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Ladies: what are the most common turnoffs from men on here?

By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

Hiya!

In an effort to enhance myself using my constant self-development programme, I require some more info!

What are the most common turnoffs from men on this site? What don't you like about a lot of men and why?

This should be a great chance for a whinge from you ladies... And guys, don't argue! We all know that women are worse! Haha! Joking.

So, what are the biggest/most common turnoffs?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guys trying too hard to be funny! At times it makes me cringe so much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When they say they will ruin me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guys that pester

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

messages from complete strangers ..

Hi hun .. do you fancy abit of fun ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"messages from complete strangers ..

Hi hun .. do you fancy abit of fun ?

Pics of flaccid cocks poking out there zipper ! Eeek hate that !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unshaven. But I see that's not an issue for you. Although I'm not overly keen on the kebab shot

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Pics on single guy profiles that shows more of their female playmates than them.

Cocks leaving cream pies, in arses bareback!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is anyone going to mention lynx cans and sky remotes? or is that something women love to see?

I just need to know....you know....for a friend

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By *ighland_RoseCouple over a year ago

Brigadoon

Pushy, impatient guys

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By *opping_candyWoman over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Sending the same copy and pasted message week after week...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Erm, after carefull consideration, have to say

Those that sound needy

Smutty talk

Endless cock pics

Smeg, if I saw a bloke with that, would be off like shit off a shovel

Thats all for now, nut msy add more later...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is anyone going to mention lynx cans and sky remotes? or is that something women love to see?

I just need to know....you know....for a friend

Noooooooooooooo unless your ryan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hiya!

In an effort to enhance myself using my constant self-development programme, I require some more info!

What are the most common turnoffs from men on this site? What don't you like about a lot of men and why?

This should be a great chance for a whinge from you ladies... And guys, don't argue! We all know that women are worse! Haha! Joking.

So, what are the biggest/most common turnoffs?"

The biggest turn off for me are messages that contain the words "back door & smashing"

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Guys trying too hard to be funny! At times it makes me cringe so much. "

I've been told I'm guilty of this.

I don't actually try though. I just say what I'm thinking!

Cool though! I'll watch that one. It's knowing the limits.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"When they say they will ruin me

Haha, sounds painful..

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Guys that pester"

Cool! I know that one. That's the most common one isn't it?

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"messages from complete strangers ..

Hi hun .. do you fancy abit of fun ?

Ok, good one too. Guys should be reading this stuff!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"messages from complete strangers ..

Hi hun .. do you fancy abit of fun ?

Pics of flaccid cocks poking out there zipper ! Eeek hate that !

Hahahaha! Why do you hate it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A toilet in the background of their pictures, normally lid up

Ryan is excused from that as well as the lid was down

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Unshaven. But I see that's not an issue for you. Although I'm not overly keen on the kebab shot

Cool, that another good one. I don't know what you mean by kebab shot though!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Pics on single guy profiles that shows more of their female playmates than them.

Cocks leaving cream pies, in arses bareback!

Ok, gotcha!

And ewwwww!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When they say they will ruin me

Haha, sounds painful.. "

Nobodys done it yet.. I tire them out

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Pushy, impatient guys"

Yep, I reckon that's the number one.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Sending the same copy and pasted message week after week..."

Oooooo, ok. I've been semi guilty of that! Hehe!

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By *opping_candyWoman over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Semi guilty!!!!!!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Erm, after carefull consideration, have to say

Those that sound needy

Smutty talk

Endless cock pics

Smeg, if I saw a bloke with that, would be off like shit off a shovel

Thats all for now, nut msy add more later..."

Excellent!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Hiya!

In an effort to enhance myself using my constant self-development programme, I require some more info!

What are the most common turnoffs from men on this site? What don't you like about a lot of men and why?

This should be a great chance for a whinge from you ladies... And guys, don't argue! We all know that women are worse! Haha! Joking.

So, what are the biggest/most common turnoffs?

The biggest turn off for me are messages that contain the words "back door & smashing"

Ok, cool! It does sound a bit rough to be honest!

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

ranging from ....

"you don't know what youre missing " .

"I know im not what you want but for me make an exception" .

"your too old /fat/opinionated anyway."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

men who fart on a meet

i've met a few guys who think its acceptable to fart on meets, I know its a natural body function but I wouldn't dream of sitting there farting on a meet and I doubt many men would find this ok from a woman but for some reason they think cause they are men its ok for them to do it

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"A toilet in the background of their pictures, normally lid up

Ryan is excused from that as well as the lid was down

Hahahaha! I'd never do that.. it doesn't exactly make you look attractive does it? Neither would I have a photo with junk around me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hiya!

In an effort to enhance myself using my constant self-development programme, I require some more info!

What are the most common turnoffs from men on this site? What don't you like about a lot of men and why?

This should be a great chance for a whinge from you ladies... And guys, don't argue! We all know that women are worse! Haha! Joking.

So, what are the biggest/most common turnoffs?

The biggest turn off for me are messages that contain the words "back door & smashing"

Ok, cool! It does sound a bit rough to be honest!"

That and the "ruin" line is an instant get lost, I'd quite like to ruin your testicles with my high heels

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pics on single guy profiles that shows more of their female playmates than them.

I never understands why fab allow them

if im meeting a guy I want to see him not his cum on his last meets tits

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"When they say they will ruin me

Haha, sounds painful..

Nobodys done it yet.. I tire them out

Haha, really. I wouldn't want to... ruining a woman sounds very, well, unpleasant for the woman.

I prefer it when the woman leaves me with a beaming smile rather than a derelict castle! Lol

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Semi guilty!!!!!!"

Yeah, I have a few points to go over and I customise those points to suit the woman!

Different headings and include the name! Haha!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Begging and hassling for a meet when only said 2 words to each other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hiya!

In an effort to enhance myself using my constant self-development programme, I require some more info!

What are the most common turnoffs from men on this site? What don't you like about a lot of men and why?

This should be a great chance for a whinge from you ladies... And guys, don't argue! We all know that women are worse! Haha! Joking.

So, what are the biggest/most common turnoffs?

The biggest turn off for me are messages that contain the words "back door & smashing"

Ok, cool! It does sound a bit rough to be honest!

That and the "ruin" line is an instant get lost, I'd quite like to ruin your testicles with my high heels

Oh I don't know , I've been having a chat with someone who has said he is going to ruin me and considering his age against mine I think he may very well be right

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"Pics on single guy profiles that shows more of their female playmates than them.

I never understands why fab allow them

if im meeting a guy I want to see him not his cum on his last meets tits "

oh I can go one better .guys who show you pics on their phone they've taken during previous meets and then go on to slag the women when you ask if they were meeting them still. don't matter how great the guy was or how much we clicked if hes that disrespectful and indiscreet it aint never ever gonna happen .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When they say they will ruin me

saying they will smash your back doors in is also one that makes me cringle

and saying they will fuck me till im sore, well im sorry but I only get sore thro fucking if im dry so if you cant even keep me wet I don't actually want you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh another one that puts me off

is young guys who say they like older woman cause girls their own age are crap in bed, well if a 21 year old cant satisfy you what you going to do for me?

not the best advert of meeting young people lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A toilet in the background of their pictures, normally lid up

introduction

Would love to shag the arse off you x...

ouch

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"ranging from ....

"you don't know what youre missing " .

"I know im not what you want but for me make an exception" .

"your too old /fat/opinionated anyway."

You'd have to be a weirdo to send stuff like that!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"men who fart on a meet

Hahahaha! That's disgusting. Maybe they're nervous. Lol

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

Oh I don't know , I've been having a chat with someone who has said he is going to ruin me and considering his age against mine I think he may very well be right

I just spat out my pineapple juice reading this

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Hiya!

In an effort to enhance myself using my constant self-development programme, I require some more info!

What are the most common turnoffs from men on this site? What don't you like about a lot of men and why?

This should be a great chance for a whinge from you ladies... And guys, don't argue! We all know that women are worse! Haha! Joking.

So, what are the biggest/most common turnoffs?

The biggest turn off for me are messages that contain the words "back door & smashing"

Ok, cool! It does sound a bit rough to be honest!

That and the "ruin" line is an instant get lost, I'd quite like to ruin your testicles with my high heels

Hahaha! Ok, no ruining! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh I don't know , I've been having a chat with someone who has said he is going to ruin me and considering his age against mine I think he may very well be right

I just spat out my pineapple juice reading this

Oops sorry

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Pics on single guy profiles that shows more of their female playmates than them.

I never understands why fab allow them

if im meeting a guy I want to see him not his cum on his last meets tits "

Haha, ok, no women. Cool... Mmm, I've got a sex pic... Maybe ill remove it now!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think all of mine have been covered, but just a recap:

1. One line messages

2. Text speak messages

3. Assumption that contact (with a one liner) will mean that I will meet them immediately

4. Assumption that I am looking for a dominant/bull whatever

5. Assumption that a polite know really means yes because I have responded (it has stopped me responding at all now if it's a no)

6. The same cut and paste message every other day.

7. Pictures of lots of other women with just the base of their cock showing

8. Flaccid cock pictures

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Begging and hassling for a meet when only said 2 words to each other "

Yep, a major turnoff it seems.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One of my pet hates ( fem here ) is guys that think cos I, m/we are on a swingers site that its a sure thing for a free shag , coming across as if " well lets get at it " sort of attitude and then they wonder why they get turned down .

Yes we, re here to meet for sexy fun but guys just cos you have a cock doesnt mean I, m gonna want yours , maybe I, m a bit fussy but it takes more than that , if theres no physical attraction then it aint happening .

Crawls back under my stone now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pics on single guy profiles that shows more of their female playmates than them.

I never understands why fab allow them

if im meeting a guy I want to see him not his cum on his last meets tits

Haha, ok, no women. Cool... Mmm, I've got a sex pic... Maybe ill remove it now!"

sex pics are ok so long as they show at least as much as you as the woman, its pics like bj pics I don't get where you can see the womans face and most of her body and all of him is his knob pocking in the edge of the pic I don't get, whats the point?

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Pics on single guy profiles that shows more of their female playmates than them.

I never understands why fab allow them

if im meeting a guy I want to see him not his cum on his last meets tits

Hmm, that's an interesting one. I don't think they would have been disrespectful at the time of the previous meet though.

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By *orset manMan over a year ago

Bournemouth

seems like some guys have no basic manners, they need to learn that the females are high on demand and we are like buses- always another one

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"When they say they will ruin me

saying they will smash your back doors in is also one that makes me cringle

and saying they will fuck me till im sore, well im sorry but I only get sore thro fucking if im dry so if you cant even keep me wet I don't actually want you

Haha! Ok! Good.

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

When you say no thanks and get but why...

Or they think that a polite message means you'll chat whenever.

Cock pics but no face or body shots.

Getting called a milf or cougar.

Getting called a milf or cougar by someone only 3 years younger.

Stropping cos I insist on a coffee meet - after all a fat munter like me couldn't possibly turn down instant sex with a dreamboat like him!

The ones who are nothing like my preferences but are convinced that I'm too picky and will overlook all that when I realise how hard it is to get a meet on here.

The same cut and paste message every Tuesday.

Wanna fuk messages.

Text speak.

Men who want to see my pics but their life/job is so much more important that they can't possibly post pics on a sex site.

Messages asking for a bj.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"I think all of mine have been covered, but just a recap:

1. One line messages

2. Text speak messages

3. Assumption that contact (with a one liner) will mean that I will meet them immediately

4. Assumption that I am looking for a dominant/bull whatever

5. Assumption that a polite know really means yes because I have responded (it has stopped me responding at all now if it's a no)

6. The same cut and paste message every other day.

7. Pictures of lots of other women with just the base of their cock showing

8. Flaccid cock pictures"

Excellent! Mainly covers desperation then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you say no thanks and get but why...

Or they think that a polite message means you'll chat whenever.

Cock pics but no face or body shots.

Getting called a milf or cougar.

Getting called a milf or cougar by someone only 3 years younger.

Stropping cos I insist on a coffee meet - after all a fat munter like me couldn't possibly turn down instant sex with a dreamboat like him!

The ones who are nothing like my preferences but are convinced that I'm too picky and will overlook all that when I realise how hard it is to get a meet on here.

The same cut and paste message every Tuesday.

Wanna fuk messages.

Text speak.

Men who want to see my pics but their life/job is so much more important that they can't possibly post pics on a sex site.

Messages asking for a bj.

So, your quite an easy going lass then!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"One of my pet hates ( fem here ) is guys that think cos I, m/we are on a swingers site that its a sure thing for a free shag , coming across as if " well lets get at it " sort of attitude and then they wonder why they get turned down .

Crawls back under my stone now

No, cool, that's understandable!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Pics on single guy profiles that shows more of their female playmates than them.

I never understands why fab allow them

if im meeting a guy I want to see him not his cum on his last meets tits

Haha, ok, no women. Cool... Mmm, I've got a sex pic... Maybe ill remove it now!

I don't actually know. I think its so that the man can show publicly that women like him and that he's wanted? Something like that. A confidence thing?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I think all of mine have been covered, but just a recap:

1. One line messages

2. Text speak messages

3. Assumption that contact (with a one liner) will mean that I will meet them immediately

4. Assumption that I am looking for a dominant/bull whatever

5. Assumption that a polite know really means yes because I have responded (it has stopped me responding at all now if it's a no)

6. The same cut and paste message every other day.

7. Pictures of lots of other women with just the base of their cock showing

8. Flaccid cock pictures

Excellent! Mainly covers desperation then."

That should say "polite no" not "know" - I do know better when you use my right to say "no". Typing and talking on the phone don't always mix.

I've also remembered that I can't stand it when people visiting London for the night think that I will meet them for a one off that night and even if I did staying on the outskirts of London is just not going to happen.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"seems like some guys have no basic manners, they need to learn that the females are high on demand and we are like buses- always another one"

Very true, but guess what matey? It works the other way too... We may have a lot of competition but the majority are apparently hopeless!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hiya!

In an effort to enhance myself using my constant self-development programme, I require some more info!

What are the most common turn-offs from men on this site? What don't you like about a lot of men and why?

This should be a great chance for a whinge from you ladies... And guys, don't argue! We all know that women are worse! Haha! Joking.

So, what are the biggest/most common turn-offs?

The biggest turn off for me are messages that contain the words "back door & smashing"

Ok, cool! It does sound a bit rough to be honest!

That and the "ruin" line is an instant get lost, I'd quite like to ruin your testicles with my high heels

Oh I don't know , I've been having a chat with someone who has said he is going to ruin me and considering his age against mine I think he may very well be right

Age has nothing to do with technique and stamina

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"When you say no thanks and get but why...

Or they think that a polite message means you'll chat whenever.

Cock pics but no face or body shots.

Getting called a milf or cougar.

Getting called a milf or cougar by someone only 3 years younger.

Stropping cos I insist on a coffee meet - after all a fat munter like me couldn't possibly turn down instant sex with a dreamboat like him!

The ones who are nothing like my preferences but are convinced that I'm too picky and will overlook all that when I realise how hard it is to get a meet on here.

The same cut and paste message every Tuesday.

Wanna fuk messages.

Text speak.

Men who want to see my pics but their life/job is so much more important that they can't possibly post pics on a sex site.

Messages asking for a bj.

Haha! Excellent! Thanks

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

A few off the top of my head....

Men that suck up and tell you, what they think you want to hear. Including fake compliments...you can usually tell when someone is being genuine.

Men that send crude first messages and attach cock pics from every different angle.

Those that ignore Mr B or those that think he is not man enough to please me and thats why we are on here!

Photos taken in the middle of messy backgrounds with their pants and trousers down by knees or ankles. Least take them all the way off....

That will do for now or I will be here all day.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"I think all of mine have been covered, but just a recap:

1. One line messages

2. Text speak messages

3. Assumption that contact (with a one liner) will mean that I will meet them immediately

4. Assumption that I am looking for a dominant/bull whatever

5. Assumption that a polite know really means yes because I have responded (it has stopped me responding at all now if it's a no)

6. The same cut and paste message every other day.

7. Pictures of lots of other women with just the base of their cock showing

8. Flaccid cock pictures

Excellent! Mainly covers desperation then.

That should say "polite no" not "know" - I do know better when you use my right to say "no". Typing and talking on the phone don't always mix.

Ok, desperation again.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"A few off the top of my head....

Men that suck up and tell you, what they think you want to hear. Including fake compliments...you can usually tell when someone is being genuine.

Men that send crude first messages and attach cock pics from every different angle.

Those that ignore Mr B or those that think he is not man enough to please me and thats why we are on here!

Photos taken in the middle of messy backgrounds with their pants and trousers down by knees or ankles. Least take them all the way off....

That will do for now or I will be here all day.

Very good! Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know this is aimed at women but i have seen this happen so many times in the chatrooms.

What about this?

....what are you into? (That question annoys me so much in the chatrooms, my pet hate on here). Is this the same for the ladies or do you like that question?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pics of people having sex, but no condom.

Asking if dave wouldnt mind the guy doung me alone. No mate, he wont mind, so long as you dont mind sucking through a straw xx

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"I know this is aimed at women but i have seen this happen so many times in the chatrooms.

What about this?

....what are you into? (That question annoys me so much in the chatrooms, my pet hate on here). Is this the same for the ladies or do you like that question?

That does my head in too because I find it difficult to answer! I'm not into anything in particular.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When there pic they send don't match the pic in your head .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know this is aimed at women but i have seen this happen so many times in the chatrooms.

What about this?

....what are you into? (That question annoys me so much in the chatrooms, my pet hate on here). Is this the same for the ladies or do you like that question?

I blooming hate that one

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Pics of people having sex, but no condom.

Asking if dave wouldnt mind the guy doung me alone. No mate, he wont mind, so long as you dont mind sucking through a straw xx"

Cool!

I take it that Dave is a real tough guy?

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"When there pic they send don't match the pic in your head .

Bloody hell. That's a difficult one for a guy to fix!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That they assume, because I'm older I have tons of experience and have been around the block

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pics of people having sex, but no condom.

Asking if dave wouldnt mind the guy doung me alone. No mate, he wont mind, so long as you dont mind sucking through a straw xx"

What size of straw is it? (a mcd's one?) And how deep up your pussy can you take it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pics of people having sex, but no condom.

Asking if dave wouldnt mind the guy doung me alone. No mate, he wont mind, so long as you dont mind sucking through a straw xx

Cool!

I take it that Dave is a real tough guy?

Not at all, thats me. Hes protective xx.

Both softies.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Pics of people having sex, but no condom.

Asking if dave wouldnt mind the guy doung me alone. No mate, he wont mind, so long as you dont mind sucking through a straw xx

What size of straw is it? (a mcd's one?) And how deep up your pussy can you take it?"

Hahahaha!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pics of people having sex, but no condom.

Asking if dave wouldnt mind the guy doung me alone. No mate, he wont mind, so long as you dont mind sucking through a straw xx

What size of straw is it? (a mcd's one?) And how deep up your pussy can you take it?"

About as far as it goes up your nose

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pics of people having sex, but no condom.

Asking if dave wouldnt mind the guy doung me alone. No mate, he wont mind, so long as you dont mind sucking through a straw xx

What size of straw is it? (a mcd's one?) And how deep up your pussy can you take it?

About as far as it goes up your nose

Erm, thats a bit too kinky for me i'm afraid!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pics of people having sex, but no condom.

Asking if dave wouldnt mind the guy doung me alone. No mate, he wont mind, so long as you dont mind sucking through a straw xx

What size of straw is it? (a mcd's one?) And how deep up your pussy can you take it?

About as far as it goes up your nose

Erm, thats a bit too kinky for me i'm afraid!

Lol xx

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

Thank God no one has mentioned 1000 word essays on pocket fluff as a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"messages from complete strangers ..

Hi hun .. do you fancy abit of fun ?

Pics of flaccid cocks poking out there zipper ! Eeek hate that !

Hahahaha! Why do you hate it?"

Makes me think of dirty old men ! Maybe just me !! And I'm sorry to all that I have offended by my dislike !! Especially the ones that felt the need to send my there pics !!! Lol

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"messages from complete strangers ..

Hi hun .. do you fancy abit of fun ?

Pics of flaccid cocks poking out there zipper ! Eeek hate that !

Hahahaha! Why do you hate it?

Makes me think of dirty old men ! Maybe just me !! And I'm sorry to all that I have offended by my dislike !! Especially the ones that felt the need to send my there pics !!! Lol

Haha, I see!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

men who message me saying, how are you.

facial stubble.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"men who message me saying, how are you.

facial stubble."

Haha, aww. To be fair, it is hard work!

You're not allowed to write very little, but you can't write too much or you look desperate. Haha.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men who whine about a woman whining! - We're female, it's what we do

Oh - and one liners, ugly cock pics, the ones who claim to be 'professionals' yet are unable to spell or use punctuation properly, and then the 'i've had enough, this place is shit, everyone's a timewaster and fake' status updates

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"men who message me saying, how are you.

facial stubble."

They call you facial stubble after asking how you are? That would put anyone off!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have thought of another, any man who says they don't like divas

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

"I have thought of another, any man who says they don't like divas

Do you need a red carpet with those heels?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have thought of another, any man who says they don't like divas

Do you need a red carpet with those heels?

5 star treatment of course

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"men who message me saying, how are you.

facial stubble.

They call you facial stubble after asking how you are? That would put anyone off!!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People axpecting you to fuck them when you haven't seen a pic of their face just a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another thing that puts me off is when guys who live miles away mail me and tell me im to far away for them to drive but they expect me to get the train to them when they don't even accommodate

yeah right like im going to do that when you mailed me first

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Men who whine about a woman whining! - We're female, it's what we do

That's a goodun!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

"Another thing that puts me off is when guys who live miles away mail me and tell me im to far away for them to drive but they expect me to get the train to them when they don't even accommodate

yeah right like im going to do that when you mailed me first "

Haha! Seriously?

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By *affy72Woman over a year ago

Herefordshire

It's already been mentioned but the "what are you into" never fails to do my head in (ok so currently my interests aren't ticked and my profile is sparse but this was happening when I'd taken the time to write a decent'ish profile and ticked some interests!).

When in the process of arranging to meet and even though I've already emphasised that it's a social meet, they then ask what will happen? Like I'm going to launch into a big spiel about what I am dying for them to do to me... ugh!

Asking me what size my boobs are when we've only just started chatting.

Asking in the first message whether we can meet, without attaching their face pic or asking to see mine - so you'd meet anyone then, would you? Nice

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By *ighland_RoseCouple over a year ago

Brigadoon

It's probably already been said but - a cock photo as their avatar, that's one of the most off putting things for me. I don't want to be looking into the japs eye every time I get a message, it's just freaking weird!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men with dom in their names or names from that crap book 50 shades of grey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One of my main put offs is if you've already had a meet, they mail you again and think they've got a god given right to meet again xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The biggest turn off for me are messages that contain the words "back door & smashing"

So can I smash your backdoor or not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men with dom in their names or names from that crap book 50 shades of grey

Not as bad as women with stupid age limits

HOW DARE YOU HAVE STANDARDS!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Pics on single guy profiles that shows more of their female playmates than them.

I never understands why fab allow them

if im meeting a guy I want to see him not his cum on his last meets tits

I met someone who started to slag off his previous meet, really derogatory. I told him I thought it wasn't discrete of him and I wouldn't be taking it any further as I didn't want him discussing me with other people!

His response: "but you're not a slag!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men with dom in their names or names from that crap book 50 shades of grey

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

On here - men who pester; men who ask if I can provide a second female (how do they know I won't wear them out on my own?); and men who blame women for their lack of meets, either on their status, their profile, or on the forums.

On a meet - smelly men, whether it's BO, cock cheese, or onion breath; men who insist on telling me about the fab sex they had with that 'dirty slut' last week; and men who struggle with the word 'no'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pics on single guy profiles that shows more of their female playmates than them.

I never understands why fab allow them

if im meeting a guy I want to see him not his cum on his last meets tits

His response: "but you're not a slag!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have so many .. I could write a short story on it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men who turn up in jogging pants or trainers.

Men who wear hats like beanies especially on their profile pics and look like they just need a cuddle because they look too young and vulnerable to even contemplate arousing any sexual attention from me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men with dom in their names or names from that crap book 50 shades of grey

Not as bad as women with stupid age limits

HOW DARE YOU HAVE STANDARDS!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And men who whine and whine on other threads just to get more hits to the thread than this one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men that need to get a mirror themselves and / or take a trip to spec savers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh bbe your beautiful, damn your hot... Messages like that, for all they know I could be a rite minger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men who call you names like fat cow when you refuse to meet them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sending the same copy and pasted message week after week..."

Men who add on

in a pathetic attempt to up the rating of their thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men who clearly dont read your profile as they ask you ' so what you into? '

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men that breathe.

That really bloody annoys me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men that breathe.

That really bloody annoys me.

We men aren't reading this you know

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I think all of mine have been covered, but just a recap:

1. One line messages

2. Text speak messages

3. Assumption that contact (with a one liner) will mean that I will meet them immediately

4. Assumption that I am looking for a dominant/bull whatever

5. Assumption that a polite know really means yes because I have responded (it has stopped me responding at all now if it's a no)

6. The same cut and paste message every other day.

7. Pictures of lots of other women with just the base of their cock showing

8. Flaccid cock pictures

Excellent! Mainly covers desperation then.

That should say "polite no" not "know" - I do know better when you use my right to say "no". Typing and talking on the phone don't always mix.

Yep, the "I'm in London next week" types: who can resist them hey?!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men that breathe.

That really bloody annoys me.

We men aren't reading this you know

Good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men who ask 'what you looking for'

One of these days I really am going to answer back saying 'my glasses, have you seen them'?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men that breathe.

That really bloody annoys me.

We men aren't reading this you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men that breathe.

That really bloody annoys me.

We men aren't reading this you know

Good, cause we women aren't reading the 'other' thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Takes huge breath of air

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Men that breathe.

That really bloody annoys me.

We men aren't reading this you know

Quel surprise!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the bag. The ladies stride ahead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men that breathe.

That really bloody annoys me.

We men aren't reading this you know

Good, cause we women aren't reading the 'other' thread

That's because you lost your glasses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men Thats first message to me is an explaination of where he wishes to stick his honourable member in my body orifices and how much im going to love it!

(waits for constant sexually explicit messages)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In the bag. The ladies stride ahead

Thats cause they have the attention span of a newt... saw some boobs and got distracted !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men that breathe.

That really bloody annoys me.

We men aren't reading this you know

Good, cause we women aren't reading the 'other' thread

That's because you lost your glasses

lol clever!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in a five star hotel in your area, champagne on ice, just waiting for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dislike neediness in men, it's only sex, don't act like it's a major event. I feel exasperated at guys who constantly send messages such as 'good morning, good afternoon, are you having a good evening' every day. There is absolutely no need to ask me 3 times a day if I'm ok, it's not going to make me meet, I end ip blocking.

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

What turns me off re ladies is when they wear shorts with tights underneath and the reinforced area of the tights protrudes below the hem of the shorts.

No' nice, no' nice attaw.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Oh yes, men who ask constantly for a meet then, when you say 'OK then, where and when are you free?' go quiet and never speak to you again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men that breathe.

That really bloody annoys me.

We men aren't reading this you know

Good, cause we women aren't reading the 'other' thread

That's because you lost your glasses

lol clever!

Its a rare moment !

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By *am123Man over a year ago

essex chelmsford

im off to change my profile

get rid of the sky remote i thought that norm worked, don't pester, don't paste no cock shots, what do u women want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh yes, men who ask constantly for a meet then, when you say 'OK then, where and when are you free?' go quiet and never speak to you again."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"messages from complete strangers ..

Hi hun .. do you fancy abit of fun ?

We are all strangers lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh yes, men who ask constantly for a meet then, when you say 'OK then, where and when are you free?' go quiet and never speak to you again."

Gerraway you're making this stuff up to make men look stupid !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

For me .... it's the way they just KEEP on breathing......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

That and a 1000 word essay on pocket fluff...

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"What turns me off re ladies is when they wear shorts with tights underneath and the reinforced area of the tights protrudes below the hem of the shorts.

No' nice, no' nice attaw."

Sorry, wrong thread.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Oh yes, men who ask constantly for a meet then, when you say 'OK then, where and when are you free?' go quiet and never speak to you again.

Gerraway you're making this stuff up to make men look stupid ! "

Not at all. I had one the other day in fact.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Married men who blame their wives for being here.

Men fresh out of long term relationships looking to catch up on what they'd been missing with boring girlfriends!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men who don't take no for a answer on a social meet.and what it means.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and guys when you ask them to tell you a little about themselves, in the hope of starting up a conversation, who reply 'well what do you want to know'.

And my biggest turn off, the one that really makes me fume is after I've exchanged a message or two, they say 'I've got a friend I could invite' which always evokes the 'what do you think I am, a bloody free for all' response.

I secretly love all the daft messages, fab wouldn't be the same without these men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You guys are seriously tense over all this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What turns me off re ladies is when they wear shorts with tights underneath and the reinforced area of the tights protrudes below the hem of the shorts.

No' nice, no' nice attaw.

Sorry, wrong thread."

That's quite alright please feel free to contribute again!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You guys are seriously tense over all this

Competitive. If you can't stand the heat

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

and breathing .....

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

When they see I've done bondage and think its on the cards. As if would allow a random stranger into my home and tie me up. Anything could happen. And then when they claim other women allow it.

Well, why aren't you meeting them then?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Oh yes, men who ask constantly for a meet then, when you say 'OK then, where and when are you free?' go quiet and never speak to you again."

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"im off to change my profile

get rid of the sky remote i thought that norm worked, don't pester, don't paste no cock shots, what do u women want

To be trested like decent, thinking, breathing adults who know our own minds.

Like men.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Innnnnnnnnnn and out ....innnnnnnnn and out ......

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"im off to change my profile

get rid of the sky remote i thought that norm worked, don't pester, don't paste no cock shots, what do u women want

To be trested like decent, thinking, breathing adults who know our own minds.

Like men."

Treated

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"im off to change my profile

get rid of the sky remote i thought that norm worked, don't pester, don't paste no cock shots, what do u women want

To be trested like decent, thinking, breathing adults who know our own minds.

Like men.

Treated"

I was looking forward to a good tresting .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my turn off has to be when a guy tells me the only reason i dont enjoy outdoor sex is because i have not tried it with them lol. no mate its because i dont like it. next time read my profile properly lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The one liner and cock pics , asking to meet right now when they have never contacted you before. Def pet hate when they become insulted when don't jump at the chance of being ruined

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We men aren't reading this you know

This is just the start...

Viagra for women is gonna be released soon..then we really will be useless!

^see how I inserted the smilie?..just so the ladies know I'm joking

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By *am123Man over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"im off to change my profile

get rid of the sky remote i thought that norm worked, don't pester, don't paste no cock shots, what do u women want

To be trested like decent, thinking, breathing adults who know our own minds.

Like men."
with a sense of humour ??

or not

hmmmm perhaps not then

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By *otnhornyalwaysWoman over a year ago

southampton

Hav to say men who are with someone who dont know they r on here!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"im off to change my profile

get rid of the sky remote i thought that norm worked, don't pester, don't paste no cock shots, what do u women want

To be trested like decent, thinking, breathing adults who know our own minds.

Like men. with a sense of humour ??

or not

hmmmm perhaps not then

Humour is not that easy on the net because there is no voice or body language to go on.

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

The ones who ask how I'm getting on on here cos they're finding it difficult - the fact that I've been here ages and have a list of veries should give them a clue!

The ones who disregard that I'm not meeting at the moment and want to come to mine tonight (and I don't accom).

The ones who kick off because I don't accom and also won't meet in a car (and no a van is not better).

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By *eareenaCouple over a year ago

Rockford

When I get a message announcing they are available. ...

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By *eareenaCouple over a year ago

Rockford

"my turn off has to be when a guy tells me the only reason i dont enjoy outdoor sex is because i have not tried it with them lol. no mate its because i dont like it. next time read my profile properly lol"

ah yes this one too...

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man over a year ago

Chester

Wow ladies! You lot have been busy while I was away!

I'm seriously gonna go through this again and analyse it in more depth.

Cheers ladies. Keep em coming.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There isn't a man on earth that will comprise all of what is wanted or unwanted above

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hiya!

In an effort to enhance myself using my constant self-development programme, I require some more info!

What are the most common turnoffs from men on this site? What don't you like about a lot of men and why?

This should be a great chance for a whinge from you ladies... And guys, don't argue! We all know that women are worse! Haha! Joking.

So, what are the biggest/most common turnoffs?

The biggest turn off for me are messages that contain the words "back door & smashing"

Ok, cool! It does sound a bit rough to be honest!

That and the "ruin" line is an instant get lost, I'd quite like to ruin your testicles with my high heels

"
oh yes please love u to ruin me lol step on them any time

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"That and a 1000 word essay on pocket fluff..."

Ah bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Coming across as desperate. All your usual " your the fittest on fab" bollocks. Bareback and people who assume that thewre special because they ask you for a drink and get narky when you decline.

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

ah yes this one too...

That one really annoys me! It gets used to try to change a no thanks to a yes no matter what - obviously I have no idea about my own preferences so will be easily swayed by "you haven't had it properly done!"

The other one that gets me (but also makes me laugh) is "will try anything once". Really??? Want me to come up with a few suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1. Men who assume you want to meet them just because you're on a sex site (massive massive massive put)

2. Men who clearly haven't read the profile (you would know what I'm looking for if you had)

3. Men with 47 cock shots (seriously, it looks the same in every one)

4. Men who check you out on other sites like fb (yes, a couple of blokes have messages saying 'can you be discreet, coz we have 2 mutual friends on fb?' WHAT????!!!!)

5. Men who just send 'mmmmmmm'

Lauz xx

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By *affy72Woman over a year ago

Herefordshire

Men who select the "curvy" option to describe themselves, that always puts me off!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

men that claim to be athletic who clearly have no muscle definition in the slightest

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By *opping_candyWoman over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Or men who claim to be 'average' but have moobs, three chins and a beer belly. I admit to being fat so why can't they?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

Single men that have taken pics of themselves with a lovely pink dressing gown hung up and ladies cosmetics all around them!

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By *affy72Woman over a year ago

Herefordshire

Men who very kindly keep informing me how horny they are... I'm not sure I want to know but thanks for sharing... yawn

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