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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok after reading a fair few discussions on here and mainly hiding...
What in your eyes makes someone an experienced swinger...
I was totally green and very straight when I joined but am I still a newbie ? 
What stage in your eyes is someone no longer a newbie
.. im sure everyones views are different on this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My view is
When YOU feel relaxed in the knowledge that this life style choice you made makes you happy and have no qualms or guilt in the fun you are having.
You need to decide in your mind what it is you like more etc  |
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"Ok after reading a fair few discussions on here and mainly hiding...
What in your eyes makes someone an experienced swinger...
I was totally green and very straight when I joined but am I still a newbie ?
What stage in your eyes is someone no longer a newbie
.. im sure everyones views are different on this "
on here for over a year and lots of veris from meets
definately not a newbie i would say your a fully fledged 5 star swinger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say I became an experienced swinger when I realised sex and all the kinks that comes with it are who we are.. And not what we hide, the newbie feeling wears off when you start living your deepest darkest fantasies! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok after reading a fair few discussions on here and mainly hiding...
What in your eyes makes someone an experienced swinger...
I was totally green and very straight when I joined but am I still a newbie ?
What stage in your eyes is someone no longer a newbie
.. im sure everyones views are different on this
on here for over a year and lots of veris from meets
definately not a newbie i would say your a fully fledged 5 star swinger "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would say I became an experienced swinger when I realised sex and all the kinks that comes with it are who we are.. And not what we hide, the newbie feeling wears off when you start living your deepest darkest fantasies! "
That makes so much sense.. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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My view is youre still a newbie if you have only had a handful of meets. It doesnt matter how long you have been swinging but the number of partners you have had, absolutely does.
Having said that, you could have been on (say this site) 15 days, and had 15 meets and not be experienced about what you do or what others want, so its probably part and part.
In numbers??
noob... 0-20
moderate 20-40
expereienced 40+
I think these are reasonable esitmates. Its a good question in all honesty  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I would say I became an experienced swinger when I realised sex and all the kinks that comes with it are who we are.. And not what we hide, the newbie feeling wears off when you start living your deepest darkest fantasies! "
or relaxed enough to just know what you like/want but yes totally agree  |
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