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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no, because all because someone likes something that does not mean its a must, if they like something I don't so long as they understand they wont be doing it with me that's fine
People do get put off tho, i've had a few guys turn me down because I have watersport's on mine, not sure if they think because I like it i'm going to expect them to do it or if the idea of meeting a woman who likes it just puts them off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fisting will put me off
My honeypot is'nt to be treated like a cows arse with a vets arm up it!
I don't really think lots of people realise what they've ticked sometimes,they join up all excited and tick everything  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rimming is usually a turn off, not to sure what women get out of that, but each to their own.
bend over and i'll show you  "
Haha I bet it tickles, but I'm sure there's more productive things you could be doing with your tongue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, when I joined I didn't exactly take those tick boxes seriously so just ticked off a few without thinking about it much so I wouldn't be suprised if others have done the same and not changed them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rimming is usually a turn off, not to sure what women get out of that, but each to their own.
bend over and i'll show you
Haha I bet it tickles, but I'm sure there's more productive things you could be doing with your tongue."
depends what you like and who your asking
for someone who likes rimming not, for someone like yourself who don't like it, maybe so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see preferences and interests as just that - not a "this is what must happen on every meet!"
I'm more put off by those profiles that haven't given you any indication of tastes and likes - but insist on being all 'shouty' and 'ranty' in block capitals - as if you'd never discuss boundaries and rules should any meet be likely!
If I see something that doesn't float my boat - I'll simply make sure they're aware of it. We're all different and what you might want to try on one meet you may not want to on another - be that due to your company and their preferences - or simply because you're not in the mood!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, peoples status messages are more likely to put me off than their list of interests 
I wouldn't consider meeting those that constantly put up desperate meet requests, those that moan about lack of genuine women or those asking for a bj every day of the week that ends in a Y!!
You can discuss boundaries before you meet and if you've chatted at length then you should comfortable enough to say no or stop |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't look at that list and I don't have one.
I'm not bothered what others do with others and prefer not to have anything public what I do as what I may do with one doesn't mean I will do it with another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see preferences and interests as just that - not a "this is what must happen on every meet!"
I'm more put off by those profiles that haven't given you any indication of tastes and likes - but insist on being all 'shouty' and 'ranty' in block capitals - as if you'd never discuss boundaries and rules should any meet be likely!
If I see something that doesn't float my boat - I'll simply make sure they're aware of it. We're all different and what you might want to try on one meet you may not want to on another - be that due to your company and their preferences - or simply because you're not in the mood!! "
See that's what I meant but without the shouty bit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My list of what interests me sexually is huge,I found that when I listed some of them I felt like a pick n mix counter,people just assumed that all of them are available to everyone which is'nt the case
Now its limited on my profile and ill discuss with people I might want to meet whether theres any compatibility |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Are there things mentioned in profiles that would stop me from meeting a person? Absolutely.
Would I mention (all of)them on here?
No, as people can modify profiles accordingly and have (in my experience) done so.
A profile reflects a "flavour of a person" well, for me anyway. As such people should describe themselves in whatever way they see fit. That allows readers a reasonably genuine choice - I say "reasonably" because many profiles are an approximation of the person rather than the whole story and there are a few euphemisms to help us make ourselves sound better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it would be dogging... Thats a big turn off for me!
Same here! "
I've restricted my preference list due to guys focusing on it when I ask them about theirs. The options don't cover a lot of mine anyway   |
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Oh god... the ones who say they are 'heavy cummers' *vomits*
Why does anyone think that's an attractive prospect? I don't really give a shit whether there's loads or a little but I certainly don't want to read that!
*vomits some more*  |
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"I see preferences and interests as just that - not a "this is what must happen on every meet!"
I'm more put off by those profiles that haven't given you any indication of tastes and likes - but insist on being all 'shouty' and 'ranty' in block capitals - as if you'd never discuss boundaries and rules should any meet be likely!
If I see something that doesn't float my boat - I'll simply make sure they're aware of it. We're all different and what you might want to try on one meet you may not want to on another - be that due to your company and their preferences - or simply because you're not in the mood!! "
Indeed! |
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"Oh god... the ones who say they are 'heavy cummers' *vomits*
Why does anyone think that's an attractive prospect? I don't really give a shit whether there's loads or a little but I certainly don't want to read that!
*vomits some more* "
That puts me off more than dogging! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see preferences and interests as just that - not a "this is what must happen on every meet!"
I'm more put off by those profiles that haven't given you any indication of tastes and likes - but insist on being all 'shouty' and 'ranty' in block capitals - as if you'd never discuss boundaries and rules should any meet be likely!
If I see something that doesn't float my boat - I'll simply make sure they're aware of it. We're all different and what you might want to try on one meet you may not want to on another - be that due to your company and their preferences - or simply because you're not in the mood!! "
Aaaahhh...  |
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Yep the 'heavy cummer' and the promise of "I won't stop until I make you gush/squirt". Next!
Dogging - well that can mean different things to different people... and not always involving taking part in anything sexual. |
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