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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me who just gets frustrated whith a one word answer. if you cant converse then obviously you shouldn't be messaging
now I'm anticipating quite a few 'yes' and 'no' answers "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if I get to the point im sending single word replies or im getting them I stop mailing, its usually means they arnt interested or im struggling to find thinsg to say so its time to stop |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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conversation just comes easier with some people than it does with others, some guys I can mail for ages and not run out of things to say, some I struggle to convers with, that's the point of mailing to see who you connect with and who you don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a little tip from Rubes:
If you want a reply from me, remember your vowels, don't call me a BBW and be prepared for me not to reply if I'm not interested!  |
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If conversation gets like that it's just time to give up. If I get on with someone conversation flows. If it's hard work, just don't bother.
I don't like getting 'how are you/good weekend' type messages so will usually just delete. Because they have a limited shelf life.
How are you?
Ok thanks you?
Yeah good
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Is it me who just gets frustrated whith a one word answer. if you cant converse then obviously you shouldn't be messaging
now I'm anticipating quite a few 'yes' and 'no' answers "
If you ask closed questions, you're going to get one word answers. |
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Just to be clear.. my perspective is based upon a lady suggesting she is interested not a one or two word not interested , no answer
Have had message back after my first saying your hot then yes yes mm mm yes mm
Sorry that's not a conversation and im no longer interested , even if time is short one articulate reply asking or giving something away of interest to continue and build a conversation once a week would be fine lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get this alot.. U send a decent message askin how the person is to get a 'gd' not even a 'gd thanks you?'..... Pretty frustrating yh haha"
any idea how many times a lady on here is asked "hey how's you"?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ur hot bbe - whatever
luv the profile - whatever
Wanna chat? - whatever
nice shoes - whatever
Hi - whatever
wow - whatever
See it works really well... I thought."
love it  |
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I generally save my one word replies for the one word messages.
A one sentence message gets a short reply too.
But even some of the lengthy messages only get a short response because they've used two paragraphs (or more) to tell me stuff I had no interest in knowing and all that is left to say is OK.  |
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"I get this alot.. U send a decent message askin how the person is to get a 'gd' not even a 'gd thanks you?'..... Pretty frustrating yh hahaany idea how many times a lady on here is asked "hey how's you"? "
I'm rather amazed that 'how are you' is classed as a decent message!
It makes me cringe when I get a how are you message when my status would clearly indicate things aren't good. Sometimes I just ignore and sometimes I let them have it. 'Well seeing as you asked....' |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Ur hot bbe - whatever
luv the profile - whatever
Wanna chat? - whatever
nice shoes - whatever
Hi - whatever
wow - whatever
See it works really well... I thought."
I wouldn't be at all surprised to find many of the men sending monosyllabic messages describe themselves as 'articulate and intelligent' on their profile.
The moral seems to be - if you're going to let your mother write your profile, you'll have to get her to write your messages too.
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"Have I got this right? Your initial message was "your hot" and you're wondering why no conversation ensued?"
My bad x
I have never and would never send such a message x
No usually I craft a two or three line message depending on their profile content , not too long but long enough
Often I then receive , yer ur hot or nice bod
I would then try usually laugh that off modestly and perhaps pose a question or two to which the reply is just yes or a smiley face , so again I might try , to receive a yes or a smile again . Bear in mind usually my message is going to aim to give the lady something to continue the conversation x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't like send an open question - rather than a closed one!  "
I've had "OK" as a reply to "is there anything that you would like me to bring?"
I have been on here before and the one word answers seem to come from the male half of couples profiles where they have been on the site a while with no verifications- draw your own conclusions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I get those replies I usually get the message.
If I'm sending those its coz I can't be bothered to talk to someone and hope they get the message. Lol x"
This^^^
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Ok my perspective is the op makes a fair point one sadly I have experienced
He is requesting organise on his op not , how do I as an intelligent women respond to the endless dick two word chat up lines ? We all know sadly you lovely ladies receive about 200 fancy a fuck messages which indeed makes our op s point more poignant ?
As quality well articulated messages are so rare it can frustrating that after a well crafted message SOME ladies and obviously not you chatty articulate ones and those honest ones who say not interested posting here , but some show a vague interest but with no substance . As you ladies rightly say she he ain't that into you that's cool would be nice if they THEY not referring to you posting on here who would , they just said not interested or just ignore
We could write up to 4 essays before we can REASONABLY think ah yes another cat playing with a mouse
All this said it's up to us to be vigilant and not take this to heart many of these people are possibly school kids or men we just will never know
I think our friend above just said it was frustrating which indeed it can be
If you ladies have a gripe about shite messages from men start a thread don't hijack this one
Oh and although this may seem a rant , I is chilled and smiling just wanted a bit of fairness and balance x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if I get to the point im sending single word replies or im getting them I stop mailing, its usually means they arnt interested or im struggling to find thinsg to say so its time to stop"
Nail/head. |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
Nr Chester |
"Organised = opinions "
Hope you get the fun you deserve, clearly a decent, intelligent guy and as a guy I can see why the ladies would see that bit extra needed as well as your above mentioned attributes. This gents is the quality of male member you are up against and why you may struggle with no pics, a short effortless profile and the charm and persuasive powers of Finbarr Saunders. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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IMHO, the type of response is dependent up the type of questions being asked.
My line of work involves extracting as much information out of people as possible from time to time, and I am very good at it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Again, as part of my job, I train people on how to extract information by asking the appropriate questions, and I am very good at role play, in fact, I love it, as being stroppy and non co-operative is a second nature to me!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate one word answers and I always ask a varied type of open questions?
So what question are you asking in your post (above)?"
Reading the profile first and askin them questions relating to their wants or needs |
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By *andWCouple
over a year ago
Pontypridd |
With us people would only get a one word reply if we have had a one word message like the ? we received this week, other than that even if it's a no thanks it's a nice message saying that as a couple not a single lady we don't experience the amount of mail they do... X |
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