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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now .... I may seem like a prude here but the thought makes me feel a tad sick
All those bodies and some of them touching you and peoples hands and mouths all over the shop - see I'm already sweating at the thought
Am I the only one who shudders at the thought ??
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"Now .... I may seem like a prude here but the thought makes me feel a tad sick
All those bodies and some of them touching you and peoples hands and mouths all over the shop - see I'm already sweating at the thought
Am I the only one who shudders at the thought ??
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(sorry...typos)
I've never been in an orgy but would like to try it...then I'd know if I like it or not...of course my preference would be for an all female orgy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now .... I may seem like a prude here but the thought makes me feel a tad sick
All those bodies and some of them touching you and peoples hands and mouths all over the shop - see I'm already sweating at the thought
Am I the only one who shudders at the thought ??
(sorry...typos)
I've never been in an orgy but would like to try it...then I'd know if I like it or not...of course my preference would be for an all female orgy "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If like me you don't like having certain bits touched due to being ticklish then i can understand, as personally that's my main reason for not wanting to get involved."
No my main reason is someone I don't find attractive touching my bits .. and all that bodily fluid .. and and and so much more |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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"No, I shudder at the thought too, but for a different reason
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Did you try one once ??"
Have never been to an organised orgy, but have enjoyed the round room & cinema at chams a few times, can be pretty similar.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I shudder at the thought too, but for a different reason
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Did you try one once ??
Have never been to an organised orgy, but have enjoyed the round room & cinema at chams a few times, can be pretty similar.
N"
See ... this clubs thing too. Im too vanilla for here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would only want an orgy with people id selected before hand
This!! No way would I turn up for a free for all with people I had no idea who they were etc x"
Me either .....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a selection process would be needed and certain ground rules to be laid down before the champagne starts to pop off.
Although saying that, me and a lady dived straight into the Orgy bed at one particular club. It was an experience to say the least. One I'd have again
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think a selection process would be needed and certain ground rules to be laid down before the champagne starts to pop off.
Although saying that, me and a lady dived straight into the Orgy bed at one particular club. It was an experience to say the least. One I'd have again
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glad it was good for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do have my spotter on standby - Hubby - who check that everyone is properly attired and he knows the type of gentleman who I do/don't prefer.
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Oh right ... I know nothing about these at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would only want an orgy with people id selected before hand
I wonder how many people you have to have for it to be considered for an orgy  "
See i wouldn't want too many if i was ever going to do it it would have to be a max of maybe a couple of women i know i liked and fancied and a couple of i guys the same |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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"I do have my spotter on standby - Hubby - who check that everyone is properly attired and he knows the type of gentleman who I do/don't prefer.
N
Oh right ... I know nothing about these at all "
I have had a couple of men in the past think that it is OK to not wear a condom in this situation. It isn't.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would only want an orgy with people id selected before hand
I wonder how many people you have to have for it to be considered for an orgy
See i wouldn't want too many if i was ever going to do it it would have to be a max of maybe a couple of women i know i liked and fancied and a couple of i guys the same "
So is that a party or an orgy
I think we need an expert opinion ... an orgy expert |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do have my spotter on standby - Hubby - who check that everyone is properly attired and he knows the type of gentleman who I do/don't prefer.
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Oh right ... I know nothing about these at all
I have had a couple of men in the past think that it is OK to not wear a condom in this situation. It isn't.
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Yikes !!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would only want an orgy with people id selected before hand
I wonder how many people you have to have for it to be considered for an orgy
See i wouldn't want too many if i was ever going to do it it would have to be a max of maybe a couple of women i know i liked and fancied and a couple of i guys the same
So is that a party or an orgy
I think we need an expert opinion ... an orgy expert "
Lol we do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No...I'd much rather have a 1:1 or a 3 some
Ah the old threesome .... Im not sure Ive ever met a man who hasn't wanted one or mentioned it "
I'm human...still awaiting the ultimate FMF one though...I can dream |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would only want an orgy with people id selected before hand
I wonder how many people you have to have for it to be considered for an orgy
See i wouldn't want too many if i was ever going to do it it would have to be a max of maybe a couple of women i know i liked and fancied and a couple of i guys the same
So is that a party or an orgy
I think we need an expert opinion ... an orgy expert
Lol we do "
How does one go about finding an orgy expert |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No...I'd much rather have a 1:1 or a 3 some
Ah the old threesome .... Im not sure Ive ever met a man who hasn't wanted one or mentioned it
I'm human...still awaiting the ultimate FMF one though...I can dream"
Ha ha im fed up with those im waiting for the other way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No...I'd much rather have a 1:1 or a 3 some
Ah the old threesome .... Im not sure Ive ever met a man who hasn't wanted one or mentioned it
I'm human...still awaiting the ultimate FMF one though...I can dream"
It's worth the wait so be patient |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I shudder at the thought too, but for a different reason
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Did you try one once ??
Have never been to an organised orgy, but have enjoyed the round room & cinema at chams a few times, can be pretty similar.
N"
Had fun there to and that's the nearest thing we've been to an orgy |
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"Is an MMMF considered to be an Orgy? Mini Orgy perhaps? If so I've been in one.
See .. I don't know
we need orgy clarification "
In an attempt to help I reverted to my trusted Google and was absolutely shocked to realise it was of absolutely no help at all!!
Here is wht it said - I guess it was true back in the 60's or during prohibition !!
A wild party, esp. one involving excessive drinking and unrestrained sexual activity. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is an MMMF considered to be an Orgy? Mini Orgy perhaps? If so I've been in one.
See .. I don't know
we need orgy clarification
In an attempt to help I reverted to my trusted Google and was absolutely shocked to realise it was of absolutely no help at all!!
Here is wht it said - I guess it was true back in the 60's or during prohibition !!
A wild party, esp. one involving excessive drinking and unrestrained sexual activity."
Oh lord so there is no amount of people to make an orgy .... we know google is always right |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I enjoy clubs and lots, when in the mood, and have been able to say no to anything I didn't fancy.
I've been to parties and they haven't always worked well for me.
I'm not sure what constitutes an orgy really but I'd give it a go if the no means no rule still applies. |
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"Is an MMMF considered to be an Orgy? Mini Orgy perhaps? If so I've been in one.
See .. I don't know
we need orgy clarification
In an attempt to help I reverted to my trusted Google and was absolutely shocked to realise it was of absolutely no help at all!!
Here is wht it said - I guess it was true back in the 60's or during prohibition !!
A wild party, esp. one involving excessive drinking and unrestrained sexual activity.
Oh lord so there is no amount of people to make an orgy .... we know google is always right"
What does Wikipedia say?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would only want an orgy with people id selected before hand
This!! No way would I turn up for a free for all with people I had no idea who they were etc x
Me either ..... "
same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand"
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ??? |
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"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ???"
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ???"
That's sort of what happens with meets anyway isn't it? You set out your boundaries and then enjoy what you have agreed to do and take it from there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ???
That's sort of what happens with meets anyway isn't it? You set out your boundaries and then enjoy what you have agreed to do and take it from there."
I guess .. although in my head I have a group of people sat about with pens and pieces of paper writing can and can not lists ... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ???
That's sort of what happens with meets anyway isn't it? You set out your boundaries and then enjoy what you have agreed to do and take it from there.
I guess .. although in my head I have a group of people sat about with pens and pieces of paper writing can and can not lists ... "
I suppose you can make that into a party game - a new form of Twister? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ???
That's sort of what happens with meets anyway isn't it? You set out your boundaries and then enjoy what you have agreed to do and take it from there.
I guess .. although in my head I have a group of people sat about with pens and pieces of paper writing can and can not lists ...
I suppose you can make that into a party game - a new form of Twister?"
Indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ???"
so glad u added 'like' in there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ???
so glad u added 'like' in there "
Now that is a thread that would have been deleted  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ???
That's sort of what happens with meets anyway isn't it? You set out your boundaries and then enjoy what you have agreed to do and take it from there.
I guess .. although in my head I have a group of people sat about with pens and pieces of paper writing can and can not lists ... "
They should write it on post it notes and stick it to their foreheads.
2nd thoughts that might not work if it says no anal  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ???
That's sort of what happens with meets anyway isn't it? You set out your boundaries and then enjoy what you have agreed to do and take it from there.
I guess .. although in my head I have a group of people sat about with pens and pieces of paper writing can and can not lists ...
They should write it on post it notes and stick it to their foreheads.
2nd thoughts that might not work if it says no anal "
Hahahaha oh my days .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rule 3. No body fluids
Yes !!
Ok ok take the piss .. I started this seriously you know
We're taking it seriously! I am determined that you should have a happy orgiastic time."
Ah you make me happy - will you come please |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rule 3. No body fluids
Yes !!
Ok ok take the piss .. I started this seriously you know
We're taking it seriously! I am determined that you should have a happy orgiastic time.
Ah you make me happy - will you come please "
Will she come?
That's usually what happens during an orgy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand
They sit and chat first .. make a plan then fuck like rabbits ???
That's sort of what happens with meets anyway isn't it? You set out your boundaries and then enjoy what you have agreed to do and take it from there.
I guess .. although in my head I have a group of people sat about with pens and pieces of paper writing can and can not lists ... "
No I think they have post it notes and write on yes or no then stick them on the appropriate body part |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Rule 3. No body fluids
Yes !!
Ok ok take the piss .. I started this seriously you know
We're taking it seriously! I am determined that you should have a happy orgiastic time.
Ah you make me happy - will you come please
Will she come?
That's usually what happens during an orgy!! "
Not always I bet |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Rule 3. No body fluids
Yes !!
Ok ok take the piss .. I started this seriously you know
We're taking it seriously! I am determined that you should have a happy orgiastic time.
Ah you make me happy - will you come please
Will she come?
That's usually what happens during an orgy!! "
Not at this orgy. I refer you to rule 3 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now .... I may seem like a prude here but the thought makes me feel a tad sick
All those bodies and some of them touching you and peoples hands and mouths all over the shop - see I'm already sweating at the thought
Am I the only one who shudders at the thought ??
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I'll hold my hand up. The thought scares me.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rule 3. No body fluids
Yes !!
Ok ok take the piss .. I started this seriously you know
We're taking it seriously! I am determined that you should have a happy orgiastic time.
Ah you make me happy - will you come please
Will she come?
That's usually what happens during an orgy!!
Not at this orgy. I refer you to rule 3 "
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh who are you the rule police  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Rule 3. No body fluids
Yes !!
Ok ok take the piss .. I started this seriously you know
We're taking it seriously! I am determined that you should have a happy orgiastic time.
Ah you make me happy - will you come please
Will she come?
That's usually what happens during an orgy!!
Not at this orgy. I refer you to rule 3
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh who are you the rule police "
Yes, self appointed I can only be relieved of my duties by being flogged in an orgy with two wet kippers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rule 3. No body fluids
Yes !!
Ok ok take the piss .. I started this seriously you know
We're taking it seriously! I am determined that you should have a happy orgiastic time.
Ah you make me happy - will you come please
Will she come?
That's usually what happens during an orgy!!
Not at this orgy. I refer you to rule 3
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh who are you the rule police
Yes, self appointed I can only be relieved of my duties by being flogged in an orgy with two wet kippers"
Hahaha ok Ill nip to Morrisons |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rule 5 No Anal
How can you thrust your bum in our face and say that
That's Flo's rules "
You lot can have all the bum fun you want ....
God .. I don't do anal ... orgies are too messy ... the list is endless. I think I need to rethink why Im here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been in the couples room with my OH and been surrounded by others having sex. I love it, it's such fun. Not only is it incredibly sexy hearing the noises but it's fun to have guys trying to step over my head and their testicles all hanging down or someones arse on my hair as it's splayed out over the bed. Things like that really make me laugh and it's sexy but not serious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh I really have to jump in here!!! And to think I am giving up watching the BGT Grand Final for you lot!!
Right - back in t'80's I took part in a number of orgies, that is to say ones 'organised' along the lines of what most people would call a 'Roman' orgy. I can tell you a few things it is NOT...
First it isn't a gangbang, so an MMMF is NOT an orgy. Second, it isn't a free-for-all. Think of it a bit like a massed version of Speed Dating with your kit off, and instead of just talking to someone, you get to have sex with them too
The ratio of males to females at those I attended was roughly 1:1, although I did know of others happening at other parties which were slewed in one direction or the other, usually at the taste of the hosts.
There are very few 'rules' as such. I never went to one which had a blanket 'no anal' rule or anything else of a 'blanket' nature. If an individual is not into something, then that is up to them to tell anyone they're going to play with, or for the other person to do this strange, almost unheard of thing these days and ASK!!
The people who were involved in the orgies I went to over a four year period were regulars at local parties, so you could say that, in a way, it was a 'sort-of' invited list, so everyone already knew each other in the main.
An orgy does NOT inherently have to be bi - although if anyone involved wants bi action and they know who else on the floor is into it, then they'll generally gravitate towards them.
Orgies can be a LOT of fun. But you have to know, like any other kind of play, when it is time for you to get off the floor and leave it.
Ted |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Oh I really have to jump in here!!! And to think I am giving up watching the BGT Grand Final for you lot!!
Right - back in t'80's I took part in a number of orgies, that is to say ones 'organised' along the lines of what most people would call a 'Roman' orgy. I can tell you a few things it is NOT...
First it isn't a gangbang, so an MMMF is NOT an orgy. Second, it isn't a free-for-all. Think of it a bit like a massed version of Speed Dating with your kit off, and instead of just talking to someone, you get to have sex with them too
The ratio of males to females at those I attended was roughly 1:1, although I did know of others happening at other parties which were slewed in one direction or the other, usually at the taste of the hosts.
There are very few 'rules' as such. I never went to one which had a blanket 'no anal' rule or anything else of a 'blanket' nature. If an individual is not into something, then that is up to them to tell anyone they're going to play with, or for the other person to do this strange, almost unheard of thing these days and ASK!!
The people who were involved in the orgies I went to over a four year period were regulars at local parties, so you could say that, in a way, it was a 'sort-of' invited list, so everyone already knew each other in the main.
An orgy does NOT inherently have to be bi - although if anyone involved wants bi action and they know who else on the floor is into it, then they'll generally gravitate towards them.
Orgies can be a LOT of fun. But you have to know, like any other kind of play, when it is time for you to get off the floor and leave it.
Ted"
I might need to get glasses as I thought your last line said "get off the Floro and leave it". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rule 5 No Anal
How can you thrust your bum in our face and say that
That's Flo's rules
You lot can have all the bum fun you want ....
God .. I don't do anal ... orgies are too messy ... the list is endless. I think I need to rethink why Im here "
I wouldn't with anyone other than someone I was in a relationship with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh I really have to jump in here!!! And to think I am giving up watching the BGT Grand Final for you lot!!
Right - back in t'80's I took part in a number of orgies, that is to say ones 'organised' along the lines of what most people would call a 'Roman' orgy. I can tell you a few things it is NOT...
First it isn't a gangbang, so an MMMF is NOT an orgy. Second, it isn't a free-for-all. Think of it a bit like a massed version of Speed Dating with your kit off, and instead of just talking to someone, you get to have sex with them too
The ratio of males to females at those I attended was roughly 1:1, although I did know of others happening at other parties which were slewed in one direction or the other, usually at the taste of the hosts.
There are very few 'rules' as such. I never went to one which had a blanket 'no anal' rule or anything else of a 'blanket' nature. If an individual is not into something, then that is up to them to tell anyone they're going to play with, or for the other person to do this strange, almost unheard of thing these days and ASK!!
The people who were involved in the orgies I went to over a four year period were regulars at local parties, so you could say that, in a way, it was a 'sort-of' invited list, so everyone already knew each other in the main.
An orgy does NOT inherently have to be bi - although if anyone involved wants bi action and they know who else on the floor is into it, then they'll generally gravitate towards them.
Orgies can be a LOT of fun. But you have to know, like any other kind of play, when it is time for you to get off the floor and leave it.
Ted
I might need to get glasses as I thought your last line said "get off the Floro and leave it". "
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Similar to what keenfucktographer said, I enjoy the group scenario, I didn't realise it was different to am orgy, I just thought it was just words thatnpeoplw use to describe it.
In a group situation I've only played with my OH and one single guy, I don't ever play with lots of guys at the same time, thats just too much for me personally, but I like being amongst it all.
It's the main reason I swing, to do something different. We have great sex together but doing something a bit different makes us feel very naughty, very taboo, outrageous etc. That's the pull for us.
I don't know why people would think that there is not the same consent or rules Or that you have to have sex with everyone there. I've just had sex with my OH in the middle of it all and noone said I was doing it wrong. I've also said no to guys who've tried to touch me. People are still very respectful. |
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"Now .... I may seem like a prude here but the thought makes me feel a tad sick
All those bodies and some of them touching you and peoples hands and mouths all over the shop - see I'm already sweating at the thought
Am I the only one who shudders at the thought ??
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Shuddering here too.. I'm too greedy and I don't like sharing haha
But seriously I want a lady to want me.. Not a roomful of cock  |
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Taking the meaning of orgy as....."In modern usage, an orgy is a sex party where guests freely engage in open and unrestrained sexual activity or group sex." (wiki)..... I'd say that's most swinging clubs.
Personally, I'd also include a variety of types of swinging parties under the definition of an orgy.... including parties where everyone knows each other.
A room full of people, relax, chilled enjoying their partner whilst others enjoy theirs... 2's,3's and 4's sharing pleasure and seeing others pleasure and enjoyment around you......... FUCKING LOVE IT! |
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As Polo pointed out, it depends on your definition. I accidentally ended up at one after a munch with 9 blokes and 7 women i think. I can't remember any unwanted contact bar the odd knee maybe touching someone's arm when you moved a bit. Maybe it was because we all knew each other and various people were just interested in various other people and not a free for all but it was all very polite. |
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when in Rome or any other place for that matter do as the romans did lots of wine and finger food a few gladiators for the ooomph factor 20 to 30 guests and bobs your uncle and fannys your aunt .....though it may be hard to tell whos who if theres too many there ....... |
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"when in Rome or any other place for that matter do as the romans did lots of wine and finger food a few gladiators for the ooomph factor 20 to 30 guests and bobs your uncle and fannys your aunt .....though it may be hard to tell whos who if theres too many there ......."
I'm fairly sure the roman orgies were the privileged class fucking slaves for their own pleasure. So probably not that fun for everyone |
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"group sex I prefer, Ive never been in an orgy
to me an orgy is bisexual
while being in large groups, the rules are still pretty clear...u have to ask for consent, I wouldnt go touching someone just cos they were having sex closeby
and I suppose an orgy would have that all worked out beforehand"
You'll have to explain,why you consider an orgy to be bisexual.
We had sexual encounters involving,3 females,and 5 guys,another involved 2 females,and 4 guys,and I have yet to have a guy's knob,up my bum.
Maybe they just didn't fancy me,but let's face it,that's a long shot. |
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