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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am wondering how many like me are not actually looking or wanting a significant other To share their lives... But others are always trying to convince me that I'm wrong.. and that I can't be happy...

Do others find people can't seem to grasp that life without a love of your life is quite possible.

I have amazing friends, sexy play mate.. and my kids... And I won't have a partner as long as I have kids at home. As I don't think it's fair.

So are you single and happy too.

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Being single sucks big balls

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am wondering how many like me are not actually looking or wanting a significant other To share their lives... But others are always trying to convince me that I'm wrong.. and that I can't be happy...

Do others find people can't seem to grasp that life without a love of your life is quite possible.

Mirror image. There are many people just like us and yes I get exactly the same from friends..."oh you will find someone" etc etc....I just smile and just let it pass by me

I have amazing friends, sexy play mate.. and my kids... And I won't have a partner as long as I have kids at home. As I don't think it's fair.

So are you single and happy too. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am Single and happy too. The love of my life was taken from me unexpectedly so for now I am happy just me and my children, the cat, the dog and my work. I'm not ruling it out in the future but for now I am content.

IT DOEANT MEAN I HAVE GIVEN UP ON WOMEN!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do others find people can't seem to grasp that life without a love of your life is quite possible.

I have amazing friends, sexy play mate.. and my kids... And I won't have a partner as long as I have kids at home. As I don't think it's fair.

So are you single and happy too. "

I'm 24 and have - through my own personal choice and not through a lack of options or offers I feel compelled to add! - never been in a serious relationship, nor do I have any real desire or compunction to get into one any time soon.

I've always had an amazing circle of close friends, some of whom are fuck buddies that I've met through the scene and play with regularly. That's more than enough for me and always has been.

If people are happy in the dynamic, good for them, but our society's obsession with almost forcing people into monogamous pairs as the proper and 'normal' way to live is something I've never quite understood.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've not given up but I've been in love. Still am.. and realised that I can't have that again.. however it doesn't mean I lack anything.

Even my kids keep trying to pair me off of late. But I have let them know now that I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do others find people can't seem to grasp that life without a love of your life is quite possible.

Mirror image. There are many people just like us and yes I get exactly the same from friends..."oh you will find someone" etc etc....I just smile and just let it pass by me

I have amazing friends, sexy play mate.. and my kids... And I won't have a partner as long as I have kids at home. As I don't think it's fair.

So are you single and happy too. "

I am a lot happier than what I was. I was put into the situation of being single but right now I really do believe that it was the best thing for me personally because I enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think it is mostly because being paired up is the norm.. but I spent most of my previous adult life paired up miserably with people I didn't love but went through the motions with.

So I am much happier now... If only others would leave me to it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like being single but do miss the romantic side of being in a relationship and just to do spontaneous things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it is mostly because being paired up is the norm.. but I spent most of my previous adult life paired up miserably with people I didn't love but went through the motions with.

So I am much happier now... If only others would leave me to it. Lol "

Maybe it is also just a little bit of jelousy on their part. I have friends like that who always seem to think they should pity me but seem to be stuck in the humdrum of life. I just think to myself that they must be craving some freedom too. It's great....enjoy it!!!

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Been married 21 years then wife left suddenly and now single again, trying to adabt to being single again, it isn't easy but trying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like being single but do miss the romantic side of being in a relationship and just to do spontaneous things "

see I never had romance anyway, so nothing for me to miss. Lol guess I miss sex on tap.. but I can work around that.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

I'm 52 and have been single for twenty six years. After my divorce, it just never happened. I have a happy life and great family and if, one day, it happens then that will make me happy too.

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By *empting Devil.Woman over a year ago

Sheffield

"Being single sucks big balls

I find it ironic (considering the perceived image of footloose men and women who want to tie them down) that it appears to be men who would like to be in relationships and women who are happy single.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like being single but do miss the romantic side of being in a relationship and just to do spontaneous things

see I never had romance anyway, so nothing for me to miss. Lol guess I miss sex on tap.. but I can work around that. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being single sucks big balls

I find it ironic (considering the perceived image of footloose men and women who want to tie them down) that it appears to be men who would like to be in relationships and women who are happy single."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get sick of my family and friends telling me i need a man and that i cant be happy on my own.

They don't know about my swinging so assume i don't have dates n sex and such.

I love my life the way it is i get to have fun when ive time to,i don't have to answer to anyone.

Ive a family and a good job...my kids want for nothing and don't see me having a string of dates or men.

Im the same as you i don't ever see me bringing a man into my home life im happy the way i am.

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Being single sucks big balls

Maybe im a bit cynical, but do they want a relationship or a swinging partner!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get sick of my family and friends telling me i need a man and that i cant be happy on my own.

They don't know about my swinging so assume i don't have dates n sex and such.

I love my life the way it is i get to have fun when ive time to,i don't have to answer to anyone.

Ive a family and a good job...my kids want for nothing and don't see me having a string of dates or men.

Im the same as you i don't ever see me bringing a man into my home life im happy the way i am."

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I like being single but do miss the romantic side of being in a relationship and just to do spontaneous things "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i know lots of people who are single, there are good things about being single as there are good things about being with someone.

some people might be jealous because they secretly wish they were single too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do others find people can't seem to grasp that life without a love of your life is quite possible.

I have amazing friends, sexy play mate.. and my kids... And I won't have a partner as long as I have kids at home. As I don't think it's fair.

So are you single and happy too. "

'm similar (honest). Very much about the kids for me. I think actually living with another would be very difficult and if she even implied I should put her before my children it'd be: "there's the door my dear". Maybe this'll change and, as with everything else: never say never.

I have also had a couple of meets with a nice girl on here who says it causes big problems when her bloke's children come to stay with them coz they don't get on with her children. No way do I want hat kind of set up!

I spend very few nights in a house with just me coz 've either got my children with me or am sleeping at another one of my babe's flat. Here's to not be attached to another adult except for pure pleasure. x

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By *pecifically1Woman over a year ago

Hull

I am the happiest I have ever been now that I am single. In fact when I look back at the times when I was properly happy, I was on my own.

I love not having to be responsible for anyone else. I don't have kids, I have me..I guess I am happy because I don't need anyone to give me what I need. I actually like me, and my own company. I am financially secure

I point blank refuse to compromise on the big things in life again. Yes I appreciate that is selfish but at least I am being selfish and single, not selfish and in a relationship.

I am wholly better on my own.

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By *riskygazMan over a year ago

birmingham

Been single for a good few years now, but over time that has become the norm for me and I don't feel I am really loosing out on anything not being in a relationship, a lot of relationships are not happy ones, they just stick together because it's easier then splitting up and starting over again, ill stick with the single life and a friend / FB

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

Basically then, going by the consensus of opinion in this thread ... Being single lends to a happier life. I therefore suggest that all those married who are reading this, get divorced at their soonest convenience! This may be the excuse I was looking for, readers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The irony of this is if I was looking for a relationship it would be a Poly one lol

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Do others find people can't seem to grasp that life without a love of your life is quite possible.

I have amazing friends, sexy play mate.. and my kids... And I won't have a partner as long as I have kids at home. As I don't think it's fair.

So are you single and happy too. "

Yes...and no.

At the moment life is good. I'm enjoying my single status and all that entails. However, would I like to spend my twilight years alone? No, I wouldn't!

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"The irony of this is if I was looking for a relationship it would be a Poly one lol

Try Codnor Pets.

They've got s sale on with Parrots currently

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By *ssexguy69Man over a year ago

thurrock Essex

i like the fact the last couple of years iv been single is i can do what i want when i want and who i want ,and not have to answer to anyone

but if im honest i do miss the things ud do as part of couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Much much happier now I'm single after 16 yrs , although we live under same roof to bring kids up ..

Would not want to share my home again , but have great fun with my FB's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i so often see single friends moan on about needing a partner and being single sucks.. they then find someone and they just seem to have more problems and stress!

i think in a way society makes us believe we have to be in a relationship and people then just rush in and marry.. then you find so many on here cos they arent happy

especially my friends teenagers thinking life is all about being with someone..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Can I be honest and open at this point in my life I hate being single.....

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm content in my life as a single person. I see friends who survive better with a partner. Lots of people do. I can understand that. I think my life is enriched by having someone beside me to share secrets and sex and all the things that go with being in a relationship but its not essential to make me who I am.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im single and very happy. I'm not actually wanting a relationship, as my life is too manic enough without dramas n baggage. I love the concept of "no strings sex" or "friends with benefits" it suits my lifestyle just fine right now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am happy in my own skin. I have beautiful intelligent children, friends that I love and that make me laugh and are there for me.

I'm still young yet and once my babies are grown up some more, than maybe I will be open to something additional.

My life is not perfect, however, you know what; I do what I can, with what I have. I am what I am & When I go to bed at night, I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am single, living on my own and LOVING it. I have it all, great friends in my life, sex as and when I want it. The future is great like this. I was more lonely in a long term marriage then subsequent relationships than living on my own. As Mae West said, its not about a man in my life but life in my men that am going for right now.

xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can I be honest and open at this point in my life I hate being single....."

I'm with you on this one been single 4 half years now and although i don't hate it and won't settle for just anyone although I think i have found someone i would spend the rest of my life with just circumstances and distance hold us back at the minute, Nights can be very lonely as can the days when i'm not at work, going home to nothing can be very lonely

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Being single sucks big balls

I find it ironic (considering the perceived image of footloose men and women who want to tie them down) that it appears to be men who would like to be in relationships and women who are happy single.

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Women find it easyier to be single cause they make friends quickly and at a drop of a hat to have sex when they feel like it but men have to work really hard for women to trust them and convince them to do anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being single sucks big balls

I find it ironic (considering the perceived image of footloose men and women who want to tie them down) that it appears to be men who would like to be in relationships and women who are happy single.

Women find it easyier to be single cause they make friends quickly and at a drop of a hat to have sex when they feel like it but men have to work really hard for women to trust them and convince them to do anything."

you make it sound as if sex is such an important thing to a relationship..

i havent met anyoen for a year now and still just as happy single..

being sinlge i certainyl have never been able to have sex whenever i feel like it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very happy and very single and very glad I'm single. Right now is the best I've been in five years ,my life's finally making sense and the doors been well and truly closed on past relationships.

As one door closes another surely does open and my doors as opened wider and brighter than before. Personally right now I'm happy with how I am and plan to stay this way for a long time to come.

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By *attykitWoman over a year ago

leeds

I enjoy the companionship of my fuck buddies (plural). They are lovely men who make me feel special and sexy and we have agreat time but they also leave and give me my own space iindependence and life. I don't want a full on relationship I certainly don't want anyone living with me. But a couple of evenings a week of unadulterated fun with a guy who makes me laugh and feel good works for me.

I have no further expectations of them nor they of me. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Being single sucks big balls

I find it ironic (considering the perceived image of footloose men and women who want to tie them down) that it appears to be men who would like to be in relationships and women who are happy single.

you make it sound as if sex is such an important thing to a relationship..

i havent met anyoen for a year now and still just as happy single..

being sinlge i certainyl have never been able to have sex whenever i feel like it

it's not the most important but I in a relationship expected it and pursued it daily at minimum.

I enjoy spending time with my friends and partners in sexual deviation on here. I go out but haven't spent the night with anyone in a long time. Am enjoying cuddles and kisses too now..

so guess I don't feel a relationship would give me anything that would be a plus.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I enjoy the companionship of my fuck buddies (plural). They are lovely men who make me feel special and sexy and we have agreat time but they also leave and give me my own space iindependence and life. I don't want a full on relationship I certainly don't want anyone living with me. But a couple of evenings a week of unadulterated fun with a guy who makes me laugh and feel good works for me.

I have no further expectations of them nor they of me. Xx"

Like your emphasis on the 'plural'

I'm pretty sure this is the perfect solution but I think I'm too lazy to do the interviews!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to say that anyone who lived alone and said they were 'truly happy' wasn't telling the whole truth.

However atm I work with adults with mental health issues in their home so they're sort of a family whilst I'm at work. When I'm not working my children are with me much of the time and most of the times when I'm on afternoon shift, (10 o' clock finish) I have a quick shower before going back out to spend the night at my 'friend's' flat. So really no need for a 'partner'.

I do admit though that when I worked 9-5 coming home to a cold, dark, empty house in the winter wasn't very nice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do others find people can't seem to grasp that life without a love of your life is quite possible.

I have amazing friends, sexy play mate.. and my kids... And I won't have a partner as long as I have kids at home. As I don't think it's fair.

So are you single and happy too. "

Totally agree with you, ive been single 5 years this August and people are always asking me if im with anyone yet and seem really surprised when I say no, almost like its a must that when you split up your supposed to be looking for someone else

I also agree with the child thing, I have a 12 year old and there's no way I would introduce a man into her life, I don't feel my children (I also have a 18 and 20 year old still at home) should share their home and life with someone just because I want to be with them

Some people have a need to be with someone other don't, I know a few people who as soon as a relationship splits they are on the look out, I have no interest at all in sharing my life with anyone

Like you Cali I have friends, family, play mates and my children and im quite happy with who I have already in my life and the ability to come and go as I please there's no way I could go back to being in a relationship and sharing my life with another people, I honestly don't think i'll ever be with anyone ever again, maybe when all my kids have grown up and left home I may feel different but I cant see it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I guess for me is i want children and you need sperm for that.....I want my children to have a dad in their life....i am not desperately seeking just have my eye open....

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Being single sucks big balls

I find it ironic (considering the perceived image of footloose men and women who want to tie them down) that it appears to be men who would like to be in relationships and women who are happy single.

you make it sound as if sex is such an important thing to a relationship..

i havent met anyoen for a year now and still just as happy single..

being sinlge i certainyl have never been able to have sex whenever i feel like it

"
I didn't just mean sex, anything in general, women think most most men just want sex but we need friendship too with other females and compassion, we men just find it harder to express ourselves and our true emotions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been single for 6 years and am happy and contented on my own. I like to share my time with people but would not like to share my life with anyone, I love my independence.

Relatives do try to pair me off and seem to think I haven't moved on because I am still single. Its difficult trying to convince them that I am doing just great on my own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think sex is very important in a relationship.

It might just be me but a sexless relationship to me isn't a relationship, more companionship, and I wouldn't be able to live like that.

In a proper relationship I'd be wanting sex 3-4 time a week

and swinging with others at least once each month

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am the happiest I have ever been now that I am single. In fact when I look back at the times when I was properly happy, I was on my own.

I point blank refuse to compromise on the big things in life again. Yes I appreciate that is selfish but at least I am being selfish and single, not selfish and in a relationship.

I am wholly better on my own."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

See thing is for much of my early life I was pushed by various people and influences that I needed someone. That my children needed a stable family.

It took me till quite recently to realise that I can give them stability without having a man in my house. To be honest the ex husband has done such a number on my older kids that I won't risk their happiness again.

my children know I have male friends, they just don't meet them.. same as they rarely meet any of my female friends.

I'm extra protective of my kids since they got hurt by my ex leaving as he did. 10years and he has nothing to do with all the older ones. So no matter how I feel .. no one will get close in that way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love being single mmmmm

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

My friends and family have given up asking me if I've met anyone, I think they think I'm some sort if weirdo with strange sex desires.

Oh, wait...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"See thing is for much of my early life I was pushed by various people and influences that I needed someone. That my children needed a stable family.

my children know I have male friends, they just don't meet them.. same as they rarely meet any of my female friends.

I'm extra protective of my kids since they got hurt by my ex leaving as he did. 10years and he has nothing to do with all the older ones. So no matter how I feel .. no one will get close in that way.

It sounds to me like you have just realised what a fantastic job you have done in bringing up your children even when times have been difficult. All I would add would be never say never. If your happy with the way your life is now then great enjoy it. But you never know because sometime in the future you may well just meet the right one or not as the case may be.

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I never say never but if suddenly the man of my dreams appeared he would still not move in. It would be nsa or nothing..

my heart is taken. I doubt I will ever stop loving him. As even after all the nasty things he did,I still love him. I had never been In love till then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single, content and happy here with no intention to let go my independence that I value highly.

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I am the happiest I have ever been now that I am single. In fact when I look back at the times when I was properly happy, I was on my own.

I point blank refuse to compromise on the big things in life again. Yes I appreciate that is selfish but at least I am being selfish and single, not selfish and in a relationship.

I am wholly better on my own."

That's probably word for word what I would have typed if I could have put it so eloquently

I will add that I occasionally slightly miss a cuddle on the sofa, but when that happens I remind myself that cuddles on the sofa could lead to the loo seat being left up, a needy bloke wanting me to stifle myself, whinging when i book a solo holiday and me feeling trapped - I grab the cat for a cuddle and the desire evaporates PDQ!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bit of a naughty post but I have finest quality baby gravy and to blow my own trumpet a bit ain't a bad dad.

A would love to go on to say: just in case anyone would like any sperm. Truth is I can't afford it though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought however you had a partner; a Dom or am I thinking if the wrong person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I thought however you had a partner; a Dom or am I thinking if the wrong person?"

I have a dominant but we are not in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being single is a sack of shit. It's all well and good getting laid every now and then, but you just feel empty inside afterwards.

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Being single is a sack of shit. It's all well and good getting laid every now and then, but you just feel empty inside afterwards."
I agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most definitely single and happy here.

I'm a part time single dad, so have time to devote to my kids where they get 100% of my attention, plus a time to devote to me where I can do what I want, when I want.

I totally comfortable in my own company, but am lucky enough to have good friends to socialise, various hobbies, with and a friend with benefits with whom I can just hang out with ..... or laze around in bed when we're both free and so inclined...

As I see it, I currently have the best of all worlds and so I've no desire for a new 'relationship' in the traditional sense as I don't believe it could enhance my life beyond what I have already..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Being single is a sack of shit. It's all well and good getting laid every now and then, but you just feel empty inside afterwards."

I stopped playing when it was leaving me feeling like that. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I'm single I have the greatest fun dating and getting to know new people, when I'm attached (as I am at present) My love, heart and passion are all shared with another, both are great for different reasons

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Been there. Done that. See no appeal in repeating it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being single is a sack of shit. It's all well and good getting laid every now and then, but you just feel empty inside afterwards."

I must admit tho I never feel empty inside after sex with people off here, the lack of sex is the only down side to being single, because of the long hours I work and the fact I cant accommodate I don't meet often at all, it would be nice to come home at 10pm after work and have a shag before sleep every night

instead of having to arrange meets on my days off which as I work on a 7 day rolling router isn't often, I only get about 3 days a month off, but I wouldn't give up my freedom for more sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being single is a sack of shit. It's all well and good getting laid every now and then, but you just feel empty inside afterwards.

instead of having to arrange meets on my days off which as I work on a 7 day rolling router isn't often, I only get about 3 days a month off, but I wouldn't give up my freedom for more sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like being single but do miss the romantic side of being in a relationship and just to do spontaneous things "

+ 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

wish i was happy and content but im not. my lifes great its just missing something or more importantly someone.

i'll find him one day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"wish i was happy and content but im not. my lifes great its just missing something or more importantly someone.

i'll find him one day "

What happened? xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"wish i was happy and content but im not. my lifes great its just missing something or more importantly someone.

i'll find him one day

What happened? xxxx"

what you mean what happened? its just trial and error when dating.. some people arent meant to be and are just different

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

I'm happily single. Been single for 8 years, the first 2 of those were very difficult and I craved a relationship, but slowly over time, I got used to it and now I can't ever see myself having another relationship and I certainly never want to marry.

I've had a guy in my life for 6 years, as a best friend and fuck buddy, but he's never stayed the night. I like my own space and company now and most of all, the bed to myself!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been single for 10 years and to be honest I get lonely, a partner would be lovely its what I want but finding one is a problem. I'm not getting any younger. Being on here is great I've made some friends and had some amazing experiences but its not what I really want xx

Rose xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't have a relationship because I don't have the time to date in the conventional way. I rarely get sitters and to date I think Id need more than 6 dates a year !!!!!

In an ideal world a man will come along with an up to date CRB check and have a full psychological evaluation too - that would make things easier for me.

If people are happy without love - good on them but under this harsh exterior is a romantic and I love LOVE

Its just going to be a long while until it finds me or I find it I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been single for 10 years and to be honest I get lonely, a partner would be lovely its what I want but finding one is a problem. I'm not getting any younger. Being on here is great I've made some friends and had some amazing experiences but its not what I really want xx

Rose xx"

Same here

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Very happy single, im at peace with my own company , there are wonderful moments that happen in my life where I do feel the urge to share x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like being single but do miss the romantic side of being in a relationship and just to do spontaneous things "

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this is actually the first time I've been truly single since I was 15 and its all good up to now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never say never but if suddenly the man of my dreams appeared he would still not move in. It would be nsa or nothing..

my heart is taken. I doubt I will ever stop loving him. As even after all the nasty things he did,I still love him. I had never been In love till then. "

can you truely say your happy single then? cos it seems if you cant be with the one you still love then you would rather be with noone..

so it doesnt seem you are single through choice and cant be experiencing a true single lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought however you had a partner; a Dom or am I thinking if the wrong person?

I have a dominant but we are not in a relationship."

Ah right

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Being single is a sack of shit. It's all well and good getting laid every now and then, but you just feel empty inside afterwards."

I think some of us feel that at some point: that's the time to hide your profile and do something else and not have meaningless sex with strangers.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have been unlucky in love but tend not to take that with me but look to the positives..If I went back to the past I'd still think men are women beating twats but I don't so I think I am ok..

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I've not given up but I've been in love. Still am.. and realised that I can't have that again.. however it doesn't mean I lack anything.

That's quite a telling statement.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Being single is a sack of shit. It's all well and good getting laid every now and then, but you just feel empty inside afterwards."

If that's how it makes you feel....... don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have been unlucky in love but tend not to take that with me but look to the positives..If I went back to the past I'd still think men are women beating twats but I don't so I think I am ok..

You and me have a lot in common

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i am a believer in the old saying "if something happens it will happen"... until then I am having a blast being single and will continue to do so...

I don't see how the desperation of some to be "coupled up" can be remotely sexy....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do others find people can't seem to grasp that life without a love of your life is quite possible.

I have amazing friends, sexy play mate.. and my kids... And I won't have a partner as long as I have kids at home. As I don't think it's fair.

So are you single and happy too. "

Yes, I'm happily single and is often said to me that I'll find the one soon enough. I'm not blummin looking.

I have some amazing friends and my kids too, spend my weekends and any time off work with my youngest, others are grown ups so do their own thing mostly.

I haven't had sex since breaking from my long term relationship nearly 3 year ago and I don't miss it either, I did for 12 month ish but stuck to my guns and did things differently this time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've not given up but I've been in love. Still am.. and realised that I can't have that again.. however it doesn't mean I lack anything.

That's quite a telling statement."

yes I believe I can love again but only be in love once. I'm happy at that. But I would never be content being second best. so why would I expect anyone else too.

I have been single romantically but not had anyone with me full time since 2009. I would hate to now. No one is coming into my children's lives.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i am a believer in the old saying "if something happens it will happen"... until then I am having a blast being single and will continue to do so...

I don't see how the desperation of some to be "coupled up" can be remotely sexy...."

I think seeing so much desperation to be "coupled up" around me has seriously put me off relationships.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I am single and plan to stay that way. I am very happy with my life now and realised I prefer to live it the way I want to, not the way someone thinks I should. Selfish? Maybe. Don't care.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"I can't have a relationship because I don't have the time to date in the conventional way. I rarely get sitters and to date I think Id need more than 6 dates a year !!!!!

In an ideal world a man will come along with an up to date CRB check and have a full psychological evaluation too - that would make things easier for me.

If people are happy without love - good on them but under this harsh exterior is a romantic and I love LOVE

Its just going to be a long while until it finds me or I find it I think

This is the same for me. X

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