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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So outside the swinging world my instincts serve me well, but i've been wrong about swinging partners a few times to the extent i now dont trust them entirely.
Recently been chatting to a couple, we like each others pics, seem very similar in desires and have great banter, but they have said a couple of things that dont sit well with me, though theyre not things they want to do with us,the fact they have with other people is putting me off.
Should i trust my instincts or relax and go with it and not be so judgemental? What do you do? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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if you was a single woman id say if your not happy with anything don't go
But as your a couple i'd at least go meet for a drink, you have each other as back up so what's the worse that can happen? a wasted hour of your life if you don't get on? |
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If it is something that absolutely disgusts you then go with your instincts and don't meet them. If it's something that isn't your bag and you're clear with them and sure they won't pressure you , what's the harm in going along and meeting them... |
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I grew up "cottaging and cruising" and my instincts have served me well. If something didn't feel right I would leave the area ASAP.
I've stopped doing this about 15 years ago and I was never caught by the police or a homophobic mob. |
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"So outside the swinging world my instincts serve me well, but i've been wrong about swinging partners a few times to the extent i now dont trust them entirely.
Recently been chatting to a couple, we like each others pics, seem very similar in desires and have great banter, but they have said a couple of things that dont sit well with me, though theyre not things they want to do with us,the fact they have with other people is putting me off.
Should i trust my instincts or relax and go with it and not be so judgemental? What do you do? x"
If something puts you off - it puts you off.
If something doesn't bother you - it doesn't bother you.
If you are not sure, speak to them about it and see which way it goes. |
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