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Why do people message you for ages then suddenly stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Been messaging couple of women and arranged a meet they just didn't show anyone esle have that trouble ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

did you swap pics or cam with them to see if they were genuine?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm horribly guilty of not keeping in touch and have been properly told (in a way) for being such a lousy online friend. So to all those on my friends list. Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope ... If they don't message me I remove them from my friends list

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Boredom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope ... If they don't message me I remove them from my friends list "

Snap. I only have very few on mine but if they don't talk they don't stay!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about actually messaging them? Sounds a bit arrogant otherwise

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

I have the perfect way of stopping this an is so easy just be a cocky little gob shit like me an have no friends simples

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to keep messages to a minimum that way you are not going over the same things time and time again. Usually if we are getting on we will swap phone numbers and then chat one to one and arrange something.

This has worked well for me although it may not work for others !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm horribly guilty of not keeping in touch and have been properly told (in a way) for being such a lousy online friend. So to all those on my friends list. Sorry!

Who are you again

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Theres a difference between messaging and then stopping to arranging a meet and not showing...

I often stop messaging someone...for one of hundreds of reasons.

Friends I keep in touch with, but if I have no interaction for a while I'll remove them from my friends list.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We, or should I say me ( Lucy ) are terrible for not keeping in contact!

So if any of my forum friends read this then I apologise if you thought that I had forgotten all about you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm horribly guilty of not keeping in touch and have been properly told (in a way) for being such a lousy online friend. So to all those on my friends list. Sorry!

Who are you again

Ooooh she's such a bitch sometimes....

ted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We, or should I say me ( Lucy ) are terrible for not keeping in contact!

So if any of my forum friends read this then I apologise if you thought that I had forgotten all about you

Lucy? Sex on the where..????

ted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been messaging couple of women and arranged a meet they just didn't show anyone esle have that trouble ?"

OP - is your actual question 'why did someone not show up for a meet?' I assume it is.

There are plenty of reasons. Don't just jump to the obvious conclusions...

ted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We, or should I say me ( Lucy ) are terrible for not keeping in contact!

So if any of my forum friends read this then I apologise if you thought that I had forgotten all about you

Lucy? Sex on the where..????

ted.

Well it's not on the frigging beach!! It's too blooming chilly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We, or should I say me ( Lucy ) are terrible for not keeping in contact!

So if any of my forum friends read this then I apologise if you thought that I had forgotten all about you

Lucy? Sex on the where..????

ted.

Well it's not on the frigging beach!! It's too blooming chilly

Positively arctic where you are I should imagine!!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Nope ... If they don't message me I remove them from my friends list

Snap. I only have very few on mine but if they don't talk they don't stay!"

Yup, me too. I try to keep in touch - send the odd message now and then (not so much that they can accuse me of being a bunny-boiler)- but if I get little or no response and they never bother to equally check in, I assume they have lost interest and I delete them so as to not bother them again.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Been messaging couple of women and arranged a meet they just didn't show anyone esle have that trouble ?"

If they have arranged a proper meet, date, time, place, etc, then do not show then you should report them. There is a facility to do that from their profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I say hello in the fora though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

They just stopped we had arranged to meet and then I messages to confirm and they messages we met and chatted after then all of a sudden it just atopped

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

So you did meet them?

I'm getting confused....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm terrible at keeping in touch on here. But the frw friends I have got, have my mobile, skype or whatsapp and we chat on there regularly!

On here though, if I get chatting to a guy and the chat fizzles out, I remove them, that's if they been lucky enough to get on my list in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to stop messaging if I think they have lost interest or I think their not genuine but mostly if I think they have list interest I hate pushy people so I don't want to become one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I keep in touch through my status..it's interesting...

...if you've got jack-all else to read that is.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I don't know why people stop messaging but we always assume that it means they no longer wish to be in touch with us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well it could be because you inadvertently pissed them off,they got bored and lost interest,someone better came along,loads of reasons really

Sometimes chat just dies out naturally