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NSA and feelings

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If you were meeting someone for NSA fun and they did something to hurt your feelings, would you tell them?

I get nervous on meets sometimes and a guy mentioned it to other people that we'd only just met. I felt pretty crap about it because it was like he was making fun of me to strangers.

I don't know if I'm just being daft or if other people would be bothered too...?

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By *Ryan-Man over a year ago

In Your Bush

I think you should make it known. Otherwise they won't learn not to be so insensitive the next time.

A squeeze and twist to the left knacker may help it sink in too.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Why was he talking about you to anyone else?

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

personally would have laughed it off but different people react differently .. make it known to him as he probably didn't realise how hurt you felt and he may be a little more sensitive in the future

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Trust me make it known...I was meeting someone and in the end he took me for a right knob....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would tell him xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes tell them honesty is always best policy I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd make it known, regardless of who they are. You should never be made to feel uncomfortable, let alone have your feelings dented!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is my swinging bugbear

A previous meet etc discussing you with their new meet. Had it many times and I've blocked them

No 2nd chances what happens with us is between us and not open for discussion

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why was he talking about you to anyone else?"

It was on a different site. He was mailing someone to sort out a meet. Along the lines of 'she's good fun if a tad too nervous at times'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would tell him xx"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone does something to upset me, he/she will know about it from me, NSA or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

id tell the person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is my swinging bugbear

A previous meet etc discussing you with their new meet. Had it many times and I've blocked them

No 2nd chances what happens with us is between us and not open for discussion

yes its annoying but not surprising.

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By *pecifically1Woman over a year ago

Hull

I would absolutely tell him. Same as I would tell a friend or colleague....

How would they know it bothered you. As for discussing you with someone else...That is BAD show

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks all. I have mentioned it in a round about way but I guess I was too subtle.

One good thing, I'm not so nervous when I'm pissed off at him.

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By *attykitWoman over a year ago

leeds

NSA doesn't mean someone had the right to make you feel uncomfortable or unhappy. You are still human and deserve to be treated with respect. Tell him. I've had guys ask me about previous meets and I've just said that I don't feel comfortable taking about it. At that moment that person is the centre of my attention. Xx

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