You can go as a single female and you will always be welcome - I do frequently!
Single guys often want a female to accompany them because:
a) couples entrance fee is often the same or less than single men pay.
b) as a couple they can go to couples night - single females are welcome every night, single men only on certain
nights.
c) they think they will either get action from their companion or that their companion will help to make them a more attractive prospect then if they were by themselves.
By all means go with a friend but choose that friend carefully. If you are interested in playing with a variety of single men then you may prefer to go with another female. If you like to play with couples then consider a single male but choose one you feel you can be honest with - don't ever feel that you have to play or that you have to do what he would like.
Also consider whether you want to go on couples only night or on open door night.
Remember you are getting lots of invites not from the goodness of their hearts but because you will be doing them a favour. Don't take advantage but don't get taken advantage of.
The basic rule in every club is that no means no. No question, no argument, no debate. Saying no isn't rude (as long as you do it politely) so if someone takes offence or sulks then that is not your fault.
Consider which club to be your first carefully too. Some are a gentler introduction than others. I suggest you choose one with a generous sized social area, well defined play areas and staff who keep an eye on things and can lend a hand if you need it.
Clubs can be great fun so enjoy.
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"You can go as a single female and you will always be welcome - I do frequently!
Single guys often want a female to accompany them because:
a) couples entrance fee is often the same or less than single men pay.
b) as a couple they can go to couples night - single females are welcome every night, single men only on certain
nights.
c) they think they will either get action from their companion or that their companion will help to make them a more attractive prospect then if they were by themselves.
By all means go with a friend but choose that friend carefully. If you are interested in playing with a variety of single men then you may prefer to go with another female. If you like to play with couples then consider a single male but choose one you feel you can be honest with - don't ever feel that you have to play or that you have to do what he would like.
Also consider whether you want to go on couples only night or on open door night.
Remember you are getting lots of invites not from the goodness of their hearts but because you will be doing them a favour. Don't take advantage but don't get taken advantage of.
The basic rule in every club is that no means no. No question, no argument, no debate. Saying no isn't rude (as long as you do it politely) so if someone takes offence or sulks then that is not your fault.
Consider which club to be your first carefully too. Some are a gentler introduction than others. I suggest you choose one with a generous sized social area, well defined play areas and staff who keep an eye on things and can lend a hand if you need it.
Clubs can be great fun so enjoy.
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Couldn't have put it better myself. People are generally very friendly. You could arrange to meet a couple there, even just socially, so you k ow at least some people when you get there.
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The only rule is you have to go with me!!
Seriously though TBL (above) summed it up very well.
I’d say stay on the forums for a while and you’ll make some good mates. Pick a lady who knows the club you like the look of most and see if they’ll accompany you to a social being held there.
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