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By *howantsme1 OP   Man  over a year ago

stirling

Since joining fab all the ladies say they hate men who send cock pics, request them as friends without talking, send one liners etc etc. I don't do any of these things but yet I don't get replies. It's not my looks because I'm not bad looking . So what is it that you ladies are actually wanting?

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By *rsIdiotWoman  over a year ago

Bedworth

Looks like you're doing everything right huni, only thing I would change is have a public photo. A lot of us like to look at your profile before we look at the message and a pic can help us to know if we're likely to find you attractive.

Other than that, I think you're just struggling due to the numbers game on here

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Hard to tell with no visible pics, and your profile says little except that you're ex-army. Will that actually attract interest do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Id like to know too iv avoided all the please donts but still i get turned down without even a sorry not interested whats wrong with being polite

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By *howantsme1 OP   Man  over a year ago

stirling

Thanks. I thought my picture was showing as I can see it. Oops.

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset


"Id like to know too iv avoided all the please donts but still i get turned down without even a sorry not interested whats wrong with being polite"

9 weeks and 6 meets? Yeah - you're having serious problems!

And why not start your own thread instead of jumping on someone elses?

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

flash a little more flesh mate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its probably nothing your doing just the sheer volumes of men on here...keep trying im sure it will come good

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By *howantsme1 OP   Man  over a year ago

stirling


"Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Hard to tell with no visible pics, and your profile says little except that you're ex-army. Will that actually attract interest do you think? "

Cheers ill take that on board. I would have thought a polite new worded text would have sufficed. Seems this goes deeper. I do think there is an element that believe they are far superior to the men yet I wouldn't buy them a drink in a bar. just kidding.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Big boys don't cry....don't worry you will get there in the end...I like good guys

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By *howantsme1 OP   Man  over a year ago

stirling


"Big boys don't cry....don't worry you will get there in the end...I like good guys "

Your comment made me sing that song lol wish more women reacted the way they say they do when their profile has been read and the text compliments it.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It's not really rocket science, just make sure you read their profile and drop a few hints to show that you have, also ask a question that will encourage a response as there is nothing worse than receiving a message no matter how nice and thinking, what the hell am I meant to say to that?

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

be nice and chat .. see what happens

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By *harliesteveCouple  over a year ago

selly oak

and still no public pic and the can't accommodate doesn't win u votes

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By *ire_bladeMan  over a year ago

Manchester

No offence mate but have you thought you could be trying to hard. why not just forget trying to get meets have some fun an a laff an see if things change you nothing to loose. remember the saying when you look youll not find

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By *hetalkingstoveMan  over a year ago

London

You could take out the bits of your profile about not blocking you, and women who are too confident.

Positivity is attractive, not moans

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By *livia_KWoman  over a year ago

South London


"You could take out the bits of your profile about not blocking you, and women who are too confident.

Positivity is attractive, not moans "

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Big boys don't cry....don't worry you will get there in the end...I like good guys "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Successful people don't moan or whinge.

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By *howantsme1 OP   Man  over a year ago

stirling

Profile pic done. Now to tweak the profile. Thanks for all the hints and tips.

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By *livia_KWoman  over a year ago

South London

Much better

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why can't you accommodate?

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