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Definitely not ready to move on...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Went walking with the pooch today, and saw my late partner's boat moared up near Devizes Marina.
The dog recognised it straight away and wanted to go on board.
I said to him it was only a boat, as my late partner (his original owner) had gone forever.
He seemed to understand what I meant and calmed down.
I was in bits, as it was the first time I saw the boat again after removing my belongings over a year ago after his death.
I guess I can ticked off another hurdle on the route of recovery!   
Onwards and upwards they say!  |
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" Definitely not ready to move on... " but certainly on the right track to enjoy life. Found that instead of that silent tear, its better to have that little smile that a loved one always managed to somehow bring to you 
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Went walking with the pooch today, and saw my late partner's boat moared up near Devizes Marina.
The dog recognised it straight away and wanted to go on board.
I said to him it was only a boat, as my late partner (his original owner) had gone forever.
He seemed to understand what I meant and calmed down.
I was in bits, as it was the first time I saw the boat again after removing my belongings over a year ago after his death.
I guess I can ticked off another hurdle on the route of recovery!
Onwards and upwards they say! "
I think you are being hard on yourself expecting things too quick.
It takes time to get over these things, give yourself it xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you are being hard on yourself expecting things too quick.
It takes time to get over these things, give yourself it xxx"
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You'd probably right in that I have unrealistic expectations.
I thought I have done well to compartmentalise the sadness relating to his death so far.
However, it just shows it does not take a lot to open the emotional floodgate again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pearl, six years on for me and there are still moments when I see things, or smell an aftershave and memories come rushing back, they take my breath away.... he will always be part of you. Coping with it is hard but it will get easier daily. xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not saying this applies in your situation Pearly, but acceptance of a situation is half the battle to recovery
I've sent you an email."
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Got it and thanks!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you was to send me a pik of your boobs...Would that help?...
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Besides, you can see the pics already!!!  "
OK! Only trying to help the pik was not for me but for you to send to me thus helping you move on...One with stockings would be nice.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OK! Only trying to help the pik was not for me but for you to send to me thus helping you move on...One with stockings would be nice.... "
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PMSL!!!
You've got access to that one too! 
And it is working btw. |
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