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'been stood up'

By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman over a year ago

evesham

Do you think this is a good opening line from someone wanting to meet you??

just got a message from a guy who says he has been stood up by a couple and as he is all dressed up and ready to go he thought he would see if i am free.

is it just me or does this just make me seem like sloppy seconds???!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends how you look at it, If you were stood up would you look for something else?

It is a swinging site after all, and no offense was meant by saying that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally have to say yes it does, obviously the guy fancies you and might have had a chance if he had done what I should do more often and thought about what to type before typing and about how it might come over to others.

Not necessarily a toerag though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If its someone you fancy and want to meet what does it matter? We're all sloppy seconds to someone!!

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By *ouvakMan over a year ago

clacton on sea

not sure if i'd be offended or over whelmed that someone had chosen me as a replacement for the ones that had let them down, does kind of smack of being second best though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nah i wouldnt class u as second best... in this weird and wonderful world of swinging ppl can only get out so much for various reasons..job/kids etc so if he contacted u means he likes and would love to meet whatever the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Message him back and tell him to give you an hour to see if you get a better offer.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

having been stood our selves recently i would say look at it as an opportunity - if you want to - dont if you dont fancy him!

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By *entadreadMan over a year ago

Essex

Do not look at it from that angle, if you want to meet him do so if not tell him no, but do not be too analytical about it.

He may lack tact, but at least he is honest.

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