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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

any one else who this as happen to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its very bad manners and needless really when there are so many different ways to communicate with people

Had they been in touch with you today? im assuming the meet was today

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope. All mine turn up.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan  over a year ago

Bradford

yeap... and then they block you!

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Nope. All mine turn up."

Mine too.

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Nope. All mine turn up.

Mine too."

same here...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What's a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

only had 1 no show but hoping Im lucky on Friday too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had one that did'nt.....he did message me a yr later about it though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've only ever had ne lass that didn't turn up for an arranged meet! She had a good excuse though. She got a better offer!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

no sill not message me and yes was to day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its getting to the point where if I organised a meet, and they didn't show, I'd still be happy I got to organize one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no sill not message me and yes was to day "

Did you speak on the phone or just arrange via message?

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By *quirrelMan  over a year ago

East Manchester

Been caught out a couple of times with "meet me at the corner of X&Y at Z o'clock and then after an hour I decide its a no-show and either go to the pub or the pictures, I end up spending the money I was going to spend on both of us just on me.

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By *ilmisseCouple  over a year ago

leicestershire


"Its getting to the point where if I organised a meet, and they didn't show, I'd still be happy I got to organize one "

lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

The site recommends that you report the profile if they do not turn up to a pre-arranged meet.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"any one else who this as happen to"

Used to when I started on here, not so much now. Block and report.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"no sill not message me and yes was to day

Did you speak on the phone or just arrange via message? "

yes both

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"any one else who this as happen to

Used to when I started on here, not so much now. Block and report."

I think I will maybe better lucky next time I guess

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no sill not message me and yes was to day

Did you speak on the phone or just arrange via message?

yes both"

Sounds like either nerves, last minute emergency or - yep - you've been 'timewasted' !!

Sadly it happens - but just report and move on!

Better luck next time!!

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By *ngel n tedCouple  over a year ago

maidstone


"I've only ever had ne lass that didn't turn up for an arranged meet! She had a good excuse though. She got a better offer!

"

which would seem to be the norm round our neck of the woods

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"no sill not message me and yes was to day

Did you speak on the phone or just arrange via message?

yes both"

Hope you have take the good advice to block and report the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"no sill not message me and yes was to day

Did you speak on the phone or just arrange via message?

yes both

Hope you have take the good advice to block and report the profile."

yes I have time wasting I really don't see the point of people doing that

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By *plankyMan  over a year ago

Beeston

So far all meets have been met ....

What is shocking though, is the sheer number of well meaning messages that don't get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


".....

What is shocking though, is the sheer number of well meaning messages that don't get a reply."

From the FAQ's on here:-

"It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?"

I don't reply to any messages, well-meaning or otherwise, because:-

~ my previous "thanks but no thanks" messages have resulted in me receiving abuse

~ replying (even with a "thanks but no thanks" message) means that person will be able to mail me in the future, even AFTER I've applied filters.

Sorry if it seems rude, but if you were a single woman, you would understand x

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


".....

What is shocking though, is the sheer number of well meaning messages that don't get a reply.

From the FAQ's on here:-

"It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?"

I don't reply to any messages, well-meaning or otherwise, because:-

~ my previous "thanks but no thanks" messages have resulted in me receiving abuse

~ replying (even with a "thanks but no thanks" message) means that person will be able to mail me in the future, even AFTER I've applied filters.

Sorry if it seems rude, but if you were a single woman, you would understand x"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

yup I had one guy arrange to meet for a coffee & not turn up...... His loss,

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"yup I had one guy arrange to meet for a coffee & not turn up...... His loss,"

I bet it was his loss your pictures look good

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