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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so very random but what are people thoughts on conversation and connection with someone if meeting?
Seems some peeps forget..yes its a place to meet for sex/fun...but for me being able to chat to a guy and have a laugh makes me want to meet them more..and know that i will have not just good sex but also good company!
Seems many on here who think its all down to sex.
if go to swingers clubs people socialise and have banter/laugh etc to get that connection with peeps. i see it no different on here.
u dont walk into a club and start fucking..so why do people expect to when meet in person..cant beat good build up and flirting/teasing etc |
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"so very random but what are people thoughts on conversation and connection with someone if meeting?
Seems some peeps forget..yes its a place to meet for sex/fun...but for me being able to chat to a guy and have a laugh makes me want to meet them more..and know that i will have not just good sex but also good company!
Seems many on here who think its all down to sex.
if go to swingers clubs people socialise and have banter/laugh etc to get that connection with peeps. i see it no different on here.
u dont walk into a club and start fucking..so why do people expect to when meet in person..cant beat good build up and flirting/teasing etc"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i just know when had guy stay night...found when can have good banter and laugh..also get lot of sex through the night!
we all different but im going on fact many couples who swing do socialise as thats part of it..same as a fuck buddy...used to be someone who classed as a mate, who chat/chill with etc but also fuck.
seems its changing as some see a fuck bud as someone ya fuck then say bye too!
we will all think differently though  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I like a good chat beforehand to help me relax, but I'll probably be meeting the guy(s) for sex, not an evenings erudite conversation. I tend to out the unlikelys by swapping messages on here anyway. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I totally get what you are saying and it is the same for me! Hence why I have not had a new meet for ages 
However, I live in hope and my first meet at a club, just backs up what you said about just being expected to fuck lol and no that is not me either!  |
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"Depends what kind of conversation, personally I prefer a little less talk and a lot more action.  "
Like Elvis Presley...a little less conversation, a little more action...I've been on meets and hardly spoken and on others chatted merrily away. So it depends. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I need some conversation but I have found that if it goes on too long on-line then it morphs into something else and a sexual meet doesn't happen. Getting the balance is the tricky part. |
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"I totally get what you are saying and it is the same for me! Hence why I have not had a new meet for ages
However, I live in hope and my first meet at a club, just backs up what you said about just being expected to fuck lol and no that is not me either! "
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Might be me getting old but the conversation is what really does it for me maybe 10/20 yrs ago wham bam thank you mrs was engh but not any more I also think it makes the sex much better. But hey like I say its probly just me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Might be me getting old but the conversation is what really does it for me maybe 10/20 yrs ago wham bam thank you mrs was engh but not any more I also think it makes the sex much better. But hey like I say its probly just me "
if have good banter and laugh..i know i find i higher sex drive with a guy and more relaxed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need to know the gent in sufficient details before I would agree to meet him.
If messages and conversations do not flow well, then it is unlikely for me to meet him.
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