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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I am not in one or anything like that...I was just wondering on people experience with long distance relationship does distance put you off?  "
Your chat went well the other night with that guy?  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"No I am not in one or anything like that...I was just wondering on people experience with long distance relationship does distance put you off?
Your chat went well the other night with that guy? "
Oh god no nothing like that...it was just a question... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id quite like to try it out but the OH says I have to stay at home
I suppose it depends on how long distance and how often you can get to see each other
While it must be lovely to only spend fabulous quality time together if getting that time is really difficult to achieve then its going to cause stress at some point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I am not in one or anything like that...I was just wondering on people experience with long distance relationship does distance put you off?
Your chat went well the other night with that guy?
Oh god no nothing like that...it was just a question..."
Was just teasing, lol. Well If I had a relationship with them before either of us moved and we agreed in advance when we would see each other then it could work. All depends how patient a person is too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Over last 18 months I've had a couple of distance relationships (about 60 miles and 30 miles) ... suited me as I didn't want progression and every other weekend suited me down to the ground. Both partners seemed to be happy with that at first but that changed ... so here I am wondering lonely as a cloud |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Over last 18 months I've had a couple of distance relationships (about 60 miles and 30 miles) ... suited me as I didn't want progression and every other weekend suited me down to the ground. Both partners seemed to be happy with that at first but that changed ... so here I am wondering lonely as a cloud "
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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It worked for me when I was younger, a holiday romance. We used to love taking it turns to travel to each other, the anticipation was a buzz as was the embracing one another on arrival.
It fizzled out when she went to Uni ironically near me at the time. I realised she had a new life and wanted to fuck around which I reluctantly but graciously accepted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over last 18 months I've had a couple of distance relationships (about 60 miles and 30 miles) ... suited me as I didn't want progression and every other weekend suited me down to the ground. Both partners seemed to be happy with that at first but that changed ... so here I am wondering lonely as a cloud
Sob sob lol x"
Thought I'd try the sympathy vote approach .
... i did put sympathy fuck but it sounded too crude  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes as if it led to moving I couldn't as I need to be near my daughter
Would you expect the other person to move? "
If they were willing, understanding and loved me yes, but as its unlikely I'd get in that scenario it's irrelevant  |
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My last gf lived just short of 200 mile from me dispite our best effert 7/8 was best we could do so in my opinion its a no an unless you have done it its hard to see the problems that inevitable come about for instance leaving hers at 3 in the morning to make sure I got to work my 7 followed by a 12 hour shift. I ended up looking like a zombie not a good look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know really i think if you wanted to see eachother lots it would be a problem depends how far...but i guess if it was a casual thing then it wouldnt matter.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I must admit it was so much easier and better to see my FWB when I was living and working down south. And usually spent every other weekend at his. Now I'm up north its so much harder, but because we don't see so much of each other now, its 10 times better and we still talk Daily
If it was a proper relationship I'm sure it wouldn't have had the same result x |
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I def think long distanced relationships work as I know when my ex worked away at sea he was 4/5 months away then 2/3 month at home it worked perfectly. He went away and there'd be letters and telephone calls with the anticipation of him coming home for an extended shagathon and by the time he started to annoy me being around all the time he'd be ready for going back again!! I know our relationship started to go downhill was when he gave it up to stay shoreside instead.
I'd certainly have no hesitation going back into a long distance relationship but I know it's not for everyone! |
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By * n zCouple
over a year ago
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We are 2 hours apart and see each other every other weekend.........have been doing that for just over 2 years now.
It can be hard but the good stuff outweighs the bad and I feel we truely appreciate each other and the time we spend together.
I hope one day it evolves that we can see more of each other, but for now we are both happy with the arrangement.
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Can't find the time for anyone local, so long distance is a no no for me.
Why does the word local remind me of Royston Vassy. Want to say local sex for local people now. I'll be ok in a sec "
I somehow cannot see you struggling to meet people |
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"Can't find the time for anyone local, so long distance is a no no for me.
Why does the word local remind me of Royston Vassy. Want to say local sex for local people now. I'll be ok in a sec I somehow cannot see you struggling to meet people"
You know what us country bumkins are like. We're shy  |
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