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What would you do if you saw a member of Fab in your local supermarket
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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but you had never spoken to them on here?
Would you
a) Go up to them in the shop and introduce yourself
b) Walk by them but whisper "I've seen your vagina/penis" in their ear then carry on walking
c) Message them when you get home commenting on their shopping list eg; "2 for £3 on Felix fish selection catfood, excellent bargain hunting if I do say so myself"
d) All of the above
e) Other
f) Nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see a guy from here all the time...he has messaged me loads apparently he cant accom cause he shares his house....funny thing is i see him with his wife all the time and he has a kid at school with my lil un....he has stopped mailing since i put a clearer pic on ha ha he must realise he kinda knows me,now bet he feels daft for not being honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lmao this happend to me yesterday... id have said hello but then bottled it because i had zero make up on haha.
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oh to add we have been chatting for a while its just been a pain time wise to meet up. im kicking myself for not wearing make up though cos he's yummy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oddly..there is a couple at my gym who I ***think*** are on here.
You know when people look in a certain way.
I've never seen them before in my fucking life..but they seem to know me.
And they have that aurabof swingers about them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lmao this happend to me yesterday... id have said hello but then bottled it because i had zero make up on haha.
oh to add we have been chatting for a while its just been a pain time wise to meet up. im kicking myself for not wearing make up though cos he's yummy "
I'm sure he still would have found you beautiful x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lmao this happend to me yesterday... id have said hello but then bottled it because i had zero make up on haha.
oh to add we have been chatting for a while its just been a pain time wise to meet up. im kicking myself for not wearing make up though cos he's yummy "
You have been chatting for a while. We may start out on a meet with full makeup on (I hate being seen without it too), but do we end a meet with full makeup? I know I havent, so they get to see us as we are really. If he is genuine and Im sure he his, he will accept you in makeup or without makeup  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't recognise them unless we had met, so no problem, but would go for f, if I did. Most don't want to meet those they share a supermarket with anyway |
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I have had people message me to say they have seen me in our local big supermarket and once in town - no one has ever approached me, but I am normally with my children
I have never recognised anyone lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saw the F half a couple locally yesterday but wouldn't ever noise someone up in public. F for me
That said, if someone mentioned to me that they recognised me, i may be tempted to suggest an immediate impromptu social/fun meet   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm... depends if we fancied them I guess.
I think either way I'd probably mumble about something being fab on the way past, just to see their reaction.
Possibly whilst holding sausages and custard... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On Wednesday I was in a meeting with someone that id spoken to on here previously. We'd actually planned to meet but when we spoke on the phone realised we recognised each others voices and worked for partner organisations. Neither of us knew that the other would be in the meeting but we both did a double take having realised who the other was pretty much straight away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give them a little smile if they go wide eyed both take pleasure in the fact you know each others secret and carry on, we've been recognised and received messages about it.
But then again we have face pictures public so serves us right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id follow them and add random items to their shopping while their back was turned.....like massive boxes of condoms and lube
If they were hot id whip my knickers off and drop them in the trolley too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lmao this happend to me yesterday... id have said hello but then bottled it because i had zero make up on haha.
oh to add we have been chatting for a while its just been a pain time wise to meet up. im kicking myself for not wearing make up though cos he's yummy You have been chatting for a while. We may start out on a meet with full makeup on (I hate being seen without it too), but do we end a meet with full makeup? I know I havent, so they get to see us as we are really. If he is genuine and Im sure he his, he will accept you in makeup or without makeup "
soon as i was out of the supermarket i sent him a text to say id seen him.. he was genuinely gutted but honestly i seriously looked like shit and believe in first impressions
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id follow them and add random items to their shopping while their back was turned.....like massive boxes of condoms and lube
If they were hot id whip my knickers off and drop them in the trolley too "
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The trouble with recognising someone in a public place is that even if they appear to be alone you never know who they may have with them - children, spouse, family, friends or even colleagues or boss. So saying hello or anything else is, I think, best left till you get online again.
If you've actually met or recognize each other from a club then a discreet nod and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have actually seen about 4 Fab members whilst out and about in the last 6 weeks or so, I have a ridiculous memory and never forget a face once I've seen it. I haven't done anything though because a) I'm shy and b) they're beastly
Portsmouth is a hive of swinging activity it seems |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I live in a small town and know most of the locals who are on Fab and have done for years so it's always a "hiya" from me in the supermarket and occasionally a pinched bum in the theatre from/to my married stalker if either of us can manage it without his wife noticing (and that's as far as it goes other than a bit of mucky talk in the queue for the bar at half time)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d casually follow them through the check-outs while provocatively licking a frozen sausage and doing this with my eyelashes
Yeah but Sox it's EVERY weekend and I'm sick of it."
You say that, but it's strange how your always hanging around the loose vegetable section clutching a large cucumber with that menacing gaze in your eye every time someone bends over to fill a bag of carrots….  |
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"Id follow them and add random items to their shopping while their back was turned.....like massive boxes of condoms and lube
If they were hot id whip my knickers off and drop them in the trolley too "
Haha, best response yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This happened to me a couple of weeks ago. I was in asda when a really good looking guy smiled at me and turned my head I though mmmmmm he's gorgeous and what a lovely smile.....I was convinced I knew him but didn't know where from.....I saw him again whilst driving home, he was in the car next to me.....when I got home I logged onto fab, he had messaged me to tell me it was him s f that he thought I was beautiful....awwwww xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i would just smile would never approach someone from here. i have seen a few people around but after a guy mailed me to say he had seen me and my daughter on a bus i am a bit cautious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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E, it would depend on if there were kids or others present of course, but a small smile, and a quiet 'hi, I think we have something in common' has worked before now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i would just smile would never approach someone from here. i have seen a few people around but after a guy mailed me to say he had seen me and my daughter on a bus i am a bit cautious."
Sounds like a stalker to me! |
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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago
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Has happened to me on several occasions and i always say hello have a wee blether and have even nipped into the wee cafe for a coffee with a couple , so always nice to be nice , however if i see a fab person with someone i dont know to be on fab i just give a smile and a nod in the passing and dont say anything after all discretion , discretion , discretion |
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"I’d casually follow them through the check-outs while provocatively licking a frozen sausage and doing this with my eyelashes
Yeah but Sox it's EVERY weekend and I'm sick of it.
You say that, but it's strange how your always hanging around the loose vegetable section clutching a large cucumber with that menacing gaze in your eye every time someone bends over to fill a bag of carrots…. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I had spoken to them on here before, I'd be polite and say hi. I'm quite capable of holding a conversation that is not about sex.
If it was one of the legions who have ignored me I wouldnt give them a second thought and if the had been rude, well that could lead to all sorts of merriment as I suddenly develop a sever case of Tourette's in the fresh fruit aisle ..... "Squeal... SWINGERS, fuck, smallcock, whore, SWIIIIIIIIIIINGERS.."
Of course I wouldn't .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd grab the largest Butternut Squash or Marrow I could find , smile at them and say in a loud voice to no one in particular "This is Fab, just what I was looking for"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but you had never spoken to them on here?
Would you
a) Go up to them in the shop and introduce yourself
b) Walk by them but whisper "I've seen your vagina/penis" in their ear then carry on walking
c) Message them when you get home commenting on their shopping list eg; "2 for £3 on Felix fish selection catfood, excellent bargain hunting if I do say so myself"
d) All of the above
e) Other
f) Nothing"
I wouldn't do anything
I had it done to me, I was in the gym and a guy got on the tread mill next to me and started telling me how he's messaged me on here etc, it actually quite annoyed me as when im out doing everyday things I don't want stranger coming upto me talking about swinging and trying to get a meet
Everyday life is just that and I wouldn't dream of going upto someone and talking about this when they are just out and about
some people just eat, breath, sleep and shit swinging some don't |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
Wellington |
I have been known to follow hot looking guys around tesco whilst doing my shopping lol! So I think if it was someone I had already chatted to I would be tempted to whisper something naughty as I pass lol! |
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"The trouble with recognising someone in a public place is that even if they appear to be alone you never know who they may have with them - children, spouse, family, friends or even colleagues or boss. So saying hello or anything else is, I think, best left till you get online again.
If you've actually met or recognize each other from a club then a discreet nod and move on."
I've bumped into one of my subs in my local Sainsbury's. The previous day I'd straddled his face on my dining room table, we barely acknowledged each other and continued our shop.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met a few singles and couples accidentally in the local Sainsbury and Waitrose stores, and its mostly been fun. Generally comments like "Its a Fab store, isn't it", or "I don't come as often as I'd like to" ... and lots of smiles. Often becomes a regular place to flirt after the first meeting, and have had several relationships from those accidental meets. Only one awkward experience (a couple, where the guy was keen ... but his wife wasn't), two accidental meetings with them ... not something I'll be repeating again ever .... now I avoid them like the plague, if I see them in time. Oddly, I still chat with the guy ... he's really keen, but there's a bad past swinging experience there thats soured his wife. C'est la vie. |
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"but you had never spoken to them on here?
Would you
a) Go up to them in the shop and introduce yourself
b) Walk by them but whisper "I've seen your vagina/penis" in their ear then carry on walking
c) Message them when you get home commenting on their shopping list eg; "2 for £3 on Felix fish selection catfood, excellent bargain hunting if I do say so myself"
d) All of the above
e) Other
f) Nothing"
F.
a - nope, just because I'd seen their photo doesn't mean they have seen mine.
b- that's just being a weirdo.
c - that sounds too much like what a stalker would do.
d - is a fucking stalker! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely F for me. If we'd only just left them after a meet an hour earlier I would look right through them as if I'd never set eyes on them before, and I'd expect them to do the same to me.
When I'm not swinging I'm leading my own life, and I would not be happy to be acknowledged outside of the swinging scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We saw a guy who was a faker in our morrisons with his wife and kids .
He caused us a lot of grief and it took a lot not to go over to him and tell his wife what he'd been up to but when he clocked me his face said it all.
I think he shit his pants ,he went very pale and looked like a rabbit in the headlights.
So I walked around doing my shopping smiling and singing .
Bet he couldn't get out there quick enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say owt. Respect their privacy and discretion.
Would probably send a message later if they were looking foxy.
Think I've only recognised one woman before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in my local Asda last night. After posting on here, I spent a lot of time looking at people in each aisle seeing if they looked familiar, am amazed I got everything on my list. |
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I quite often see guys do a double take when I'm out and about in this small city, and I wonder if they have seen me online. If I saw anyone I recognised though, I'd say nothing as discretion seems the better part of valour! |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
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If they made eye contact i'd just smile politely and carry on like i do with anyone. Just cause they're on here doesn't mean they're going to be interested in me or every swinger local to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a good thread. Personally, I really enjoy meeting other swingers in the stores. And I always do smile, and if they smile back, I always chat to them. I guess its because if we put sufficient identification on our Fab profiles for others to recognise us in public, then implicitly we're not shy or concerned about it. I love swinging, and I love meeting up with similarly independent-minded folk who feel the same. So, a real smile that gets a real smile back, for me is an ok for us to chat together. To be honest, a meet always results. So, girls ... burn the bra and go for it .... and guys, stop being so hung up about chatting with members you like the look of. Life's wonderful, so live it, and have fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but you had never spoken to them on here?
Would you
a) Go up to them in the shop and introduce yourself
b) Walk by them but whisper "I've seen your vagina/penis" in their ear then carry on walking
c) Message them when you get home commenting on their shopping list eg; "2 for £3 on Felix fish selection catfood, excellent bargain hunting if I do say so myself"
d) All of the above
e) Other
f) Nothing"
I saw a old fb once and he was with his WIFE, the wife he said he wasn't with anymore...
he looked shocked and didn't speak to me of course and he later said it wasn't him lol
I knew it was him but if I did see someone I would not speak to them. |
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"This is a good thread. Personally, I really enjoy meeting other swingers in the stores. And I always do smile, and if they smile back, I always chat to them. I guess its because if we put sufficient identification on our Fab profiles for others to recognise us in public, then implicitly we're not shy or concerned about it. I love swinging, and I love meeting up with similarly independent-minded folk who feel the same. So, a real smile that gets a real smile back, for me is an ok for us to chat together. To be honest, a meet always results. So, girls ... burn the bra and go for it .... and guys, stop being so hung up about chatting with members you like the look of. Life's wonderful, so live it, and have fun. "
I never realised smiling at people in public was the official sign for "Talk to me about being on Fabs" 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a good thread. Personally, I really enjoy meeting other swingers in the stores. And I always do smile, and if they smile back, I always chat to them. I guess its because if we put sufficient identification on our Fab profiles for others to recognise us in public, then implicitly we're not shy or concerned about it. I love swinging, and I love meeting up with similarly independent-minded folk who feel the same. So, a real smile that gets a real smile back, for me is an ok for us to chat together. To be honest, a meet always results. So, girls ... burn the bra and go for it .... and guys, stop being so hung up about chatting with members you like the look of. Life's wonderful, so live it, and have fun. "
This would be good if I was alone but if I was with my family or oh and some guy smiled at me there may be questions specially from my daughter. Be fine if I was alone, as for burning bra, boobs would go south |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It isn't, but hey, its a good icebreaker. And as the saying goes ... "you're never fully dressed without a smile". Seriously though, I've always smiled at attractive women,who do invariably smile back at me. And its even greater fun when they're fellow swingers too
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I never realised smiling at people in public was the official sign for "Talk to me about being on Fabs"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lmao this happend to me yesterday... id have said hello but then bottled it because i had zero make up on haha.
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of course you had no make up on cute,you used it all winning minxies sci fi avatar comp |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
Nr Chester |
Smile and perhaps flirt tactfully and if signal suggests positive, message through here.
I, (male) spotted a female of a couple where the kids go to her kids school. I wouldn't do anything untoward here but of course I showed Mrs FJ on the site then pointed her out. They have winked at us and messaged but they're not what we look for. Have they recognised us? Who knows but our pics aren't as blatant |
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