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Agree with the others; it's self explainatory. The reasons for that will vary from person to person so it's hard to using a sweeping generalisation.
From what I've seen though, most people who are bi curious/orally bi don't necessarily find the same sex attractive or crave intimacy with them.
I consider someone bi if they find members of the same sex attractive and would actively pursue a relationship with someone of either sex. |
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over a year ago
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Is something niggling you op ?
Have you been excluded from meeting cos you are cock averse ?
Your update of 2 hours ago plus this thread suggests that something has bugged you and that something is revolving round the bi 'issue' |
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I'm orally bi n my interpretation for me is that I'll happily do anything EXCEPT anal i.e sucking, kissing rimming bla bla bla. Anal is a psychological/physical problem for me due to a traumatic incident 48 years ago!
Everybody likes to play at all sorts of different levels. So I hope THIS answers yr question wot the fuck orally bi is all about  |
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"Is something niggling you op ?
Have you been excluded from meeting cos you are cock averse ?
Your update of 2 hours ago plus this thread suggests that something has bugged you and that something is revolving round the bi 'issue'"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people think bisexual folk are just greedy.
I think it makes things twice as feckin' difficult.
Double the nutters.
Count your blessings, thread starter.
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over a year ago
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I'm not keen on labels but honesty with yourself is important.
For me, saying that you'll do this but not that is irrelevant because a straight guy would even consider it. |
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"What's the fascination with labels? Whatever a person labels themself is entirely up to them and extremely personal. They most probably just use one that fits their preferences best. "
The labeling is frustrating
Im quite open minded so whilst I have never felt attracted to blokes the idea of getting sucked by one turned me on. I therefore tried it and enjoyed it. I often now meet blokes just to suck me. I have gone further but not necessarily enjoyed it. I have never kissed a bloke as dont have the attraction.
I can be on occasion a 'nervous' person in terms of sex but found that I had less trouble getting it up with blokes than women. I dont know whether its the technique or whether it was because with a woman I try to be respectful and show them a good time and with blokes I am less respectful and know its just a suck and but whatever the reason it works for me.
Does this make me bi? I dont know. Am I bothered? No. Am I open about the subject? Absolutely not. Rightly or wrongly I wouldn't admit to this in public arguably for fear of perception amongst less educated friends and society generally. In any event I dont think there is a need to come out as I dont think I will ever have a relationship with a bloke.
Perhaps I should just be classed as greedy! |
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"What's the fascination with labels? Whatever a person labels themself is entirely up to them and extremely personal. They most probably just use one that fits their preferences best.
The labeling is frustrating
Im quite open minded so whilst I have never felt attracted to blokes the idea of getting sucked by one turned me on. I therefore tried it and enjoyed it. I often now meet blokes just to suck me. I have gone further but not necessarily enjoyed it. I have never kissed a bloke as dont have the attraction.
I can be on occasion a 'nervous' person in terms of sex but found that I had less trouble getting it up with blokes than women. I dont know whether its the technique or whether it was because with a woman I try to be respectful and show them a good time and with blokes I am less respectful and know its just a suck and but whatever the reason it works for me.
Does this make me bi? I dont know. Am I bothered? No. Am I open about the subject? Absolutely not. Rightly or wrongly I wouldn't admit to this in public arguably for fear of perception amongst less educated friends and society generally. In any event I dont think there is a need to come out as I dont think I will ever have a relationship with a bloke.
Perhaps I should just be classed as greedy!"
This is DEEP  |
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over a year ago
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"Some men like sucking beautiful cocks on ocassion and thats all
I can see why as I like doing that too "
I often find that men compliment me on my cock more than anything else. Not sure whether that is good or bad! |
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"What's the fascination with labels? Whatever a person labels themself is entirely up to them and extremely personal. They most probably just use one that fits their preferences best.
The labeling is frustrating
Im quite open minded so whilst I have never felt attracted to blokes the idea of getting sucked by one turned me on. I therefore tried it and enjoyed it. I often now meet blokes just to suck me. I have gone further but not necessarily enjoyed it. I have never kissed a bloke as dont have the attraction.
I can be on occasion a 'nervous' person in terms of sex but found that I had less trouble getting it up with blokes than women. I dont know whether its the technique or whether it was because with a woman I try to be respectful and show them a good time and with blokes I am less respectful and know its just a suck and but whatever the reason it works for me.
Does this make me bi? I dont know. Am I bothered? No. Am I open about the subject? Absolutely not. Rightly or wrongly I wouldn't admit to this in public arguably for fear of perception amongst less educated friends and society generally. In any event I dont think there is a need to come out as I dont think I will ever have a relationship with a bloke.
Perhaps I should just be classed as greedy!
This is DEEP "
Just honesty. I appreciate others input and am not sat crying into a tissue whilst writing it. Tissues are for other things  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men like sucking beautiful cocks on ocassion and thats all
I can see why as I like doing that too
I often find that men compliment me on my cock more than anything else. Not sure whether that is good or bad!"
Its a compliment,the same as if I complimented another womans boobs,if you read all the threads about cocks on here there seem to be more men obssessed with cock than women.....lots of cock envy  |
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"if you read all the threads about cocks on here there seem to be more men obssessed with cock than women.....lots of cock envy "
Men often see sex differently from women. I know guys from years ago at school who wanked together yet stated they weren't gay or even interested in men. I know guys today who regularly meet men for sex but don't kiss and don't see it as anything to do with love, just a horny way of getting off. I often see beautiful cocks in porn that turn me on, and don't see anything wrong with that. It's not cock envy, more cock interest. I've seen a lot of women who turn me off, that doesn't make me anti-women... just choosy. |
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Labels seems to be very emotive to some people.
Each to their own, call yourself what you like BUT if you label yourself incorrectly then you might miss out on fun. eg we wouldnt dream of approaching straight guys for bi fun despite the majority of messages we receive being from "straight guys" wanting bi fun. If they can't be bothered to label themselves honestly then we can't be bothered meeting them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Let's face it, labels aside, whatever their sexual preference, ALL men love cock.
Their own!
As witnessed by the years they spend lovingly fiddling with the li'l chap.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's face it, labels aside, whatever their sexual preference, ALL men love cock.
Their own!
As witnessed by the years they spend lovingly fiddling with the li'l chap.
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yeah but I still wouldnt self suck if I could lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's face it, labels aside, whatever their sexual preference, ALL men love cock.
Their own!
As witnessed by the years they spend lovingly fiddling with the li'l chap.
yeah but I still wouldnt self suck if I could lol"
Jeeeeez i'd never leave the house if I could self suck!!!
Not for the want of trying |
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"Let's face it, labels aside, whatever their sexual preference, ALL men love cock.
Their own!
As witnessed by the years they spend lovingly fiddling with the li'l chap.
yeah but I still wouldnt self suck if I could lol
Jeeeeez i'd never leave the house if I could self suck!!!
Not for the want of trying "
Yeah I'm with you on that one, although I must say I do find a nice stiff cock a turn on and after my first time of sucking a guy off I now find myself wanting more  |
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Having read this thread I'm glad there are so many open minded people in here. I'd class myself as straight but recently I've been fantasising about having a threesome with a couple and sucking the guys cock. Never thought of myself as bi though. We'll see if it ever happens... |
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"Having read this thread I'm glad there are so many open minded people in here. I'd class myself as straight but recently I've been fantasising about having a threesome with a couple and sucking the guys cock. Never thought of myself as bi though. We'll see if it ever happens..."
My profile says straight but like the above have been thinking about it but don't want to put people off me by putting bi curious but why cant we have a tab saying orally bi? |
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"Having read this thread I'm glad there are so many open minded people in here. I'd class myself as straight but recently I've been fantasising about having a threesome with a couple and sucking the guys cock. Never thought of myself as bi though. We'll see if it ever happens...
My profile says straight but like the above have been thinking about it but don't want to put people off me by putting bi curious but why cant we have a tab saying orally bi?"
I've never experienced any negative issues - and just make sure my view is clear in my text.
Be honest - and don't worry about those that are put off - you probably wouldn't want to meet them anyway! |
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