perfect other half or you theirs?
I've read some posts between fbs that just read like full on loving couples as more and more is done together but with an acceptance of meeting others on their own. What am I not understanding?"
I know I'm only here for nsa but I do have a a good friendship with one guy I meet reg, do vanilla stuff as well as swing with but still nothing will come of it as we both know where we stand and what we want.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Congratulations to all of you.
My query is what stops them from being your perfect other half or you theirs?
I've read some posts between fbs that just read like full on loving couples as more and more is done together but with an acceptance of meeting others on their own. What am I not understanding?
yeah i often wonder that too. Especially when other family members are told 'little white lies' to keep things acceptable to the unknown"
No white lies told in my household my daughter knows and accepts why lie???? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Congratulations to all of you.
My query is what stops them from being your perfect other half or you theirs?
I've read some posts between fbs that just read like full on loving couples as more and more is done together but with an acceptance of meeting others on their own. What am I not understanding?
I know I'm only here for nsa but I do have a a good friendship with one guy I meet reg, do vanilla stuff as well as swing with but still nothing will come of it as we both know where we stand and what we want...."
I'm still struggling as it still sounds like boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. But then I don't see living with someone as the definition of a close, loving relationship. Although, I suppose, if you had a crisis and s/he is not the person you want to call to talk about it that clarifies it a bit. Close but not the person you turn to.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Trust me on this one when I say its a good friend...no way do I need a bf...but is nice to enjoy friendship swinging and vanilla...im not interested in any loving relationship and NO man will ever live in my house ever...lol
And I turn to people I love...if I need them..
why canny two people enjoy sex and friendship without commitment and complications think im doing just fab enjoying a good friend and his friendship |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Trust me on this one when I say its a good friend...no way do I need a bf...but is nice to enjoy friendship swinging and vanilla...im not interested in any loving relationship and NO man will ever live in my house ever...lol
And I turn to people I love...if I need them..
why canny two people enjoy sex and friendship without commitment and complications think im doing just fab enjoying a good friend and his friendship "
Fair enough. I think two people can enjoy sex and friendship but I think there is always a level of commitment, even if it's just to turn up when arranged, with all friendships. It's not "ownership" or even exclusivity, let alone fidelity but commitments and attachments develop. That's where I get confused.
Just my brain doing it's over-thinking.
Happy times for you and your fb. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't class him as a fb to be honest more a friend....no commitment just good ole friendship and fun...something rare but good as I see it...and above all FUN |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Congratulations to all of you.
My query is what stops them from being your perfect other half or you theirs?
I've read some posts between fbs that just read like full on loving couples as more and more is done together but with an acceptance of meeting others on their own. What am I not understanding?"
I think because I know there's things about him that would drive me crazy, and he says the same. We like each other, we have a great drink and chat twice a month, and we have stellar sex. But if we got together and it didn't work out then what we have would be spoiled. We're both happy with the way things are now, so why change it?
My daughter knows all about him though. He's come to Greece with me and her and her boyfriend. Should be a laugh!  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Congratulations to all of you.
My query is what stops them from being your perfect other half or you theirs?
I've read some posts between fbs that just read like full on loving couples as more and more is done together but with an acceptance of meeting others on their own. What am I not understanding?
I think because I know there's things about him that would drive me crazy, and he says the same. We like each other, we have a great drink and chat twice a month, and we have stellar sex. But if we got together and it didn't work out then what we have would be spoiled. We're both happy with the way things are now, so why change it?
My daughter knows all about him though. He's come to Greece with me and her and her boyfriend. Should be a laugh! "
I think I'm getting it. I would like one of those too then. Where do I sign up? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I think I'm getting it. I would like one of those too then. Where do I sign up?"
Don't tell everyone but *whispers* I met him off another site. Shhhh!
We've been seeing each other on and off for 7 years. We've fallen out with each other, made up, met others, had relationships with others, but in the end we're still seeing each other. Funny thing is, after our first meet I thought he didn't like me. Turns out he's just shy. |
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Interesting reading this thread.
I've had a few FWB, but they have all ended up wanting more in the end. So had to call them off.
Stopped looking for such an arrangement a while ago. While it would be nice, given my track record, i'm always wary.
Sorry, i know hat sounds incredibly jaded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My FWB is also my best friend. We are there for each other 24/7 via phone and we speak daily. Harder to see him now I'm living up north. But brillaint when we get to spend quality time together. |
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