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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Might sound silly and stupid question but what happen's in a swingers club.We are thinking of trying a club but are a bit worried as to what to expect,i.e what will happen other than the obvious  do you have to be naked as soon as you go in and if so is there changing rooms and lockers.Would like to feel that we could see what went on for a short time before we had to do anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relax.. You only need do what you feel comfortable with.. Most clubs have a lounge area where you sit and chat with other people, until you feel ready to take it further.
Most have a dress down policy but they don't expect you to run around stark naked
You call the shots, no one else ...
Good luck and have fun |
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Wet clubs ask you to change (towel or shorts for the male, towel or lingerie for the lady) as soon as you arrive.
Dry clubs have a dress code but may ask single men to go to towel or shorts in play areas.
All clubs have social areas and play areas. If it's your first time ask for a tour so you know what is where and what the rules are - but don't worry if all the info doesn't sink in at first telling.
Also ask for an introduction to some regulars.
Don't be afraid to introduce yourself to people, and don't be scared to say it's your first time and you're nervous.
Don't feel obliged to play with anyone who asks (usual technique is to ask if you'd like to go upstairs or find a room). Don't be afraid you'll insult by saying no thanks or not right now.
And remember (though you shouldn't need it, most clubgoers are very well mannered) if you didn't invite someone to touch you but they did anyway they are in the wrong - saying loudly but calmly "did I ask you to put your hand there? Well don't" will take care of any who cross the boundaries.
Relax, only have one maybe two drinks and enjoy yourself. |
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We more often than not,go to the clubs to meet like minded people in conversation or share the hot tub and its a rare occasion we finish up playing. Best advice is to talk to people and with no expectations you will soon be joining in to the level you wish |
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we went to bournemouths paradise spa for the first time a couple of weeks ago, we are going tomorrow for our third visit lol.
We go with a group of friends so its less daunting. Good luck and have fun |
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Every club is different
You need to read the websites of the clubs you are interested in as it will tell you all you need to know
I always go into a club in a tiny mini dress and if im comfortable with the eveningi will then change into less
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and go in a room with everyone playing 