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By *tomCom OP Man
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
Do you get regularly tested?
Do you think it should be seen as standard thing for swingers to do?
Do you think that there is enough information available on Swinging sites? Would you like to see a whole section on it, saying giving details on GUM clinics, opening hours etc? |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
We are tested every 28 days with written results as we need this by law of the Adult Industry, even when swinging only you should get tested at least every 3 months.
In 16 years neither of us have caught anything as its strictly condoms unless like us have valid 28 day certs.  |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
Bedworth |
We all need to be responsible for our own health, this means getting tested regularly.
When I started swinging and got tested for the first time I had no idea where the gu clinic was. Google!
The idea of having a list of clinics is a good one in principle. In practice I don't think it would work, there are just too many of them to put a section on the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every 3 months for me and always will be as long as im having sex.
I think some people assume because they use condoms they dont need checking...id rather be safe than sorry |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"It should be a standard thing for ever sexually active person....swinger or not...
I dont need information published on the site, im an adult and know all the information I need  "
What about for the non-adults though?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get tested every 8 weeks.
I don't need information now as I know where to go but I didn't once and finding the right place, convenient times ect took a while. What harm would it do to have a page with clinics and times? |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
"It should be a standard thing for ever sexually active person....swinger or not...
I dont need information published on the site, im an adult and know all the information I need "
You wouldn't believe how stupid some are when it comes to sexual health, a section on STD,s would be a great idea. |
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By *tomCom OP Man
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
"Every 3 months for me and always will be as long as im having sex.
I think some people assume because they use condoms they dont need checking...id rather be safe than sorry"
Condoms are brilliant, if you just do plain sex. But if you do oral unprotected, use fingers, toys etc these all increase the risk... if you use you fingers, hands to pleasure a woman and then touch yourself after with out washing your hands you can easily spread infections that way.
Too many people think that if they use condoms they are at very low risk of catching anything..
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By *tomCom OP Man
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
"There is'nt going to be a single person that will post on this thread and say they're not tested regularly"
That is true. How many swingers do not get tested? If you took 100 swingers and got them to ask honestly, want would the results be? |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
"There is'nt going to be a single person that will post on this thread and say they're not tested regularly"
This is why we ask for 28 day written certs, you need to have photo ID e.g. passport and they write the number down. When picking up the certs a week later photo ID as got to be produced again so they know its for the same person.
Its only with these documents we do bareback but even then like anything there is always a risk but it does reduce risk of STD drastically. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every 3 months for me and always will be as long as im having sex.
I think some people assume because they use condoms they dont need checking...id rather be safe than sorry
Condoms are brilliant, if you just do plain sex. But if you do oral unprotected, use fingers, toys etc these all increase the risk... if you use you fingers, hands to pleasure a woman and then touch yourself after with out washing your hands you can easily spread infections that way.
Too many people think that if they use condoms they are at very low risk of catching anything..
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Exactly and how many stop to wash their hands lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never mind just the 'usual' everyday swingers what about the guys and gals that just do one off pick ups (one night stands) thats worse I think as they are not as self aware as swingers  |
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By *tomCom OP Man
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
"Every 3 months for me and always will be as long as im having sex.
I think some people assume because they use condoms they dont need checking...id rather be safe than sorry
Condoms are brilliant, if you just do plain sex. But if you do oral unprotected, use fingers, toys etc these all increase the risk... if you use you fingers, hands to pleasure a woman and then touch yourself after with out washing your hands you can easily spread infections that way.
Too many people think that if they use condoms they are at very low risk of catching anything..
Exactly and how many stop to wash their hands lol "
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By *tomCom OP Man
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
"It should be a standard thing for ever sexually active person....swinger or not...
I dont need information published on the site, im an adult and know all the information I need
You wouldn't believe how stupid some are when it comes to sexual health, a section on STD,s would be a great idea."
I just think that as it should be a big part of swinging life, there should be a section on it. I mean they have section for clubs.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure if people look at this on TV Embarrassing Bodies thay have a checker .. for STDs.. Just Answer a few quick questions and you'll get a personalised STI Risk Report. You'll also get clear information about the Sexually Transmitted Infections you're at risk of catching, how to avoid them and what to do if you've already got one. Its a really god TV show and worth a look . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you get regularly tested?
Do you think it should be seen as standard thing for swingers to do?
Do you think that there is enough information available on Swinging sites? Would you like to see a whole section on it, saying giving details on GUM clinics, opening hours etc?"
Great idea |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Do you get regularly tested?
Do you think it should be seen as standard thing for swingers to do?
Do you think that there is enough information available on Swinging sites? Would you like to see a whole section on it, saying giving details on GUM clinics, opening hours etc?
Great idea "
Why when anyone can access these details on the www? If people need to be spoon fed something thats common sense, we are all doomed!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go every 12 weeks, for my own piece of mind.
No I don't think it should be on here. I think Admin/mods have enough to be doing without keeping tabs on clinic info, and changes of dates, contacts etc.
This site is for adults only, and the adults should take responsibility for their own actions and health  |
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By *tomCom OP Man
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
"I go every 12 weeks, for my own piece of mind.
No I don't think it should be on here. I think Admin/mods have enough to be doing without keeping tabs on clinic info, and changes of dates, contacts etc.
This site is for adults only, and the adults should take responsibility for their own actions and health "
Well there is a section for clubs ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go every 12 weeks, for my own piece of mind.
No I don't think it should be on here. I think Admin/mods have enough to be doing without keeping tabs on clinic info, and changes of dates, contacts etc.
This site is for adults only, and the adults should take responsibility for their own actions and health
Well there is a section for clubs ?"
Swinging clubs yes, thats very different from the thousands upon thousands of clinics across England alone, never mind the other areas fabs covers.
Correct me if I'm wrong but the swinging clubs, just list and link the club website and allow feedback from fab-ites, are you suggesting swingers should 'rate' their clinics? And dont most of the clubs actually sponsor fabs? |
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If you are going to be tested, you will be, if you're not, then having a section on here won't suddenly make you change your mind.
And having had someone be absolutely horrified when he saw the bruise on my arm when I had been tested, there are a lot of people on here who aren't tested...ever... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's an STI?
Well if you do not know then you should not be on a swinging site.
Sexually Transmitted Infection"
Oh I never knew that, thanks for the heads up ( holds tongue in cheek ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had similar horrified responses to being tested, some people think you obviously play bareback and fuck everything that moves, sometimes you just can't win |
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"Its not just swingers that have sex. It should be part of your routine when you become sexually active at whatever age."
It should...I was genuinely surprised when I discovered my GP didn't offer it... |
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"Its not just swingers that have sex. It should be part of your routine when you become sexually active at whatever age.
It should...I was genuinely surprised when I discovered my GP didn't offer it..."
I was really proud of my son when he said he had been, he's not a swinger or sleeps around just being sensible. And he went on his own. Laughed when he described it to me though |
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"There is'nt going to be a single person that will post on this thread and say they're not tested regularly"
That's why these types of threads are pointless! All it'll attract is the holier than thous, those seeking a "you go!" from strangers after claiming they get tested after every meet: including a social coffee meet in Costa's!  |
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By *tomCom OP Man
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
"There is'nt going to be a single person that will post on this thread and say they're not tested regularly
That's why these types of threads are pointless! All it'll attract is the holier than thous, those seeking a "you go!" from strangers after claiming they get tested after every meet: including a social coffee meet in Costa's! "
The only way then to get people to understand how important it is, is by talking about it. Saying well the people that need to know should know, so not the way to be. Sticking your head in the sand and saying "It is their problem!" is not the way to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and people are talking about it and do talk about it, admitted usually over in swingers chat.
This subject comes up in clubs too, I know more about some of the clinics in Birmingham than I do about those local to me.
I only use the 1, as I think it makes sense to have my records in one place.
Personally I love costa, never felt the need for a check up afterwards so am I missing something? or is it a location thing?   |
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"There is'nt going to be a single person that will post on this thread and say they're not tested regularly
That's why these types of threads are pointless! All it'll attract is the holier than thous, those seeking a "you go!" from strangers after claiming they get tested after every meet: including a social coffee meet in Costa's!
The only way then to get people to understand how important it is, is by talking about it. Saying well the people that need to know should know, so not the way to be. Sticking your head in the sand and saying "It is their problem!" is not the way to be"
It's rather sweet you thinking talking about it will make a difference. Read the bareback, pregnant, flashing threads: all high risk activities in my humble opinion to see people don't give a monkies about themselves, let alone you or I!
People will do whatever they want, all we can do is take measures to protect ourselves the best we can: that we can control, actions of others we can't! |
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"and people are talking about it and do talk about it, admitted usually over in swingers chat.
This subject comes up in clubs too, I know more about some of the clinics in Birmingham than I do about those local to me.
I only use the 1, as I think it makes sense to have my records in one place.
Personally I love costa, never felt the need for a check up afterwards so am I missing something? or is it a location thing? "
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