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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if I have they have never admitted that's why they have turned me down, if people decide not to meet me I don't ask why"
You could make up some highflying profession to tell them, you're guaranteed a meet then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if I have they have never admitted that's why they have turned me down, if people decide not to meet me I don't ask why
You could make up some highflying profession to tell them, you're guaranteed a meet then. "
its a good point, if you did lie about your job how would people know? |
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"if I have they have never admitted that's why they have turned me down, if people decide not to meet me I don't ask why
You could make up some highflying profession to tell them, you're guaranteed a meet then.
its a good point, if you did lie about your job how would people know? "
you might say your a pilot but then park your bin lorry outside there house |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"don't think there is anything wrong with people asking for what type of person they want to meet, free choice and all of that.
might be royalty on here not wanting to mix with the riff raff  "
Erm we asked you to be discrete  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"don't think there is anything wrong with people asking for what type of person they want to meet, free choice and all of that.
might be royalty on here not wanting to mix with the riff raff "
Well, wasn't going to say anything but just wait till that Royal baby gets here, it's going to look a lot like me... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if I have they have never admitted that's why they have turned me down, if people decide not to meet me I don't ask why
You could make up some highflying profession to tell them, you're guaranteed a meet then.
its a good point, if you did lie about your job how would people know?
you might say your a pilot but then park your bin lorry outside there house"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met all types of people on here from paramedics to unemployed, and I wouldn't say I have found a pattern of people with 'good' jobs or jobs at all making better meets |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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In our profession we meet everyone from dustbin men to government ministers, once your clothes are off everyone is the same...end of story.
To just ask for other professionals does seem a shame because horray Henrys can be worse than the ASBO crowd sometimes, it depends on your confidence and how secure you are to how far out of your box you'll venture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't care if the person is a professional or not, but we do like a certain level of intelligence. Their initial mail is usually a good indicator. We don't reply to the "wanna fuk" messages. |
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I'm still amazed at the inverted snobbery of some people. How people choose their playmates is none of my business.
In almost every thread people talk about the social aspects of swinging and their "standards". If you meet in clubs and go dogging of course you're not going to care who scratches your itch. However, if you're more "discerning" you wish to play with "like minded people".
I don't have "professional" on my profile as I don't think it's necessary, however I wouldn't besmirch others for doing so: live and let live hey! |
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"I'm still amazed at the inverted snobbery of some people. How people choose their playmates is none of my business.
In almost every thread people talk about the social aspects of swinging and their "standards". If you meet in clubs and go dogging of course you're not going to care who scratches your itch. However, if you're more "discerning" you wish to play with "like minded people".
I don't have "professional" on my profile as I don't think it's necessary, however I wouldn't besmirch others for doing so: live and let live hey! "
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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We have had fun with people who in normal life would never meet otherwise, intelligence and manners don't always come with professional people as we have found out and vice versa.
To make swinging a class thing is silly but if some feel the need we can only humour them as it is their choice.
This recession as effected everyone and dissolved a lot of the snobbery as people realise they are all them same. |
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"We have had fun with people who in normal life would never meet otherwise, intelligence and manners don't always come with professional people as we have found out and vice versa.
To make swinging a class thing is silly but if some feel the need we can only humour them as it is their choice.
This recession as effected everyone and dissolved a lot of the snobbery as people realise they are all them same."
I agree with everything you say. The class thing works both ways and people judging each other because of the job they do is ludicrous whether you're judging them for describing themselves as professional or for any other job.
Like you we have met loads of people we would never have come into contact with otherwise from every walk of life and its only reinforced the opinion we already held that financial standing and job status has absolutely no bearing on a persons intelligence, personailty and sexiness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be fair, I think people use the word 'professional', to mean educated, intelligent, like-minded etc. It's just a form of shorthand, which people use to try to indicate who they're attracted to.
But I particularly love the profiles who spell it "proffesional" 
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Sunny
(Job-seeker, who got turned down for a minimum wage call-centre job this week  ) |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"To be fair, I think people use the word 'professional', to mean educated, intelligent, like-minded etc. It's just a form of shorthand, which people use to try to indicate who they're attracted to.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't care about jobs/status etc. etc.
but people are not all the same - clothes on and off - they're very, very different and it's perfectly understandable that people seek out those they'd be most comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just seen a profile that I reckon trumps this subject. This person states they are privately educated....
Off to amend our profile. We will now only meet people who attended Eton. I wonder if admin can provide a suitable filter for us...  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Just seen a profile that I reckon trumps this subject. This person states they are privately educated....
Off to amend our profile. We will now only meet people who attended Eton. I wonder if admin can provide a suitable filter for us... "
I met a lovely guy a few weeks back who was educated at Eton. Not met a nicer, more unassuming and relaxed guy. Turned out to be a phenomenal meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the whole professionalism thing is bullshit, im a housewife and a mummy too a "disabled" little boy, fella worked his since leaving education with a degree in engineering..... but now he doesnt work he isnt a professional according too some people, its a very fickle place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think there's far more reverse snobbery these days. Be seen to achieve, be affluent or talk about certain mediums such as art and you're branded a snob by quite a few. Good luck to those who achieve, only the sad compare themselves to others. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Personally I think there's far more reverse snobbery these days. Be seen to achieve, be affluent or talk about certain mediums such as art and you're branded a snob by quite a few. Good luck to those who achieve, only the sad compare themselves to others. "
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