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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was married for ten years and now been split up for what I believe is long enough to start looking for another relationship,, time feels right,,
my problem is I feel as tho I have forgotten how to pull lol,, went to a night club this weekend and felt awkward approaching any lady's,,
so please refresh me,, what's the best way to approach?? What do you like saying to you,, as oneliners really are not my thing lol xx
please help lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so please refresh me,, what's the best way to approach?? What do you like saying to you,, as oneliners really are not my thing lol xx
please help lol "
I just say.."hi I'm Ben! You've got lovely big hands!"
...no actually don't say that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not the answer but funny and kinda relevant ....
I'll never join one of those online dating services. I prefer to meet someone the old fashioned way.
Through alcohol and poor judgement.
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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I absolutely hate the cliche chat up lines. Personally, I just like a guy to come up to me and introduce himself and offer to buy me a drink. If I like the look of him I accept the offer. If I don't then I politely decline. t's as simple as that really. Oh and throw in a simple compliment like saying they have really nice eyes, or they look lovely in their dress. Something as simple as that works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why pretend to be something your not with cheesy chat up lines..
just go out with friends, laugh smile and joke around and hopefully someone will be attracted to your actual personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Come out with me. See how I act, speak, joke around and basically look out what info exactly and when you think you can mirror me. Do the exact opposite  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about 'fancy a fuck' seems to be the norm from the guys on here, apparently  "
That's how I met my wife, when said no I came back with "well do you mind lying down while I have one then?"
Been together ten years, who says romance is dead  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was married for ten years and now been split up for what I believe is long enough to start looking for another relationship,, time feels right,,
my problem is I feel as tho I have forgotten how to pull lol,, went to a night club this weekend and felt awkward approaching any lady's,,
so please refresh me,, what's the best way to approach?? What do you like saying to you,, as oneliners really are not my thing lol xx
please help lol "
you wanna get in a relationship again? gosh! some people never learn |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was married for ten years and now been split up for what I believe is long enough to start looking for another relationship,, time feels right,,
my problem is I feel as tho I have forgotten how to pull lol,, went to a night club this weekend and felt awkward approaching any lady's,,
so please refresh me,, what's the best way to approach?? What do you like saying to you,, as oneliners really are not my thing lol xx
please help lol
you wanna get in a relationship again? gosh! some people never learn "
ive tried it, didn't like it, decided im better off single lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dude! if you were married for ten years and then had some time after your divorce- you're probably too old for 'night clubs'
(unless you have glowsticks and go to raves- thats perfectly fine ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dude! if you were married for ten years and then had some time after your divorce- you're probably too old for 'night clubs'
(unless you have glowsticks and go to raves- thats perfectly fine )"
fuck me he's only 33 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dude! if you were married for ten years and then had some time after your divorce- you're probably too old for 'night clubs'
(unless you have glowsticks and go to raves- thats perfectly fine )
fuck me he's only 33 "
Way past nightclubs then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get yourself along to Rococo's club in Exeter....it is impossible not to pull there, in fact if you don't pull you get a years free membership and drinks for nothing.
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im off there
that'll be loads of free nights out for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get yourself along to Rococo's club in Exeter....it is impossible not to pull there, in fact if you don't pull you get a years free membership and drinks for nothing.
im off there
that'll be loads of free nights out for me "
Free? fookin Exeter?....you walking there and back then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get yourself along to Rococo's club in Exeter....it is impossible not to pull there, in fact if you don't pull you get a years free membership and drinks for nothing.
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Sounds like a weekend break for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get yourself along to Rococo's club in Exeter....it is impossible not to pull there, in fact if you don't pull you get a years free membership and drinks for nothing.
im off there
that'll be loads of free nights out for me
Free? fookin Exeter?....you walking there and back then? "
nah i'll just find some sap on here to take me, what you doing Saturday |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get yourself along to Rococo's club in Exeter....it is impossible not to pull there, in fact if you don't pull you get a years free membership and drinks for nothing.
im off there
that'll be loads of free nights out for me
Free? fookin Exeter?....you walking there and back then?
nah i'll just find some sap on here to take me, what you doing Saturday "
Washing my hair  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dude! if you were married for ten years and then had some time after your divorce- you're probably too old for 'night clubs'
(unless you have glowsticks and go to raves- thats perfectly fine )
fuck me he's only 33
Way past nightclubs then "
seeing as most clubs don't let under 25s in now.. how can 33 be past it lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*Lick finger and wipe on girl’s shirt* “Right, let’s get you out of those wet clothes.”
Did you get your jeans on sale?… Because in my house they’re 100% off.
Let’s bypass all the bullshit and just get naked.
I wish you were my big toe… Then I would bang you on every piece of furniture at my house.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"*Lick finger and wipe on girl’s shirt* “Right, let’s get you out of those wet clothes.”
Did you get your jeans on sale?… Because in my house they’re 100% off.
Let’s bypass all the bullshit and just get naked.
I wish you were my big toe… Then I would bang you on every piece of furniture at my house.
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they are very funny but I could feel a few slaps on the face if they were used lol |
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If you find something about a woman attractive enough to want to approach her then compliment her on it - we women put a lot of time, effort and money into getting ready so it's nice when it's appreciated.
Then follow it up with "may I buy you a drink" (check the level in her glass for this one, it's wasted if she's got plenty) or "would you like to dance" or even the cheesy "do you come here often" (best said with a glint in the eye and a grin that says you know it's cheesy).
Don't be afraid to say that you are nervous about approaching attractive women - but remember to say that she looked so lovely you just had to try or she'll think you only approach munters and get the huff!
And remember, most people are nice. If she says she's out with her friends a.d wants to stick with them that's just a polite and facesaving no thanks. But the fact that she was polite about it means you did good so be wish her a good night and move on.
Good luck. |
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I may charge you for this advise at a later date, but for now I am feeling generous.
The secret is to not try and chat them up with the first move.
Go to buy a drink at the same time they do. Don't offer to buy her a drink, most women who accept a drink at that stage are likely freeloaders.
Just be friendly - make a casual comment about the place ... nothing too moany though, try something positive.
Read how their body language reacts.
Ask a question about their night.
If they appear happy to engage in conversation, compliment something she is wearing.
If she walks off after that she's either not interested or a timid bitch with social inadequacies.
If she hangs about - you're in! |
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