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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Have you ever had a meet that you were a bit unsure about... The when you got there it freaked you out and you wanted to leave?
What did you do?! "
No but had a couple I asked to leave without playing as they were not what they purported to be. |
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This is one of the reasons I changed my profile name - they can't complain if I get bitchy if the warning is up there! 
*nb: First reply is courteous eg: thanks but you're not my type (type is clearly stated in profile). But if they want to know why all bets are off and it's time for some brutal honesty...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only once, we met in a bar and I just couldn't talk to him, I'm usually very talkative but when I not comfortable with someone it's a case of very stilted conversation.
My OH told him that he wasn't right for us. He did start to say 'oh I've come a long way and I was looking forward to it', but he did accept it without a lot
of fuss. I did feel bad even though the pictures he sent us were obviously not of him and he could have saved us all the embarrassment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went for a social meet, lady in question was nothing like her pic, she was hard to talk to so I made my excuses and left. Didn't feel bad, there was just no chemistry at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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went for a social the guy expected more I wasn't interested but he wasn't listening so I stood up and told him exactly what I thought - all guns blazing ....... and then walked out head held high   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever had a meet that you were a bit unsure about... The when you got there it freaked you out and you wanted to leave?
What did you do?! "
Hid and erm let someone else deal with it lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a guy at his hotel once, stupidly, should have known better but there we go, anyway, got there and he forgot that I needed a key card to get in, receptionist at the premier in must have thought me a working girl, anyway I should have left then but didn't, he came got me, pics must have been 10 years out of date, he was clean and smelt nice but I just couldn't, we sat and chatted for a bit and I explained then that I couldn't go any further, he was very understanding but a little miffed, lucky I managed a quick ring me text and escaped soon after! It's horrible saying no  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
There are a lot of times when I think 'I can't be arsed' but make myself go and things turn out well. However I met one guy at the pub, had told him no play as I was unsure, and also it was time of the month. He kept bugging me to go home with him, and I kept saying no. After the 4th time he said it I told him that if he didn't respect the word 'no' on a social meet then I would have to assume he wouldn't respect it during a sex meet and I would prefer him to leave. He did.
A couple of other times I have met socially and decided they weren't for me I've been a bit of a chicken and waited til I got home to message them. I hope I am getting a bit braver there though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes a couple of times but never past a social... latest he looked nothing like his pic didn't fancy him had a coffee bit of a chat and I said i need to go .. He messaged me saying i left abrubtly but would like to meet again ... I replied it was only a social and I don't want to see you again .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just say it as it is...'Not feeling it sorry'. He did send a whole lot of abusive texts after then sent me a message on Fab to say can you verify me as genuine FFS |
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"Just say it as it is...'Not feeling it sorry'. He did send a whole lot of abusive texts after then sent me a message on Fab to say can you verify me as genuine FFS "
Think he got those the wrong way round lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever had a meet that you were a bit unsure about... The when you got there it freaked you out and you wanted to leave?
What did you do?!
No but had a couple I asked to leave without playing as they were not what they purported to be."
If not rude care to share? I am nosey |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
South London |
I once had to kick a guy out of a hotel room because he blatantly refused to use a condom. He then got all nasty with me via text and messaging and had to report him to admin (on another site though).
Luckily I had booked the hotel in my name! |
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i am more careful now about who i meet thats for sure.
