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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago
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Talk about confidence sapping and head wrecking !
3 chats with people and 3 fucking times I send a face pic and then it's silence !
I know that if your thin skinned then maybe fab is not for you. If you don't like it then you better leave etc etc but it is hard to take after a period of time .
Rant over thanks ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about putting a picture on your main profile to avoid the situation?
Some people work in high profile jobs therefore discretion is needed"
Hah.. 'high profile'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talk about confidence sapping and head wrecking !
3 chats with people and 3 fucking times I send a face pic and then it's silence !
I know that if your thin skinned then maybe fab is not for you. If you don't like it then you better leave etc etc but it is hard to take after a period of time .
Rant over thanks !"
oh dear!tbh i think it wud upset me a bit too but u just have to move on and forget about it! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Fabs requires a particular kind of toughness or thick skin as for some (definitely not all) it revolves around looks alone and THEIR individual definition of what is attractive.
Other people consider looks (whatever kind) only part of the picture of attraction and value humour, personality and wit a lot more. And if for example (and it is only one example) somebody is looking for a dom or a submissive - then the whole debate on attractiveness is definitely more about the mind and their repsective compatibility at a different (possibly higher) level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about putting a picture on your main profile to avoid the situation?
Some people work in high profile jobs therefore discretion is needed
Hah.. 'high profile'."
School teacher |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about putting a picture on your main profile to avoid the situation?
Some people work in high profile jobs therefore discretion is needed
Hah.. 'high profile'."
Regardless of jobs some people just don't want to advertise to everyone that they're on here
It takes about 2 minutes for any nutjob to set up a profile on here to see if they recognise anyone in their area for a laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regardless of jobs some people just don't want to advertise to everyone that they're on here
It takes about 2 minutes for any nutjob to set up a profile on here to see if they recognise anyone in their area for a laugh"
This is true I guess.
Luckily I live in a cave so... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabs requires a particular kind of toughness or thick skin as for some (definitely not all) it revolves around looks alone and THEIR individual definition of what is attractive.
Other people consider looks (whatever kind) only part of the picture of attraction and value humour, personality and wit a lot more. And if for example (and it is only one example) somebody is looking for a dom or a submissive - then the whole debate on attractiveness is definitely more about the mind and their repsective compatibility at a different (possibly higher) level."
Agreed that taking a meet all the way to an actual swing is more about the whole package rather than just good looks, but you have to have something that attracts someone to you SEXUALLY - I'm sure there's lots of guys on here and in the world in general who are thought of highly by women, but only in a friendly sense rather than an erotic one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or if u don't want to show your face on your profile just add one with the first message ! Then you are not setting your self up for a fall ! Because Its not nice  but you do need to remember its just a type thing not that people are ugly ! Just not right for everyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talk about confidence sapping and head wrecking !
3 chats with people and 3 fucking times I send a face pic and then it's silence !
I know that if your thin skinned then maybe fab is not for you. If you don't like it then you better leave etc etc but it is hard to take after a period of time .
Rant over thanks !"
Fcuk um I say: but not literally unfortunately (sigh). I met one babe who was having a similar rant to you on her profile. She was amazing! Second meet she told me she used to be a dominatrix and at the tender age of 46 introduced me to a new trick or three. What a loss fir the blokes who turned her down.
All part of it. I put face pic on my profile to avoid what's happening to you. And I'm smiling coz my son's just off camera making me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ones person's trash is another persons treasure....Keep smiling.. "
This is so true. Tor is by any definition stunning! People stare at her all the time and can't help it. I'm not in the same league (according to me) however she thinks I'm "fit and sexy" so what I'm trying to say is, people have different tastes and you will be someone's taste! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Fabs requires a particular kind of toughness or thick skin as for some (definitely not all) it revolves around looks alone and THEIR individual definition of what is attractive.
Other people consider looks (whatever kind) only part of the picture of attraction and value humour, personality and wit a lot more. And if for example (and it is only one example) somebody is looking for a dom or a submissive - then the whole debate on attractiveness is definitely more about the mind and their repsective compatibility at a different (possibly higher) level.
Agreed that taking a meet all the way to an actual swing is more about the whole package rather than just good looks, but you have to have something that attracts someone to you SEXUALLY - I'm sure there's lots of guys on here and in the world in general who are thought of highly by women, but only in a friendly sense rather than an erotic one."
Sure, sexybrain - there has to be an attraction. I guess what I am saying is that for some attraction is not necessarily about looks if that makes sense? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talk about confidence sapping and head wrecking !
3 chats with people and 3 fucking times I send a face pic and then it's silence !
I know that if your thin skinned then maybe fab is not for you. If you don't like it then you better leave etc etc but it is hard to take after a period of time .
Rant over thanks !"
Your moaning after 3 rejections in a row? I have had many of them, but I know I ain't that bad. Keep your chin up |
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