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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Thats a no from me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think an equally intriguing question must surely be,,,,, Do you think your ex would take you back?  "
purely hypothetical question soxy! The only ex I would consider a reconciliation with lives in Australia, I think that's possibly why we still get on, different hemispheres!! |
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"Would you ever consider a reconciliation with an ex, or has anyone done it successfully?
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My ex and I are good friends, I'm currently making alterations to some of his trousers as he's lost weight following his mum's death.
We go shopping together, phone each other and genuinely get on, I love him as the father of the four beautiful kids he gave me. He is the only man I trust and I know he loves me. As recently as Tuesday one of his sisters asked if we'd ever get back together. Next month would have been our 32 wedding anniversary.
I've not slept with him this century: it would be akin to sleeping with my stepson: yuk!
So a definite hell...no from me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ex is an ex for a reason...so that should be taken into account,however my sister got back with her ex after 3 years appart and have now been married for 8 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mum married when she was 17, was together a year before splitting. She then met my dad. They were together seventeen years before growing apart. When I was 22 she told me she'd got in touch with her first husband, they met up and haven't looked back since, together nearly 8 years now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would honestly climb over hot coals to impale my cheating ex on a 6 inch stiletto sideways!
But my Aussie ex I would do anything for, he knows while the air is in my lungs he can ring me, stay here if he was ever back over or have a big ass drinking session!
Isn't it funny!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He left my house 15th November 2005.
I have no idea of the date we actually got married and cant even remember the date of the divorce but it was early-ish 2006.
Oh in answer though No.
I've found it's actually difficult to get back on track with just some nasty arguments so breaking up then getting back together  I'd be worried about resentment from before and from the argument process  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My mum and dad were married from 1958 to 1974
They divorced in 1974 until 1985
They re-married in 1985 and are still together today
So, whilst it isn't for everyone, it can work  |
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mine put me thru hell last year as it was on/of all the time with the bitch he left me for .he even divorced me to win her .we kept in touch saw him every day as he came to his house he even moved back in when after moving in wi her she threw him out.
after i dumped a guy i was seeing would have had my hubby back but not now what he has done to me in the past 12 mths has killed all that never mind what he did b4 that .he is a scumbag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and no! Depending on how the initial split happened! Luke and myself were exs many years ago, and we are very happy together now!! So it's a yes from us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No for me; no to ex wife who I split from more than 4 1/2 years ago. We have 3 children together and get on really well, to the extent that we still occasionally meet up when neither of us are in a relationship but I would not go back into a relationship with her as the reasons I left are still there ... no to last long term gf as it took a rough 18 months for us both to accept the fact that love just wasn't enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm good friends with a few exes but as for trying again in a relationship....like feck not a chance in hell  "
Same here, some have become solid rocks in my life. Never one to hold a grudge or become bitter about a break up.. But wouldn't wanna go back there either. Live n let live I say! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No to my first marriage even though we are really good friends !!
No No No to my second marriage he was a control freak and nothing was ever good enough for him, I suppose that's why he kept in the family in the end by running off with his step-sister !!!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"NO NO AND NO my motto never go back only forward ,there's a reason why they are an ex. Good God hell NO
was that a no then lol.
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I'm not convinced it was!!  |
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Odd you should post this as I booty called an ex of mine yesterday. Lol. Thought he might like to 'pop round for a DVD and a few beers' over the weekend. He's not read the message yet. Hahahha!!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny though cos I had an ex who wanted to try again maybe it's fear of being lonely or just rejected but it's not good if it doesn't work out first time to me second times not gonna plus more fun single anyhow |
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This is a tough one. I went back to my ex and it lasted another 4 years.
At least I now know I gave it 100% and there was nothing more than I could have done or given in the relationship
So I walked away head held high and not thinking 'what if'... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like ti think of my exes...... as ex........ As in EXCOMMUNICATED!!!!!  "
Expunged exterminated exorcised extricated exited! Doors bolted windows barred nor known at these address thank u  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I dont think so as there was a reason or several reasons that caused the split in the first place.
Would I be friends? Possibly and depending on the person, the length and intensity of our relationship and a few other factors.
I get on very well with the father of my children - he is a decent bloke.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NOoOoooooooooo never in a million years 
LOL great minds think alike...hahaha your post was not there when I posted"
We must have pressed send @ the same time |
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