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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say
' Hey I have a problem with you'
No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!
Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Politeness goes a long way wish people would use it more
We polite people are a dying breed be a better place if there were more x"
But then Id have nothing to moan about either !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Politeness goes a long way wish people would use it more
We polite people are a dying breed be a better place if there were more x
But then Id have nothing to moan about either !!! "
you find somethin your a woman lol sorry couldnt resist that x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Politeness goes a long way wish people would use it more
We polite people are a dying breed be a better place if there were more x
But then Id have nothing to moan about either !!! you find somethin your a woman lol sorry couldnt resist that x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would rather be told straight out.
Especially if I wasn't sure what I was supposed to have done.
Like I said before, silence goes a long way.
If you react to someone deliberately trying to annoy you, they are kind of winning.
But if you go silent on them, I guarantee that will annoy them more and you will win.
Silence is loud and profound.
I'm speaking outside of fab.
Inside of fab..don't worry about it.
Personally speaking, I don't do mind games on here. If someone has a problem for a tedious reason and/or won't say why ...I just move on.
If all else fails jusy scream "you stupid c*nt!" at the top of your voice lady.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would rather be told straight out.
Especially if I wasn't sure what I was supposed to have done.
Like I said before, silence goes a long way.
If you react to someone deliberately trying to annoy you, they are kind of winning.
But if you go silent on them, I guarantee that will annoy them more and you will win.
Silence is loud and profound.
I'm speaking outside of fab.
Inside of fab..don't worry about it.
Personally speaking, I don't do mind games on here. If someone has a problem for a tedious reason and/or won't say why ...I just move on.
If all else fails jusy scream "you stupid c*nt!" at the top of your voice lady. "
Im talking generally .. on here , life work etc etc etc
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im talking generally .. on here , life work etc etc etc
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Generally as a wide brush statement.
I would rather be told:
"Hey. You pissed me off because xyz"
There is nothing worse than someone being hacked with you and not knowing why.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Im talking generally .. on here , life work etc etc etc
Generally as a wide brush statement.
I would rather be told:
"Hey. You pissed me off because xyz"
There is nothing worse than someone being hacked with you and not knowing why.
$0.02"
True indeed  |
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"That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say
' Hey I have a problem with you'
No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!
Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively "
I am direct in the way I interact with people and I can usually tell when I have upset someone or if someone has a problem with me. My approach will be to try and talk to the person and find out what it is I have done or said. Most of the time the issue is resolved that way. Never assume someone knows what you're thinking! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say
' Hey I have a problem with you'
No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!
Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively
I am direct in the way I interact with people and I can usually tell when I have upset someone or if someone has a problem with me. My approach will be to try and talk to the person and find out what it is I have done or said. Most of the time the issue is resolved that way. Never assume someone knows what you're thinking! "
That is so true and a lovely way of doing it too
If only more people were like this |
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"That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say
' Hey I have a problem with you'
No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!
Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively "
I don't do subtle, and if I'm upset you betcha I'm going to spread the joy and tell you.
I don't internalise I say what's upsetting me there and then, clear the air and move on. I don't waste time banging up my gums and throwing a moody. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say
' Hey I have a problem with you'
No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!
Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively
I don't do subtle, and if I'm upset you betcha I'm going to spread the joy and tell you.
I don't internalise I say what's upsetting me there and then, clear the air and move on. I don't waste time banging up my gums and throwing a moody. "
Ah now that's what Im talking about
Banging gums and throwing a moody - I do love that phrase and Im stealing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say
' Hey I have a problem with you'
No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!
Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively
I don't do subtle, and if I'm upset you betcha I'm going to spread the joy and tell you.
I don't internalise I say what's upsetting me there and then, clear the air and move on. I don't waste time banging up my gums and throwing a moody. "
You got to try picking me up first to be able to throw me and that's ain't no easy task |
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If someone rubs me up the wrong way I will let them know, however there are people you can be blunt with and those that require a more subtle approach.
If I have pissed someone else off, I would sooner them let me know asap so that we can clear the air and move on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some people avoid confrontation and prefer the avoidance tactic in the hope the other person will soon lose interest and go away. "
I know a few of them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If someone rubs me up the wrong way I will let them know, however there are people you can be blunt with and those that require a more subtle approach.
If I have pissed someone else off, I would sooner them let me know asap so that we can clear the air and move on "
If they are a good friend you would hope that would be part of the friendship anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've always spoke my mind an much preffer others to do the same but most would rather stab you in the back than simply be strate with you sad really "
Tis life my friend tis life |
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"I've always spoke my mind an much preffer others to do the same but most would rather stab you in the back than simply be strate with you sad really
Tis life my friend tis life"
very true my little stalket |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get told off by the wife and my friends all the time for been too blunt with people, I've lost count of the amount of times someone has said you can't say that to me,
My reply is why? It's what I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all honestly. I don't usually tell people when I'm pissed off with them. That's all I'd ever be doing lol
Usually. Allthough my hearts pissed off and I'm moody my head realises that usually it's stupid and I need to get a grip. I know I'll be ok in a day or two so I just keep schtum until all is hunky dory again |
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