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if you could change 1 thing from your past...

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What would it be and why? (I know the PC police will say 'no regrets' but its just a game, wont really happen!)

I would never have got married at such a young age. As it was destined to fail and when I look back on it now I was a very different person. We had no children (as I found out I was not able to) and ive not spoken to him in 15 years hes now happily married with 2 lovely girls in told.

Its like another life to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would have left when I realised the affair started and spent more time with Dad in the last 2 years of his life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would have gone into my mums house and not walked away

I live with that .... I wish I had done it but I didn't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly, nothing. Everything -even the crap stuff- has made me who I am. I am happy with that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm saying I wouldn't change anything. The reason I'm saying it is if I had to choose one thing I wouldn't know where to start

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't say I would change anything. The experiences I've had, bad and good, have made me the woman I am today!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not to give my heart so freely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't have worn flares to the diocesan youth disco. I was known as Lionel for years.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I would have told them where the body was. I've always felt guilt about not doing that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Moved to London and cut off my family years earlier than I did.

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By *andykissesWoman over a year ago

laugharne

"not to give my heart so freely "

Same here

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

Nothing......

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By *e nicerWoman over a year ago

Costa del Medway

sometimes I think there are one or two things I might change but then when I see all the knock on changes just little changes would cause I see that I would change nothing at all.

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

"I would have told them where the body was. I've always felt guilt about not doing that. "

Would have ruined your patio though....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing.

It is the sliding doors effect

There is no proof that had i done something different that my life would have been any more fulfilled or happy than it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

there is a paradox to change things that have happened but me it would have been to have been able to have saved my first baby

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not to speak without thinking

Save me a lot of grief if I had

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Difficult! On one hand wish I hadn't married but then with out the marriage I wouldn't have had the children, may not have met the friend who sort of haver the idea to look on the Internet for what I was missing and then I wouldn't have met some of the lovely friends of here and wouldn't have met Godfrey who seems to be all I ever wanted just in and difficult situation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is one thing that if I could change if I could, ( some of you know what) but its made me stronger than I was, so maybe not xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Lots of things but I can't live with what I can't change...

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By *win PeaksCouple over a year ago

Northamptonshire

There is nothing major that I would change, and any of the little things aren't really worth worrying about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Leaving the Forces to work in civie street

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would have told my fiancée i loved him instead of stressing about the fact he hadnt got the shopping right before going out to get what i really wanted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spunking a fortune on clubbing and designer clothes.

It was fun at the time though.

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

It is not a regret because I live without regrets, life for me is about experiences, discovery and learning; in hindsight I would have like to have enjoyed more of our youth and like yourself not get married so young (22)! but still be married to the same man.

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

Dispite all the shit an there's been plenty I don't think id change a things. Took a long time but I like who I am now an with out the shit I wouldn't be me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i would of been extra extra nice to my parents and my little dogs because you take them for granted when they are alive and dont realise how much you will miss them when they arent around anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would have ducked when a mate pointed an airpistol at me and pulled the trigger, I would have gotten into the navy instead of failing the medical due to being partial sightedcin one eye.

but you can't be bitter LoL

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I would have gone to London when I had the chance. However that would have meant my daughter not being born so I guess it all worked out for the best.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a time traveller, I would not have gone back to warn my great grandfather. But hey I can correct that by going back again and not telling him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing.... What I have lived has made me who I am....

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