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By *eareena OP Couple
over a year ago
Rockford |
So I have been here a few weeks and I have met with a few guys.. All wanting to meet again. I work and I Am a single parent. That does not leave time for new meets. I'm chatting to 5 or six guys I would l love to meet in the future. So now I am not replying to messages from new men or couples. It's not because I am rude.. It's simply because I won't have time to meet you so why waste time? Some guys I can't resist a reply to but overall it's to your benefit. You complain about time wasters but you expect to be chatted to....  |
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I know the feeling!
I reply to everything but the offensive and obscene, but my profile warns that at the moment I'm only here for the forums and existing friends. I don't get many messages cos I jiggled my settings and filters, but I still got asked for pics and coffee the other day - even though I said pics are no good cos I don't look like them right now!
It amuses me that a coffee meet with someone who is not well (so definitely no chance of play) and looks nothing like her pics is still worth chasing!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always make it more than clear that it could be a while before we meet,work and real life take precedence,if they're happy to chat then thats cool,if they persistantly ask when we're meeting then I stop chatting and tell them ill be in touch when im free
I try not to chat to too many at once as I feel its unfair to them,I don't want to lead them on for months on end so on top of the guys I already know ill only speak to a couple of potential meets at a time,any more than that and it becomes a pain in the arse for me.....and I imagine its the same for them too  |
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