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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone,.
I'd just like to know the proper definition of the term "vanilla", only I see the phrase used here n there & thought I knew, but it's popped up a few times in different context which has thrown my thoughts into doubt..
Anyone like to enlighten me.? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see vanilla in two ways, as I guess I indulge in two lifestyles. When it comes to swinging, my vanilla friends or people who have vanilla sex are people who have sex with their partner. In BDSM vanilla is having sex without kink.
I CAN have vanilla sex in BDSM terms (although it leaves me wanting more) but I couldn't do vanilla in swinging terms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you think of straight one on one sex as vanilla
Anything else (bj doggy,anal, 3some orgy, bdsm) or anything kinky as a little spicy or more than just vanilla. A little more flavour in other words
Er hope that makes sense |
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